Is it really only suitable to be an ordinary friend if you confess to a friend you have known for ma

Updated on psychology 2024-08-03
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    It's true that it's only suitable to be ordinary friends, because they know each other too well, so they don't have the ability to attract each other, so I think it's only suitable to be ordinary friends.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    I think it's suitable to be friends, after all, I've been friends for so many years, if there is that meaning, we have been together for a long time, how can we still be now?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If a friend who has known each other for many years is rejected to confess, it means that the two of you are not suitable and can only get along as good friends, but if you confess, you may not even be able to be friends.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    For friends who have known each other for many years, they should not be lovers, but only friends, because two people are too familiar, and people who are too familiar cannot be couples, because it will be very embarrassing in life!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you have known each other for many years, you should only be friends, not lovers, because you have been friends for many years, and it is difficult to change this relationship.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Since they are friends who have known each other for many years, there is always a hurdle that cannot develop into a couple, because some people are not suitable, they are not suitable, they don't like you, they don't like you, and you have no way to change it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I feel that I am not suitable to be ordinary friends because two people have known each other for many years, and it will be embarrassing to be friends again.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Since they have known each other for many years, it means that both parties know each other very well, and if the confession is rejected, it is the wisest choice to be an ordinary friend.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe it's because they've known each other for a long time and know each other, so they know that the other party is not suitable for them, but I think ordinary friends are still okay.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I feel that after being rejected to confess to her, even ordinary friends can't do it, because you already know what the other party thinks about you, so it may be difficult for even friends to do it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think if you have known friends for many years, it is very embarrassing to confess to be rejected, because the two of you are very familiar with each other, and if you are rejected again, how will you meet in the future.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I've known each other for a long time, it's good to be friends, and the relationship has developed for many years, this varies from person to person, many of them are not even friends in the end, and it's not bad to have a friend around you from another angle.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think that in the end, I may not even be able to do such a thing, so I ask you if it is embarrassing.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, there is no way if others disagree, you have to learn to accept the cruel reality.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you can be friends, you can pretend to be a friend first, and then confess again later.

    Falling in love is never a person's business, so when you confess and are rejected by the other party, this does not necessarily announce the end of the relationship, don't rush to draw a rest. So, how do you deal with this relationship?

    1. Don't be in a hurry to break off the relationship.

    In fact, some romances in life start with rejection, so when you are rejected, don't rush to break or give up the relationship.

    After rejection, the first thing you have to do is to figure out the reason for the rejection, whether it is because your impatient personality is causing pressure on the other party, or because your relationship is not yet in the heat of that official relationship.

    However, no matter what, when you are rejected, you must first understand the reason and don't give up easily. If this rejection is just because your relationship is not hot enough to start a relationship, then you might as well give each other more time together, and maybe next time you can keep the clouds open and see the sunrise.

    2. Confession needs to be sincere, don't use jokes to hide your inner fear of failure.

    Boys love face, so they are always worried that they will lose face if they are rejected, so they habitually use jokes to indirectly express their true feelings, thinking in their hearts that if Zhichi fails, it can be said that it is just a joke with the other party.

    However, you never thought that this kind of tongue-in-cheek confession would give the other party a casual and insincere feeling, and if the other party is a careful and cautious girl, then they will definitely reject you.

    Therefore, when a boy confesses, it is better to be sincere and not too casual. If this still fails, then it comes down to the first point, don't be in a hurry to give up, after all, people will change, and if you don't feel anything at this stage, it doesn't mean that you will always be without feelings in the future.

    3. Calmly and maturely face failure.

    After being rejected, you seriously reflect and understand the reasons for the failure, and find that the other party really just treats you as a friend, then you don't have to be sad and sad, and you don't need to "self-deprecating", because love can never be obtained by force.

    At this time, what you have to do is to face up to this relationship, summarize the reasons for failure, don't let negative emotions plague life, take this failure as a kind of learning, and be able to grasp the opportunity more confidently and find your own unique love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. My personal opinion, if the confession is rejected, try not to be friends anymore, because one wants to close the distance, the other wants to distance the distance, it is very awkward, and it belongs to the feeling of self-deception and careful maintenance of friendship.

