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The asura path in the six realms often has wars with the heavenly beings of the heavenly realm, and is often defeated The feeling of the landlord can be said to be a habit remnant of the state of the previous life, but no matter what, this life is a human being, the human body is rare, the Dharma smells bad, and it is difficult to pay for the loss of the human body, and it is already a great blessing to be a human being, and the human life is bittersweet, and there is more suffering than happiness, and it is more suitable for studying the Dharma than the other paths and achieving it, and it is recommended that the landlord take a look at the introductory For example, Master Jingkong's "Understanding Buddhism" has a basic and correct understanding of the Dharma, and then go deep into the scriptures and naturally open up great wisdom For the past life, it will also be as clear to you as you are looking at a flower in a mirror.
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Don't be superstitious, friend, those are all fictions.
If there is really a fairy world, do the immortals speak Chinese? So how do they communicate with the Americans? Or do they have to learn a foreign language too?
Buddhism only existed in the 6th century B.C., and there was no Dharma at all before that. For example, how many thousands of eons the Jade Emperor has experienced, and how many tens of thousands of years have been a calamity, but in fact, there was not even the earth at that time, could it be that they were on the sun? They live for free in the sun, and the Greek god Apollo has to charge them rent!
Besides, Buddhism was invented in India, and it stands to reason that if you don't even know Chinese, you have to use Hindi every day. Now that the official language of India is English, is it possible that Rulai has also changed to English? If you think about it, you will know that it is all fake, don't be superstitious.
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Even if there are immortals fighting, it doesn't matter! Men must have an unruly spirit! Do something good, you can always make up for some of your past mistakes. We are all wrong, as long as we can do all evil and do all good. Life will be better. Read the Four Teachings of the Mortal
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Friendship is multifaceted.
Understanding your heart? You know, don't always say that no one understands you. It's about getting to know others first.
Philistines disturb themselves.
Some people deserve to be friends and some people don't.
Because, now society has changed. Maybe some friendships can't be so pure anymore.
And nothing is perfect.
You have to open your heart and let the "sunshine" shine in!
Don't think that if someone understands you, you can't be your own sun?
Of course, you can also talk to friends and family.
Don't be shy. It's normal to be troubled by friendships.
Everyone should have experienced it.
Everyone is not perfect.
Maybe you can talk to each other a little bit more and see what you think.
If there is anything else that bothers you, please ask again, I wish you a happy day!
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There is a confidant in the sea, and if the end of the world is next to each other, it is not so easy to find a confidant, but you must know that at least I understand my heart (
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Ask yourself if you understand the hearts of others.
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Now in this society, there are fewer and fewer single-minded men.
Engaging in ambiguity, that is, you don't have to take any responsibility, and you can get the satisfaction of your heart, of course, men like this. Ay.
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When did you understand.
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Understand your pain first.
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Because, you don't really care about other people.
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Because you haven't really observed other people.
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Feel it with your heart, feel it sincerely, there will be.
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Although it's useless to think about it in the past, I feel that such words are nonsense, how can people not want to, whether they have experienced things or not, this is life, this is growth, from these things can at least let yourself understand some people, things, everyone is experiencing and growing in pain, we walk with you.
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There will be many problems in the process of growing up, and there is a process of maturity.
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It's all about doing a good job now! The past is gone!
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These things are not rushed. You can practice slowly, and besides, I feel that silent people are very good! Silence and few words represent maturity.
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Learn to change yourself and turn negative emotions into positives.
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Resist, passivity will only suffer... Strive for the initiative. Even silence is what you want, and you can't be at the mercy of others. I can't accept that ...
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Everybody is born with a hidden self in their hearts, or the devil is subtle to change.
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Play mini-games to find a sense of accomplishment.
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Find a place to cry and slow down your emotions, confide in some friends who know a little bit, and don't keep it in your heart.
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Why can't you vent your joys, sorrows and sorrows to your best friend, so that you can gain the trust of your friends and solve the unhappiness in your heart.
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Sometimes it's hard to understand yourself.
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I understand you ... Because I also feel that no one can understand me at all.
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Even if you are sad, you can't empathize.
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Rebellious character, likes to be alone, doesn't like to communicate with people to express their inner thoughts, doesn't like to talk, always thinks that others are so good, they are so bad, give.
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Express yourself more and you'll get used to it. If you want to have self-confidence, you can only do what you haven't done before, and it will be effective for a while.
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Go out and play more in groups, so that you will gradually become more cheerful.
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When you have the opportunity, do it and don't procrastinate.
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Is your low self-esteem income? Degree? Appearance? Job? Ability? Or family?
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Because you haven't made it yet, cowardly.
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Overcome yourself and your faith will be full.
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Mark Twain's humor is actually a mockery of this society. The filth of society, and the dissatisfaction and resentment in his heart, he could not change it, and could only express this grief and indignation in a humorous way.
Personal opinion.
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As Jonathan said: Humor is the only way to tell a sad story authentically. These two sentences have the same effect, and my understanding is: when people are most helpless, they can only laugh.
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Dissolve the sadness in your heart with a humorous tone.
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Life is full of troubles in the world, there is no straight road in life, and there are ups and downs in life. Time can't stand still, so there's no need to be sad. A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less.
