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You're so cute! First of all, you can see from your story that you are more introverted! However, being introverted doesn't mean you can't make friends!
It's good to communicate with others with sincerity Let's be specific, you can start with the friends around you! Find one or two friends first, follow them, give them some help, and they will feel your presence and feel your goodness! When they may come to you when they have troubles, then you have succeeded because they already trust you!
Or if you have something to worry about, you can drink them to communicate, and if you can't find a topic, you can just throw out the question you are asking now! Since they may have suggestions that are useful to you, people will get to know you better!
Friends accumulate over time, and communication comes slowly. Once or twice, you might like to chat with others and share with others!
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You are a little introverted and lack enthusiasm for people and things, so you don't have any communication with others, find more hobbies and commonalities with colleagues, and open channels of communication, it's not that everyone doesn't like you, it's that you lack the consensus of others, participate in more group activities, and nod your head to greet your colleagues, so that people can accept you slowly.
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Most inexperienced people will be like this, because you don't have much contact with them, so sometimes you can't pick up what they say, or you don't know the topic they talk about, and over time you will feel that you can't talk to them, and they will feel that they don't have a common language with you.
So, try to join their topic, if you don't know it at the moment, then listen more, then learn more, and talk to them more about topics that interest them.
Actually, I'm also more worried about these, and this is the method I can think of at the momentIn practice, it is still unsatisfactory.
When I first joined the job, I guess I would have come back to this.
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Troubles are every day, every hour, every moment. No matter who you are, no matter where you are, there will be some troubles. And I, of course, will not be an exception.
For students, "homework" is a major difficulty, every day when they come home from school, the whole person is relaxed, and all the tension and helplessness in school are gone. Although there is homework, after all, there is no such depressed emotion. Every day when I come home from school, I face the "hill" of homework with a relaxed and happy mood, which is the case at first, but as time goes by, this feeling gradually decreases, and in the end, all that is left is pain, helplessness and boredom.
Alas, it's so annoying to write homework! Every day is the same thing, the same life: "get up - go to school - get out of school - do your homework - go to bed", the repetition of day by day, the cycle plays out ...... in my lifeSo boring!
Especially – do your homework! I really don't understand, why do students have to have homework? Why don't adults have homework?
Why? Why? Could it be that students should follow the rules and do things under the supervision of teachers and parents every day, doing things that make them feel comfortable, without freedom and no space for themselves!! I want to be free!!
People have three thousand worries, and "homework" is just one, in fact....Ever since I was in junior high school, I've been, for some reason, all the time. Not happy! It's boring!
I think I'm a person who won't mess with people, I don't make a big deal about everything, but, nature is nature, it won't change, I can't stand those things that look and sound angry, whenever this happens, I always want to make myself hold back, but I find that everything is just in vain, why should I suppress myself, I can say what I want, I can do what I want, isn't it my character? So, I'm going to set myself free! Give your nerves a vacation, take a good rest, and avoid causing "nervous bars"!!
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Keep up the good work! At first glance, you are inexperienced, in my woman's point of view, I think she loves you very much, attaches great importance to the relationship between you, so she will not dare to face you, because she is very responsible for the relationship between you, she does not dare to accept you easily, because she has low self-esteem, she is afraid that one day she will lose you because of the distance of age, she is testing you, come on, if you really love her, don't be discouraged, I believe you will move her, congratulations in advance!