What is the reason behind the increasing reluctance of young people to have children?

Young people are becoming more and more reluctant to have children, and there are many reasons behind this, first of all, the first point is that most young people are relatively independent now, and feel that having children will only affect their future development. Moreover, having a child will also bind yourself, resulting in no way to complete work and other aspects in time. There are also some young people who pay more attention to themselves, after giving birth, the girl's figure will change, it will become ugly, and there will be stretch marks on the stomach, and giving birth to a child is also very painful, so most girls are reluctant to have children.

Now the cost of raising a child is also very high, the child will start to spend money after birth, to be more precise, the child is not yet born, the moment the mother is pregnant with the child, she must continue to invest in the child. And there are some parents, who are not particularly old themselves, and are unable to take care of their children at all, and often get physically and mentally exhausted. In addition, everyone is also very afraid that if there are some problems in the relationship between husband and wife in the future, and the existence of children, it will lead to divorce becoming very difficult.

I think there is actually a reason for gender antagonism, in most people's minds, women lose the meaning of their lives if they don't have children. Nowadays, most girls are more front-end, and most girls feel that they have to work hard and show their strengths through work, rather than by having children.

It's not just that they don't want to have children, but most young people are now reluctant to get married, because many young people now feel that they don't necessarily have a good ending after getting married. Here, I would like to remind everyone that whether it is having children or getting married, it is not necessarily scary, if we can meet the right person, if we can meet someone we like, we may be willing to give each other children. However, having a child does need to be thought through, after all, a child is a living life.

It is because young people feel that it is very painful to have children, especially some girls, and now that they have children, it may affect the relationship between the husband and wife.

Mainly because the price is too high now, it is difficult to live by yourself, what children do you have?

Mainly because young people are becoming more and more sober, and they don't want their children to become hard screws too.

The main thing is that he really has no money, so he doesn't dare to have children. In the past era, there was not much difference between rich and poor, so naturally there was no need to think too much, find a partner, get married early, have children early, and as the children grew up day by day, the days passed like this, and there seemed to be nothing wrong with it. Now after all, it is different from which era in the past, raising children now requires a lot of money, and it is not so easy, coupled with the solidification of classes, as well as the influence of a series of factors, it is becoming more and more difficult for everyone to make money, and those who have no money are even more afraid to have children.

If you can't raise children well, you are still busy realizing yourself, and some people are unwilling to have children, not only for material reasons. This kind of person is often more capable and very ambitious, but they are just dragged down by their original family, and their background is not good, and they have no material foundation to start a family when they are very young.

Negatively affected by the network. There are many negative topics on the Internet about abortion, abortion and other fertility topics, as long as residents spend a long time online, the cover people will be exposed to more of this information, and they will be more affected, resulting in anxiety about early childbirth and reducing their willingness to have children. As some reports say, "For every 1% increase in online time, an individual's desire to have children decreases."

Clause. Second, it is affected by the cost of childbirth. The increasing cost of having a child will reduce or weaken the willingness and ability of people with low education and low income to have children.

Because having a child requires more hard work and higher investment in education, more people would rather choose a Dink family than spend more time, energy, and investment in having a child.

To sum up, it is necessary to look at the problem of childbirth scientifically, to believe in better and better medical conditions, and to reduce fertility anxiety, which is the happy life pursued by residents of childbearing age.

Of course, there are many reasons, the main one is to worry about it. It does not have the backward concept of the previous generation of raising children to prevent old age, and it also weakens the mission of passing on the responsibility of the ancestors. We start from our own feelings and begin to reflect on the parent-child relationship in this society, believing that having children is something that needs to be treated with caution, and we do not want children to grow up in the same environment as they once were.

There is also the problem of housing, we are facing scary housing prices, especially school district housing, and high parenting costs compared to when we were young. If you can't even provide a stable growth environment, and you forcibly give birth to a child, then your life will not be comfortable, and it will be difficult for your child to grow up healthily.

Finally, in terms of time, the country's development has gradually slowed down from the rapid changes of the past. At this time, it is neither like our father's time when there were many opportunities, nor like our grandparents' time when everyone was full of family and country feelings. I tease people to recognize their own insignificance, to accept their ordinariness, and to think that they don't have to leave offspring.

Having children becomes an option, not a must, throughout your life. Now with the improvement of material prudence and quality of living standards, young people are now comparing others to buy a house and a car, and I must buy a house and a car with a loan, so there is very little money left after paying a mortgage or car loan every month, Alexander, so many young people don't want to have a baby. In some areas, the bride price is very high for marriage, resulting in many young people are afraid to get married, they think that after marriage, they have to repay debts and repay mortgages or car loans, so there is not much money left in their hands for a month, and they dare not get married and have babies, so the desire to give birth is getting more and more bottom.

