Listen to me, right? You speak, I ll listen.

Be strong, think about it, and all the unhappy will pass. That person is so bad, you can see his essence now, this is a good thing for you, otherwise it will be too late to find out later, and your pain will be dozens of times ...... nowBe happy, it will be fine in the future!

Okay, don't be sad, everything is temporary, it's going to pass, it's time to let go, you have to cheer up, let him see, he's leaving you, it's his loss, come on...

Your mother still depends on you.

It's good that you can see his dark side, otherwise it's you who will be hurt if you keep pretending, you have to be inspired by it, and if you are looking for a man, you have to find a man who can be trusted.

People don't often say; Is it darkest before dawn, learn to be strong, rest assured! Everything will pass.

How much love can come back and how many people are willing to wait. Now that you're gone, don't look back.

You may be in love with him, you have to leave in style, don't be sad, don't let yourself live in pain.

Alas, it's really a test given to you by God, so it's natural!!

In that case, do you want him to do it?

Prosperity makes friends, adversity tries them? I think you'd be glad you found out that he was one of those people. From your description, I don't think he's worth your attention!

As for leaving, it would be hard to leave. It's inevitable. But it should be solved sensibly!

Don't be afraid of pain and deceive yourself. Everything will pass, and I hope everything is okay in your home

The day before yesterday, I saw an article called "You say, I listen", what does it mean to say, I listen to Kivo or?

It is a one-on-one square hall with you, listening to your voice through WeChat voice. During this period, you can get no more than an hour of free talk and catharsis, and the listener listens to your real emotions without judgment, helping you to eliminate anxiety through talking, have a positive social attitude and a good emotional state. One sentence sums up "listen for 1 hour", that is, you talk, I listen.

What does this article illustrate? The first explanation is that from a psychological point of view, everyone needs a listener, who can be emotionally soothed, relieve anxiety, and return to a good emotional state in the process of confiding. The second thing I want to say is that in this world, there are so many people who don't listen, you talk for less than a minute, and he will go back in three seconds, either to get to the bottom of the matter, or to be self-righteous, or to give advice and advice.

Have you ever seen that less than a minute of communication can make you angry, it can really be described as "a raging fire burned my heart". Sometimes ask yourself, do you really understand?

If you don't believe me, listen to this father-son conversation.

Son: "School is so boring. ”

Father: "What's going on?" What do you come up with? ”

Son: "What's the moth?" All day long is useless stuff. ”

Father: "What do you say?" I think I thought the same way back then, if you weren't admitted to college, you can't do this! ”

Sub: Stopper. The father then said, "Do you know how much your mother and I have paid to raise you to such an age? Get you a famous school, enroll you in cram schools, sign up for one-on-one, provide you with good food and drink, don't give up halfway, you should study more and play less games.

Son: "Hey, forget it, you don't know me at all!" ”

Slammed the door and left. You see, an ineffective communication ended like this. From childhood to adulthood, we were taught to read, write, and speak, but no one ever taught us how to listen.

However, it is not easy to understand what others are saying, especially from their point of view.

Known. This [Xin Chou] month is the [Xiao Li Yue] for the two of you to get married, and there is no [Chong Sun Punishment Day] that is not conducive to your bride's [Ding Mao Wai]!

The auspicious day of the zodiac in January 2012 for your two marriages is::

For your reference) 2012-01-05 Lunar Calendar December [Golden Day] 12th Thursday Chongyang (Jiwei) [Tiande Except Day] [Wuweng Day] [Tianxi] [Sanhe] [Yuyu].

2012-01-09 Lunar Calendar 12th Month [Wood Day] 16th Monday Chong Pig (癸海) [Yutang Fixed Day] [Zhou Tang Day] [Heavenly Grace] [Official Day] [Bujiang Day].

2012-01-12 Lunar Calendar 12th Month [Earth Day] 19th Thursday Chonghu (Bingyin) [Si Ming Danger Day] [Zhou Tang Day] [Heavenly Grace] [Fu] [Bujiang Day].

2012-01-14 Lunar Calendar 12th [Golden Day] 21st Saturday Chonglong (Wuchen) [Yutang] [Zhoutang Day] [Sanhe] [Liuyi].

2012-01-19 Lunar Calendar 12th Month [Earth Day] 26th Thursday Rushing Chicken (癸酉) 【Green Dragon】【Zhou Tang Day】【Sacred Heart】【Bujiang Day】

2012-01-21 Lunar Calendar 12th [Golden Day] 28th Saturday Chong Pig (Yihai) [Yutang Fixed Day] [Wuweng Day] [Liuhe] [Official Day] [Bujiang Day].

2012-01-24 Lunar Calendar 01 Month [Mu Ri] 02 Tuesday Chonghu (Wu Yin) [Si Ming Danger Day] [Wu Gu Day] [Heavenly Grace] [Baoguang] [Fude] [Jintang] [Bujiang Day].

2012-01-31 Lunar Calendar 01 Month [Wood Day] 09 Tuesday Chong Chicken (Yi You) [Green Dragon] [Sacred Heart] [No Day].

I wish you all happiness and happiness!

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