    Can you still be friends if your confession is rejected?

    Hello, I am Zihan, a national second-level psychological counselor, a platform emotional counselor, mainly good at psychological and emotional analysis and answers, I am very happy to be here to provide you with relevant consulting services, I will be here to answer the questions you raised, please wait.

    Whether you can be friends after being rejected depends on the intention of both of you, as long as one party thinks that they don't want to contact again and feels embarrassed, the other party should respect the other party's opinion and choose to leave.

    It's respect for the other person and for yourself.

    My personal opinion, if the confession is rejected, try not to be friends anymore, because one wants to close the distance, the other wants to distance the distance, it is very awkward, and it belongs to the feeling of self-deception and careful maintenance of friendship.

    Girls confess to boys.

    No matter who confesses to whom, if it is rejected, I do not recommend continuing to be friends, because it will be very fake, and the confessing party will be uncomfortable

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1.Give each other some time to ease the atmosphere You can still be friends after the confession is rejected, but you can't be in a hurry, it is impossible to quickly restore the original relationship, but believe that time can dilute everything, give each other some time and space, calm down, and wait until both parties can let go of each other.

    2.Start with friends to cultivate feelings If you still don't give up on each other and have expectations, starting from friends again, slowly cultivating feelings is also a good choice, the reason why you are rejected may be that the other party has not yet had a good impression of you, you behave well, start from friends, two people keep in touch, then your relationship still has a chance.

    3. Don't care too much about your mentality.

    Whether it is a boy or a girl, you must understand that confession is a brave thing, and being rejected will not be disgraceful, only oak search to correct the mentality, do not have to mind too much as before, one more friend is not bad, as long as the mentality is adjusted, the two will not be too embarrassed when they meet, so whether you can be a friend after the rejection of the confession depends on your own heart, whether you can let go.

    4. Don't dwell too much on rejection.

    If you are too entangled after being confessed again, and provoke the other party to be disgusted and embarrassed, then you will naturally not be able to be friends, the twisted melon is not sweet, and you must respect the other party's choice, so that you will not lose a friend if you can't confess, and you will lose your wife and soldiers.

    Hope it helps.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can't be friends anymore, because you made a lot of efforts to decide to confess to each other, but the other party refused, at that time you will be very sad, and there is a trace of complaint, so it is impossible for the two of you to be friends.

    If you have a sedan chair that you particularly like, but you confess failure, then you have to learn to adjust your mentality, because confession of this thing, there are times when there are successes and unsuccesses, we don't care too much, although we will be sad for a while, but I think as long as we are good enough, we will be able to meet a special person for ourselves in the future, and after the confession fails, we don't need to bother each other, and there is no need to be friends with each other, because even if we are friends, The relationship between the two will also be particularly awkward, and there is nothing to talk about when you get along, so it is better to be a stranger.

    You can find that many people will not be friends with each other at all after they fail to confess, because they know that even if they are friends with each other, the other party will not necessarily agree, it is better to do nothing, when nothing happens, if you fail to confess, and insist on being friends with the other party, then the other party will feel particularly embarrassed, because he doesn't know what kind of identity to get along with you, after all, you have just confessed to him, and you have to be friends at this time, This will be particularly difficult for any person, so in order not to embarrass the other party, you should not be friends with the other party, and the other party may find the other half in the future, and you will be even more uncomfortable at that time, it is better not to know him and treat him as a stranger.

    Confession of this thing has a time of success, when it fails, so before you confess, you must have a good attitude, to be prepared for rejection, so that you will not be so disappointed, and after the confession failure, do not have anything to do with the other party, and do not think about being friends with the other party, then you will leave a good image of the other party, if the confession fails, you still have to pester the other party, and be friends with the other party, then the other party will feel particularly annoying, I won't grant your request at all.

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