There are also some people who were born in the 90s, many of them are only children, and after marriage, the two young people have to support both parents and even 5 or 6 old people, and the economic conditions are not very good, and they have to support the elderly and raise the young, so there is no desire to have children. In real life, there are also many young people who disregard the feelings of the honey adults who are self-indulgent and staring at themselves, and do something against the wishes of their parents! Disappointing a lot of adults!

I've been thinking about this question for a long time. I love children, but I certainly wouldn't rush into bringing a child into the world. Just like I longed for marriage, I never doubted the sanctity of marriage, but I was determined to enter into marriage with someone I loved.

I've seen so many unhappy marriages and found that this thing doesn't look like what I fantasized about at all. My cousin, cousin, and cousin are all divorced, and my cousin and cousin still have children. This is a situation that I can't even think of, the divorce of relatives who are a year or two older than me.

In addition to them, I have also met people who are younger than me, but divorced.

Nowadays, the social and economic pressure is relatively large, like many young people's housing loans, car loans, and daily expenses, if they are ordinary office workers, they are really stretched, and there is no surplus money to support a child。Especially women, because pregnancy and childbirth will delay work, and if a man's ability is average, he will not be able to support the family at all. There is also the case of not having enough of it.

From an objective point of viewThe economic cost of having a child is much higher than before, and the time required makes many families with working couples feel embarrassed!

From a subjective point of viewFirst, some couples still want to live a carefree life for a few years because they are young; Second, some couples may be influenced by the Dink family trend in society; Third, under the current social pension conditions, some couples no longer need to worry about life after old age, and the concept of "raising children to prevent old age" has been diluted!

Personally, I think that young people who do not want to have children have the following four situations:

The first type of people, generally relatively young couples, their mentality is not yet mature, and their psychological age is still like that of children. They are unwilling to take on the responsibilities of adults, and they just want to live a sweet world of two people when they get married, and they don't want to be burdened by the fact of having children.

The second type of people, they may be middle-aged couples who have passed their optimal childbearing age. It's not that I don't want children, it's that I have more than enough heart but not enough power, and I gave birth. It may have cost a lot of money to try IVF, but that is not 100% successful, it depends on fate.

The last kind of peopleThey may have been divorced, and once their feelings have been hurt, they are not willing to do it again. Even if you find a second marriage, you won't trust each other easily, and you don't dare or don't want to have children for each other at all. Fear of being hurt again.

Because these young people nowadays feel that they can live a good life, their life is too stressful, so they feel that they don't want to have any more children, and the cost of children is also very large, and they feel that they can't afford it.

Because contemporary young people look at things very thoroughly, they know that the cost of raising a child is far more than their own high-quality life and pension, and they also consider that the energy and time spent on raising a child may have to give up their own love and pursuit.

It may be that young people are under more and more pressure nowadays. As a result, they feel that they don't have so much energy and time to have children.

That's because the pressure on young people's lives is very high nowadays, and children will only increase the financial pressure on them.

It is because young people nowadays have a lot of pressure in their lives, and they also feel that it is more troublesome to have children, and now they still enjoy the life of two people more and do not want to burden themselves.

The reason is that young people nowadays have a lot of work pressure and no savings, so they dare not have children to add burden to themselves.

Because young people are under a lot of pressure, not only the pressure to buy a house, but also to bear the car loan, credit card repayment, etc., and their concept of marriage and childbirth has also undergone substantial changes.

Nowadays, young people are under more pressure at work and under greater economic pressure, and having children may reduce their quality of life.

Because many young people don't want to put too much burden on themselves, they are reluctant to have children and want to make their finances very good.

The main stress that has nothing to do with overtime is high. Bring back high.

At present, young people are reluctant to have children, mainly facing problems such as "high cost of childbirth", "high housing pressure", and "employment and unemployment pressure".

Young people are reluctant to have children, not just because they don't have money.

As can be seen from the results of the census, there has been a marked decline in the natural birth rate.

But these days, having a baby is not just as simple as a tadpole coming out of the body of a father. Although it was only a momentary thing, it took at least 20 years for a small tadpole to become a "four-legged gold-swallowing beast".

After that, raising children is different from the past, in the past, having a baby, holding a bag of cornmeal, it was enough for the whole family to eat and drink, without thinking about education, economic and other issues;

But now that I have a baby, I have to take care of the changes in my wife's pregnancy, the recuperation of my child, the hard work of raising a child, the education of my child, and the economic infrastructure for the future child to become an adult.

Secondly, raising a child requires a lot of financial and material resources, and for parents, it also requires a certain amount of mental pressure. Children do not grow up at once, but need 300% effort and energy from their parents to cultivate.

There are too many problems, and the matter of having a child with a stupid ruler has become more than just energy.

Having a child is not the same as having a pet, and the decision to have a child means that young parents will have to grow up quickly, at least for decades to come.

So, it's not that young people don't want to give birth, it's that they don't have the time, strength and energy to give birth, and today's young people, before they are ready for all this, prefer to focus these energies on their own lives.