What should I do if I change it after a breakup? I love her so much

Updated on psychology 2024-04-27
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If she's really good to you, she'll break up with you. There must be a reason why she feels that she is not suitable for you, otherwise, she would not have done it.

    If you have a good attitude, it's better to be friends.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Brother, time is the best medicine to heal wounds, although it works a little slower.

    If you can feel sad for her like this, it shows that you are a very emotional person.

    Since your girlfriend can say things like being friends, then there is no place for you in his heart, so why bother with her, and it is even more difficult for you.

    Look away, I've had this experience too, and I thought the same way you did, and now I think about how stupid it is to feel like I'm really unproductive and sad for a woman who doesn't like me anymore.

    Men still focus on their careers Don't overdo their children's personal feelings Use your efforts in exchange for the respect and recognition of others Realize the value of your life At that time, will you still worry about women Women who are better than her and who are more suitable for you will take the initiative to come to the door You can't get rid of it if you want to.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Good boy: Give yourself some time to go crazy

    It doesn't have to be too long, half a year at most.

    Drunk yourself at Christmas, skip class if you're a student, go where you frequented or wanted to go that you never went, and indulge yourself desperately to miss your love ......

    After half a year, you will find that your love fades.

    After half a year, you will work hard and study After all, in your future life, you will still be responsible for the girl who married you, gave your life to you, and gave your life happiness to you.

    Such men are the most responsible!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Know how to cherish it so that you will not regret it in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Haha, it's the same as me, but there will definitely be discomfort in my heart, time can change a person, just look at the point, you can't say that you can't find half of yourself if you separate,

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After separation, many things that I can't remember will be remembered more and more clearly, maybe because I thought it was yours before the separation, I didn't care so much, separated, I couldn't come back, only to find that those were so precious, people are often like this, turning a blind eye to what they have, to envy others, in fact, what they have is the best, but unfortunately we all understand too late.

    Of course, there are also some people who feel more in love with each other after a breakup because they can't keep each other. That kind of psychology is not only reluctant, but also unwilling. People's unwillingness and frustration often make you feel that you can't do without someone, and you feel that if you lose that person, you will die.

    In fact, it is not necessarily how much love you have, but it is mixed with other factors, such as face, such as possessiveness, such as conquering the heart, and these emotions make you think that you love someone very much.

    This kind of love is mostly just for getting and having. True love, there is only one thought, that is, I want him to be happy, if he is not happy with himself, then let him be happy with others.

    Most people think that it is a kind of self-unwillingness or not to get the psychological talent, but love each other more, personally think, one is to fall out of love, can be calm and full of thinking, find their own shortcomings, in this relationship deeply understand the advantages of the other party. The second is that this relationship lacks the courage to love, and it is easy to break up, and after many years, it is found that he is young and frivolous, causing him to miss, and he becomes the party at fault.

    At this time, there will be a series of strong reactions. So after reading this article, before love is lost, I hope that you in love can cherish each other and be able to grasp every moment of love.

    Therefore, when facing the confusion of falling in love with each other more after a breakup, you must first think clearly: is it really more in love, or is possessiveness at work? People often break up because of anger, disappointment, chills, and helplessness.

    At the moment of the breakup, all you see is the bad of the other party, and after the breakup, because of the time and distance, the bad emotions at the time of the breakup are diluted, but it aggravates the good feeling of being together, and the memories are repeated over and over again in the mind, and the memories selectively leave the good moments, and filter the bad past.

    So you will feel that the other person's image has become even better than when you were together, and the other person's love for you is so much, so sincere, that you regret it and want to do it again.

    But you must know that it is the brain that selectively blocks some bad memories, not that the other party is really as good to you as in the memory, if it is really that good, why did you break up? So if you feel more in love with each other, it's better to think back to the reasons why you broke up in the first place and what you couldn't accept with him, and don't be deceived by memory.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After the breakup, if you feel more in love with each other, then in this case, after the breakup, you will understand who is really good to you, if you have already broken up. At this time, it is really too late to regret it. If you don't want to be separated, then try to make amends.

    Let's see if we can reunite with your efforts.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You say that after you broke up, you seem to feel that you love the person before you more, which means that you did not think carefully when you broke up, and then broke up in a hurry, and then regretted it after the breakup.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's true that you feel more in love with each other after a breakup, because only when you lose will you cherish it more, and you can redeem him and change what he doesn't like about you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's normal to feel more in love with each other after breaking up, it's a long smell, it's annoying to be tired every day, and I want to want it after separation.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When two people are together, they don't know how to cherish, but after separation, they regret it, and in retrospect, they miss each other even more, which is also a kind of love, as long as the person is still there, as long as he is not married, you have a chance to redeem it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After the breakup, I feel like I love each other more, and I say that you should take that feeling to heart, not uh, just in case you keep or go back to find a reunion, so that I will feel that you are a capricious person for my behavior.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    After breaking up, but I feel that I love each other more, what should I do if I lose it to know that I cherish it, then I should chase it back, don't regret it, and don't be ashamed to put it down.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Follow your inner feelings, speak up bravely, and don't let true love slip away!!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After the breakup, I personally feel that if I speak on my own, I feel that I love each other more, so I can't help it, so I will continue to get back together.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Some feelings may only be known after the two break up, so they don't cherish each other well in love, and they feel that each other is so good when they lose, so all this has passed, and I hope to cherish the people around me more in the future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After a breakup, I feel like I love each other more, what should I do? I feel that the other party's words will be boldly said to see if there is any possibility of being together? Then you can continue to practice with him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then go to him, of course, if he doesn't have a significant other yet.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    After the breakup, I felt that I loved each other more, and I think that should be the case. It shows that there is still affection between you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then go and redeem the other party, admit your mistakes again, and then save this relationship, don't let yourself regret it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Because after the breakup, you can really appreciate his goodness. This is the so-called loss, and only then will you know how to cherish it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    After the breakup, you feel that you love each other more, you should actually let go or let go of the love that hurts the most and can't, that's the best.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In the face of such a situation, you should control your feelings, and at the same time, you must understand whether this feeling is love or unwillingness.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You must not choose to turn back, good horses do not eat back grass, you have to look forward and do not repeat the mistakes of the past.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    After the breakup, I couldn't find a partner, so I felt that I loved each other more.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The moment I decided to give up on you, I cried. There are some things that don't belong to you if you like them anymore. There are some things that are doomed to give up if you miss them again.

