What should you do if your girlfriend who has been with you for a long time suddenly tells you that

Updated on psychology 2024-08-01
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Why didn't she tell you at the beginning, because she didn't know how long she would be with you, maybe it was very short, she didn't think it was necessary, why did she tell you now, I think she might have been with you for a long time, and she really wanted to live with you, so she told you about it. She can tell you that she cares about you very much, she wants to tell you her true situation, but she is afraid that you will not be able to accept it if you know it in the future, and she can say it to show that she has gone through a long ideological struggle, which is not easy.

    Now the question is whether you really want her and whether you want to live with her and start a family together.

    Everyone has taken a detour on the road of life, and we need to understand. The past is not important anymore, what matters is the present and the future, she can tell you to prove that she is a good girl, and I hope you will seriously consider it before making a decision.

    Giving someone else a chance is also giving yourself a chance.

    If you can't accept it for a while, then think about it seriously, if you really can't accept it, then you have to separate, don't affect each other's feelings because you have this in your heart, and you can't always talk about this thing after getting married.

    Find someone who loves you, find someone you love, and I wish you all an early comeback.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Because you love her very much now, and she loves you very much, so when the love reaches a certain stage, she chooses to confess to you, so from a certain point of view, she loves you very much, so she chooses to confess, if she hides from you, you won't know, since you choose to love, since you choose to confess.

    Who can not have those pasts, who can not make mistakes.

    Why not be tolerant of the choice times.

    Give yourself and the girl a chance.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It's good to know that you can change your mistakes, it mainly depends on you, do you value this matter? Heavy. Just let it go, it's not heavy. Don't worry, who hasn't been there? Now that she is yours does not mean that she was also yours in the past, cherish the people in front of you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Before you is the past, I think after you is the point! , as long as I'm with you when I'm dedicated to living with you, other reasons shouldn't be a problem, the key is not to be honest with you, then it's over.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    At that time, she must have been for love.

    Isn't a woman worthy of your love if she loses her first time?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    -The trouser belt was not tight before, and the trouser belt is loose later. Kick!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's boring, it's too inattentive.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My situation is much more serious than yours What should I do I couldn't accept it at first Then I slowly found out that I was in love with her Love is my past with her I know I'm stupid But this is love.

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