Isn t it right to let go of her if you love her, because you love her, should you let go

Updated on psychology 2024-08-06
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

    When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

    But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

    The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

    What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

    And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

    Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

    No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

    In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

    When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

    If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

    Love is not possession!

    You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

    In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

    Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

    You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

    The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

    After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

    Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

    When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

    The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

    knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

    Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

    When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

    In love, one thing is said and another is done;

    The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

    Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    If you can't give it yourself, let it go.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    , would you be happy watching your loved one be with someone else?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you don't love someone, let go so that others have a chance to love her.

    If someone you love has given up on you, let go of yourself so that you have the opportunity to love others.

    There are some things that you like no matter how much they will not belong to you, and some things you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, there are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love become a kind of harm.

    Some fate is destined to be lost, some fate will never end well, you don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love him well.

    The man cries because he really loves;

    The woman cries because she really gave up.

    If sincerity is a hurt, I choose to lie;

    If a lie is a disservice, I choose silence;

    If silence is a hurt, I choose to leave.

    If loss is bitter.

    Are you afraid to pay?

    If confusion is bitterness.

    You will not choose to end.

    If the pursuit is bitter.

    You won't choose to be obsessed.

    If separation is bitter.

    Whoever you want to talk to, many things are only seen later, and many things are not bitter at the time, but I can't find the way I came.

    There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but it cannot be said.

    There is a kind of love that I want to give up, but I can't give up.

    There is a kind of love, which I know is torment, but I can't open it.

    There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward. But the heart has long been unable to be recovered.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If it were me, I would let go, and I would be the same as you, because of the past, my current boyfriend was embarrassed and helpless, but he still ignored other people's opposition and harshness to be with me, why should I hesitate??? You are the same, look at whether your boyfriend is trying to prevent you, look at his performance, and then you will be late to make a decision, why force yourself to make a decision first??? Do you feel comfortable in this way?

    Are you willing?? Would you like to??? If he wants to lose you, but you make a choice for him, you are not the only one who hurts, you hurt two people, you know???

    Don't be so stupid...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    That being said, but no one will have such a big belly when they meet me, and when my husband met me, he also met another girl, who was more beautiful than me. I'm going to give up, but I think if I let go, I'm going to show a big belly! I called his mobile phone and asked the girl to pick up and say why she didn't say hello when she came over, I could take her out for a walk, and I also showed a rare belly for him, I said I liked her and chased her, during this time my husband deepened my impression of me, and then my husband's girl had a bad personality, so I broke up.

    We got engaged and are happy now. My husband said that it was really rare to find me.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you like someone, you don't have to be with him, although some people sing that "I don't care about the longevity of nature, I only care about what I once had", but not everyone will be happy. The most important thing to like someone is to make him happy, because his joys, sorrows, and sorrows will affect your mood.

    There is a song that sings like this: "It turns out that the crush is also very happy, at least it will not be without a choice:" Why do you never feel that emotional things are too difficult to bear, and if you don't want to possess it, it won't be bumpy": "No matter whose heart your heart is, I won't be frustrated, I just want to be a quiet passerby." ”

    Therefore, whether you like the same thing or like someone, instead of burdening yourself, it is better to face it easily, even if you give up or leave one day, you are more precious. If you like someone, you have to make him happy, make him happy, and make that feeling more sincere.

    The best way to have something you like but can't have is to keep it deep in your heart and make it the most beautiful memory.

    I wish you to find your happiness soon!

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