    There are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love be a hurt. Some fates are destined to be lost, and some never end well. You don't have to love someone, but if you have one, you have to love them well.

    The man cried because he really loved him. The woman cried because she really gave up.

    If sincerity is a hurt, I choose to lie. If a lie is a hurt, I choose to be silent; If silence is a hurt, I choose to leave. If loss is painful, are you afraid to give, and if confusion is bitter, will you choose to end?

    If the pursuit is bitter, will you choose to be stubborn, if separation is painful, who do you want to talk to, many things can be seen clearly later, many things do not feel bitter at the time, but they can't find the way out.

    There is a kind of love that is obviously deep love, but it cannot be said. There is a kind of love that I want to give up, but I can't give up. There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't open it.

    There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way out, but the heart has long been lost. I cried when I decided to give up on you, and my tears proved that I really love you. There is a halo effect between you.

    When you look at each other, you'll both glow. What attracts the other party is also the good of the other party. Therefore, driven by positive emotions, you will automatically compensate for a lot of the good in the other person.

    In the process of getting along, you gradually get used to the good points of the other person. It is also why once the other party exposes their shortcomings, you can't accept it, which is why many people fall in love because they don't understand, and they separate because they understand. After a love breakup, the person who has been broken up usually blames themselves excessively, thinking that they must have done something wrong.

    For example, I think that falling in love and arguing must be my own problem. I hope there were no quarrels at first. This kind of self-blame can make people feel that the breakup was self-inflicted and regret it very much.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In this case, you can redeem the other party, find the reason for the breakup, make some changes or divert attention, and go out to play with other friends, which can be alleviated.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In the face of this situation, you should first understand whether your feelings for this relationship are unwilling or love. Then you should also give yourself the right psychological cues and tell yourself that there is a more suitable person waiting for you ahead.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you really feel more in love with each other after you break up, in this case, I think you can pursue each other again and love each other more, and you should express it even more.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This is not a fact, just a subjective feeling. After a breakup, they will not see each other for a long time, and both parties will feel fresh, so they will feel that the other party is very attractive and loves both parties.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you have only been separated for a short time, and you have this kind of thought, it proves that you have found your object, and you didn't see it when you were together, and if you still like it, try to chase it, maybe he is also trying to reconcile with you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You should make it clear to the other person, and you should reconcile with the other person, and you should also apologize to the other person, so that's fine, and then the two of you will reconcile.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Sometimes I feel that I love each other more, like this situation is completely a person who doesn't understand each other's dedication to you when you're in love, and takes everything the other party does to you for granted, so under strong preconditions, if you have proposed to break up, but both parties are still single, it's best to meet each other, and then explain things clearly, to see if each other can still be together.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you feel that you love each other more after breaking up, in this case, you can only suggest that the landlord chase the other party back. If there is room for redemption, then it can only be done. In this way, your heart will not be so empty anymore.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    When you fall in love with each other again after a breakup, you must keep a clear awareness, because this love is due to the conflict between the two of you due to the increase in distance for twenty or thirty hours. In fact, the contradiction between the two of you has always existed.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    This is just a momentary feeling when you just broke up, and you are not used to it at first, because you will feel very lonely when you are with each other for a long time, and you will love each other more.

    But after a while, I will think that two people are together, there are too many contradictions, there is no way to get along, and in the end, I will turn my mind sideways and slowly forget each other.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Because after the breakup, you are more willing to miss each other's advantages, and the two parties are not lovers, and your expectations of each other have also changed, so when the other party shows a little concern for you, you are more likely to be moved, so you must distinguish whether you really love each other or a momentary touch, true love will strive to get back together, otherwise stay away.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    After the breakup, I felt that I loved each other more. Then if he still loves you, you can try to get back together so that you can connect seamlessly. But my heart has already left, and I can only let go.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    In this case, you can go and talk to the other party about getting back together.

    Because I feel that I love each other more, the two of you have an emotional foundation, and when you talk about getting back together, he will definitely agree.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    This situation is that when you break up, you don't think about it clearly, you always blame the other party for the problem, thinking that you have no mistakes at all, after the breakup, you can have more time to think about your mistakes, at this time you will feel regretful, and if you want to get the love back, you should first take the initiative to re-confess to the other party.

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