The road of life is very long, and there are many troubles. Adjust your mindset. A good mood is heaven, and anger is hell, and if you want to be happy, forget the unpleasant, and the unpleasant things are in the past.
Don't think about it anymore, it's like a calendar you flip through and don't turn it back. Go climb the mountain, see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, and dance. Time will dilute everything, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed.
After the rain, the sky will be clear, and the rainbow will appear. As long as you adjust your mentality, everything will be fine.
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Everyone is lonely since birth, all the fun, all the things that they think are meaningful are just anesthetics, loneliness can be forgotten temporarily, but it cannot be shaken off for life, you have to learn to adapt, because the more lonely you are, the stronger your heart will become.
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It is recommended to make more friends and do more activities. Or exercising can also be out of the inner loneliness.
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Live like a lonely patient pulling on himself.
Loneliness can be divided into inner loneliness or superficial loneliness of a person. It depends on which one you belong to!
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As long as we understand and accept the existence of loneliness and other pains, do not fall into a vicious circle, and learn to direct our attention to the outside world and do what we want to do and should do, the pain will gradually subside, that is to say, "do nothing without doing", do not want to disappear, and achieve the goal of disappearing automatically. Secondly; Change your cognitive attitudes and mood to manage tension and loneliness. Psychology believes that people's inner thoughts, interpretations, and self-talk affect emotions.
If you are afraid of new job requirements or new environment, and you always want to escape, or you feel that you can't cope with it, you will feel nervous and fearful, and sometimes you will feel disappointed, lonely and helpless. But if you see the new job requirements and the new environment as a challenge and an opportunity, an opportunity for spiritual growth, and you approach it with a new attitude and a new perspective, there will be many possible options. If you believe that you are capable enough to deal with it.
When you give yourself positive hints, see hope in every problem, or laugh at your weakness with humor, you can motivate yourself to solve the difficulties you face. By overcoming difficulties one by one, your problem-solving skills will also increase, and your mental world will grow further. Frustrations and unsatisfactory things in life are common, and it is precisely because of all this that people become mature and strong.
Again, improving social support and creating the right environment is helpful for everyone.
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Attend events, shop, and chat with friends. If you have the conditions, you can travel, see the scenery, and pat the **. Inner loneliness is mostly influenced by the external environment, and a change may be beneficial to alleviate the loneliness situation.
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Loneliness is the lack of normal social contact. Social psychologists believe that loneliness has the following three characteristics: First, it.
is caused by defects in social relationships; secondly, it is unpleasant and distressing; In the end, it is a subjective feeling and not.
An objective state. There are generally two types of loneliness: one is emotional isolation, which refers to the reluctance of a lonely person to interact with the people around them;
The second is social isolation, in which lonely people do not have a network of friends or relatives.
The causes of loneliness are many and complex, such as career setbacks, lack of interaction with the opposite sex, loss of the love of parents, discord between husband and wife, lack of friends around, etc. In addition, loneliness is also related to people's personality. For example, some people are emotional.
volatile, often ups and downs, easy to offend others, and thus fall into a state of loneliness; Others are good at calculating.
Considering personal gains and losses is too heavy, which causes obstacles to interpersonal communication.
Undoubtedly, loneliness is a state that people do not want to accept, and it brings people all kinds of negative experiences, such as depression
Helplessness, depression, irritability, low self-esteem, despair, etc., so loneliness is very harmful to human health. According to statistics, good health.
But mentally lonely people die twice as many times in a decade as those who are healthy and gregarious. The essence of man.
God's loneliness causes as much mortality as smoking, obesity, and high blood pressure. So, the lonely person copes with himself.
We should make a calm, objective and reasonable estimate, and pay special attention to discovering some of our own strengths in order to enhance our self-esteem.
Letter. Psychologists have found that some of the behaviors of lonely people often put them in an unlikable position. Like them.
Pay little attention to the other person in the conversation. I only pay attention to myself in conversation, I rarely talk to the other party, and I often change the topic suddenly, and I am not good at it.
Fill in the gaps in the conversation in a timely manner. But when these lonely people receive some social training, such as learning how to pay attention to the conversation with each other.
, their loneliness will be greatly reduced.
Finally, lonely people should pay attention to cultivating their own joy in life, and often take a little time to reach out to others and gradually change.
Own closed lifestyle. Consciously participate in some group activities to strengthen your sense of participation, which will make you discover.
There are many interesting things and people that make you unconsciously become one with others.
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Everyone should enjoy solitude, think of us coming into this world alone, leaving alone, being alone from beginning to end, we have to learn to adapt and enjoy this state!
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Month friends or family go to play or sports area!
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How to solve loneliness? Redeem me for you.
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Why don't you try to develop a hobby?
Sometimes when you get busy, you may forget.
In fact, loneliness is something that urban people have.
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Loneliness is that you don't like to accept the bits and pieces of society, and loneliness is the same.
My own personality is related, but loneliness is created by myself, because I am afraid of contact with the outside world, when you encounter poke rules, I like to think lonely, then your lonely behavior, introverted people will do this, I will be lonely sometimes, that is because I don't accept anyone's invitation, just when you are lonely, sometimes you will lose your most important thing, that is, the indispensable love in life. Let yourself try to connect with the world. Come on.
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