Share your views on the signs?

There are differences between conflict, restraint, punishment, and harm. This belongs to the traditional Chinese culture, and people who are incompatible will generally have some quarrels and unpleasant things.

I think that some of the phases will restrain each other, and if they restrain each other, I think we will often quarrel together in the future, and I think I still believe in this.

The age of the zodiac is used in the calculation of the lunar calendar in our country, and now it is still used to inherit the development and continuation of this culture, and the phase has little to do with marriage.

Generally, marriage or the words of the eight characters are based on the physiognomy, because each zodiac is a kind of character, which is also scientifically based.

The selection and arrangement of the genus is determined according to the time of activity of the animal every day. Since the beginning of the Han Dynasty, China has adopted the twelve hours of the day in the twelve earthly branch record books, and each hour is equivalent to two sides and three knife hours.

The arrangement of the zodiac seats is by no means overnight, nor can it be completed by one generation. At first, it was not necessarily a nomination of twelve at a time, maybe only four or five, maybe there was an excess situation, and then the survival of the fittest, the quota and positioning, has been passed down to this day.

Zodiac and foreign horoscopes are the same type of superstition, and there is no scientific evidence to support them, so I generally don't believe in zodiac signs and marriage.

They said that chickens and monkeys can't be together, but I didn't believe it, because my wife and I are both chickens and monkeys, and there is nothing wrong with it.

The genus is paired with eight characters or something, all according to that Zhou Yi, the five elements of the gossip. If you believe this, you will have it, and if you don't believe it, you will not.

The zodiac sign is also known as the Twelve Year Beast. In the Chinese calendar, there are twelve annual beasts in turn, so our Chinese year is applied to the calendar with rats, oxen, tigers, rabbits, dragons, snakes, horses, sheep, monkeys, chickens, dogs and pigs.

Whether two people can stay together for a lifetime in marriage has little to do with the zodiac and constellation, and can be used as a reference or pastime to see. And whether two people can happily complete the road of life, in addition to the communication of the three views, it is necessary for each other not to fight right and wrong in order to grow old together!!

I haven't studied this aspect, and as long as I live well, no one will tie the genera together.

I often disagree with rats, because I belong to rabbits, so there will be quarrels.

Do you know that there is a difference between the year of birth and the time of birth?

Half of the genus and half of the personality.

Niu Niu, no matter where you are, you are hardworking and down-to-earth, and you are responsible, why is God so unfair???

The genus generally refers to the 12 zodiac signs.

The 12 zodiac signs, also known as the zodiac, are the 12 animals in China that match the year of birth with the 12 earthly branches, including the rat, the bull, the tiger, the rabbit, the dragon, the snake, the horse, the sheep, the monkey, the rooster, the dog, and the pig.

The origin of the zodiac is related to animal worship. According to the Qin Jane unearthed in Yunmeng Sleeping Tiger Land in Hubei Province and Fangmatan in Tianshui in Gansu Province, it can be seen that there was a relatively complete zodiac system in the pre-Qin period. The earliest hand-me-down document that records the same 12 zodiac signs as in modern times is Wang Chong's "On Balance" in the Eastern Han Dynasty.

The conflict, harm, and punishment between the phases, "six impulses", "six harms", and "three punishments". Among them, the degree of mutual punishment is deeper.

The so-called incompatibility mainly refers to the conflict, harm, and punishment between the genera, such as "six impulses", "six harms", and "three punishments". The six strokes refer to the five elements between the six pairs of genus phases, such as:

The rats and horses rushed to each other

Ugly cows and sheep clash with each other

Years of chaos and tiger Shen monkey rush to each other

Rabbits and chickens rush to each other

Chenlong and the dog rushed to each other

Snakes and pigs rush at each other.

This kind of opposition, in fact, is a kind of different five elements aura of Chongke, mostly manifested in the two people's personalities, temperaments and positions, will form a big difference, so get along with many contradictions, but the more people who clash with each other, the easier it is to attract each other, which is the reason why opposites attract each other in physical signification. However, although there is an emotional attraction, the personalities and concepts of the two parties are very different, and sometimes it is difficult to integrate, so it is difficult to get along, even if they barely go through a distance, but the possibility of eventually parting ways is very great.

The six harms are also called six wearing, which also refers to the five elements between the six pairs of genus, which is slightly worse than the six chongs. For example:

The rats did not harm each other

Ugly cows and horses hurt each other

The tiger and the snake harm each other

Mao Rabbit Chen Dragon harms each other

Shen Monkey Hai pig harm

Chickens and dogs harm each other.

This kind of harm actually has a destructive effect on the five elements of the conjunction, such as the combination of the sub-ugly, but the future rushes to the ugly, hindering the combination of the sub-ugly. Therefore, the harming genus becomes a lover or husband and wife, and they will have nothing to do, often quarrel, affect the relationship, and some eventually break up or divorce.

Punishment refers to the punishment between different genera, and it is traditionally believed that the punishment is more severe than the punishment. Figuratively speaking, if Chong is just arguing, harm is harm, then punishment is fighting.

For example, a person was born in January 2021 on the solar calendar, although it is 2021 on the solar calendar, but it is the wax moon of the year of the Gengzi rat on the lunar calendar.

Chinese calculate age often divided into imaginary age and age one, one year refers to a person's actual age, and virtual age is one or two years old added to the age of one. What is the rationale for this?

In fact, this method of calculating age has a certain connection with the ancient calendar of our country. The common calendar in ancient China is the lunar calendar, which is the opposite of the Gregorian calendar (we are used to calling it the solar calendar), which is also called the summer calendar or the lunar calendar and the old calendar. The ancients were accustomed to using the lunar calendar to calculate agricultural time in long-term agricultural production, and gradually became accustomed to using the lunar calendar to calculate many things.

The calculation of imaginary years is an example of this. In ancient times, although there was no unified standard for calculating imaginary years, most people believed that children should be counted as one year old from birth, because the October pregnancy was considered by the ancients to be the embodiment of animism. After that, the age is increased by one year for each Lunar New Year (i.e., the Spring Festival, not the Gregorian New Year), so that the imaginary year is often older than the first year.

If you are born in the twelfth month of the lunar calendar, you will be counted as two years old as soon as the Spring Festival passes, so the imaginary year is two years older than the first year. Therefore, we now summarize the method of calculating the imaginary year: taking the time of calculating the age as the standard, if the calculation time is between the Lunar New Year and the birthday, then the imaginary age = one year + 2 (i.e., two years old); If the calculation time is between the birthday and the Lunar New Year, then the imaginary age = one year + 1 (i.e. the imaginary one year old).

The calculation method of the first year is relatively simple, and it only needs to be calculated according to the year, month, and day of the Gregorian calendar. For example, we need to count the imaginary age and year of a person born on June 8, 1981 in the diary on August 8, 2009, because the Lunar New Year of 2009 has not yet passed, the person's current virtual age should be 29 years old, and his current age should be 28 years old (he will be 28 years old on June 8, 2009 in the Gregorian calendar).

1.contiguous; Have.

2.Correlation; Similar.

3.exhortation to drink to each other; Toast to people.

4.And people poetry.

Citations explained: Contiguous; Have. Quoted from "Historical Records: The Biography of Mencius Xunqing":

Xun Qing is jealous of the politics of the world, and the country is in turmoil. Song Yeshi's "General Dry Huang Gongxing": "Those who mourn and return, go to Tu, cry in the suburbs, and hang at home, belong to each other."

Liao Zhongkai's "Maipitang Title North Guo Yang Needle Diagram" words: "The edge is like a forbidden grind, and the wind and rain are obscure." ”

Ming Xu Wei's "Huiji County Chronicles Treatise": "The words of the monk and his party said: 'The stars and the earth belong to each other with essence, not tied to the corner.

Qing Xiaxie's "Chinese and Western Chronicles: Foreign Aid and Suppression": "Internal and external troubles are not related, but the harm is actually caused." ”

exhortation to drink to each other; Toast to people. Quoting Tang Hanyu's poem "Gift to Zhang Gongcao on the Fifteenth Night of August": "Shaping water breathes and shadows, and a cup belongs to the king's song."

Song Sushi's "Former Chibi Fu": "Drive a leaf of the flat boat, and raise the bottle to belong to it." "Ming Gaoqi's poem "Feng Zhang Jia Pavilion":

A cup belongs to a confidant, why bother to be an old friend in his life. ”

And people poetry. Quoting the preface of Song Sushi's poem "He Wang Jinqing": "In addition to sighing, poetry belongs to each other." Song Zhusong's poem "Gift to Fan Zhifu": "And with the public in the same air, the song belongs to the autumn wind." ”

The 12 zodiac signs used to remember the year of life. Quoting from "Shuo Xuan" volume 73 quotes Song Hongxun's "Yanggu Manlu": "Zi Rat, Ugly Cow, Yin Tiger, Mao Rabbit, Chenlong, Si Snake, Wu Ma, Wei Yang, Shen Monkey, Rooster, Hu Dog, and Hai Pig are twelve genera. ”

Ming Feng Menglong's "Ancient and Modern Tan Xuan, Jin Yan, Han Yu Wang Jianyu": "Big insects and mice, all belong to the twelve phases, why is it strange? ”

May 20, 2020 was supposed to be a good day to spend with my girlfriend, but we woke up in the morning and were noisy until 12 o'clock at night. The quarrel is not a big mistake or a big problem, almost all of them are a word or a sentence said by the other party.

My girlfriend and I have known each other for more than half a year, and it has been nearly three months since we really started to fall in love, according to the situation of the public, we should now enter the period of love, but we have quarreled countless times in this week, and several times are when we are about to collapse, and we give each other steps to ease. And we both think we're right and the other is wrong.

The experience during this period reminded me of the persuasion of my parents and aunts and uncles every time I went home, because my girlfriend's physiognomy was a sheep, and the old man passed down the saying that a woman who belonged to the sheep had a hard life, and suggested that I should break it if I could, and only my brothers and sisters would help me fight against my elders. But I don't think about these myself, I think it's not easy for people to meet a girl who can go down with you in their lives, and we decided to move forward, so we can't end this relationship because of these ridiculous traditions.

If we were forced to end at the beginning, it may be because the relationship is not deep, and it will be broken, but now we have each other in our hearts, and when we quarrel, we also think about how to avoid it in the future, instead of thinking about things like inappropriate separation. However, I am also very worried, we come to the end, when it is time to talk about marriage, what will happen if our parents do everything possible to obstruct it? Or maybe the parents compromised, but what about the unhappiness later in life?

I can't imagine how painful and torturous that situation was for her.

We haven't come to the end of getting married, and I don't have the right to say what it means to belong to marriage and family, I just want to live a good life and have less troubles.

I've been annoyed lately, just want to complain about it)