Why are you willing to online dating, is online dating so fun?

Dear landlord.

Glad for your question.

In fact, the most precious and important things in the world, that is, one's own family affection, one's own feelings and heart, one's own life and health, one's own happiness and joy, one's own life and career, one's own personality and dignity, it can also be said that the five types of people that should be cherished, namely parents, siblings, friends, lovers, and oneself, these are the most precious things in one's own life, and they are also the most cherished things, which cannot be lost.

Because only one's own family affection is eternal love, it is a love that cannot be let go, it is a love that blood is thicker than water, and only family affection is eternal love.

In the world, only one's own feelings are one's own things, nothing can be lowered, and only oneself is the most real.

In a person's life, life is precious, health is the capital, as long as you cherish yourself, cherish life, is the most precious.

As long as we face life with an optimistic attitude, happiness will be everywhere, happiness is a feeling, happiness is a wisp of floral fragrance, when the flower blooms in the depths of the soul, as long as the breeze blows gently, it can exude a leisurely, intoxicating fragrance.

Life and career is the ideal we pursue and the goal of struggle, one thing, if you figure it out, it is heaven, if you can't figure it out, it is hell, since you live, you must live well. If you know how to live, if you can enjoy yourself in a world where colors, sounds, lights, scents, and beautiful scenery are always available, life will become an endless journey of fun.

If the person's is inaccurate.

Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person. Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then.

When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others." "When I'm loved, I think:

It's a blessing to be loved! But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by. Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart.

Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears. Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime.

Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world. The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **?

Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent. There are many people who have no soul.

I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world. He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did.

Even from afar, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.2

Two lonely hearts establish a relationship through the virtual form of the Internet, resulting in feelings of mutual dependence, reluctance to give up, and even love each other, and cannot extricate themselves, which is called online dating. Generally speaking, lonely people are empty in real life, or have failed emotionally, or are escaping from reality. With the help of the virtual way of the Internet, a simple love that does not meet each other and does not consider too many secular factors came into being.

This problem may die prematurely because it is out of reality, and it may also develop into a normal life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. But it has to be tested and tempered.

In fact, there is a problem with the emotional world in reality.

The reason why they have online dating is that they have emotional problems in real life, and they are escaping and looking for solace in the virtual world.

To put it bluntly, it's not love, it's just a kind of spiritual comfort, a kind of self-hypnosis!

Of course, it is not excluded that there are young people who chat with each other about their feelings, and there are also online dating, and there are also online dating, and they have formed a happy family.

Reason 1: There is no real social circle, no real friends, no circle and no own life. There is no way to recognize the person you like, reason two:

Poor social skills in reality, knowing that you have no friends, but you don't want to meet new friends, and you don't want to expand your circle, reason 3: You are innocent and haven't met, and you will also invest your feelings into it, and you don't think about the authenticity of the other party's ** and the authenticity of the information, so there will be so many online dating. It's all just because you're lacking love.

It's because they can't find a suitable partner in real life, so some people will place their emotions on the Internet, hoping to meet a beautiful relationship on the Internet.

The first is that they have a need for love, and then they meet an online dating partner when they are chatting online, and they feel that they are very compatible with each other, so there will be people who are dating online

Maybe it's because you can't find the right person in reality to go online dating. Because on the Internet, everyone will involuntarily beautify themselves.

You can also see it online, you can exchange ideas online, you can talk about all kinds of things in your work and life.

There are also those who have successful online dating and are married, but they are risky and cautious.

Online dating is also love, the emphasis is on fate, and everything is always empty without fate.

Because fate has arrived.

Try communicating.

Wishing you health and happiness.

Because now in addition to going to work, it is the Internet!

I think online dating Benxian is not reliable at all, because in the process of two people communicating through the Internet, there are many things that are not real, and if they meet, everything is exposed, so Benxian is not very realistic.

1.A pastime of the emptiness of the mind.

The pace of life is too fast now, and when you enter the society, you will find that more often than not, you are alone, and you may live a comfortable life. But you will always feel lonely, especially at night, when human emotions are at their most vulnerable, so don't decide what to do at night.

Long nights, no intention of sleeping, you always have to do something, at this time many people choose this kind of soft hidden early piece, chat on it or flirt with girls.

There are always some stupid people who think that this is meeting love, but in fact, it is not necessarily, it is just a pastime for most people. Even if he said some love words, it was just to make up for the emptiness in his heart, and most people have this kind of psychology, and no one will pin their love on this kind of software, believe me.

2.Just wanted to change circles.

It must be boring to the point of bursting, sometimes there is nothing to play with a mobile phone, and if you want to WeChat QQ, you can only chat with acquaintances, and contact this kind of software is just to chat in a different circle.

What kind of people will play this kind of software, Wang Slip must be idle and bored, and people who have nothing to do will go to someone to chat. That's right, more often than not, he is just a tool for chatting, and all he pays is the power and traffic of his mobile phone, let alone unreliable without any emotion.

People are more likely to "fall in love at first sight" onlineIn fact, compared with the traditional society with relative material scarcity, the probability of "love at first sight" in modern society is greatly reduced. In the past, people may not have been very picky when looking for a spouse, first satisfying a need for survival and life, and getting married almost as soon as they could.

But in modern society, both men and women will consider many factors such as character, education, family, etc., and under the consideration of so many standards at the same time, it is easy for a young person to find fault with the opposite sex around him - not that the quality of people has become lower, but that everyone's standards have become higher.

In this case, the Internet can provide some relatively flat information about a person, while masking other information that may be considered a disadvantage – the sparkle is amplified, the spread of favor is more obvious, and the likelihood of young people "starting" a relationship through the Internet is correspondingly increased.

Is there a high percentage of successful marriages in online dating? It's hard to say what the exact percentage is. However, judging from previous research and clinical **, it is true that some "online dating" people feel uncomfortable after moving offline or even getting married.

Because the communication of the Internet is, after all, relatively simple, in the actual multi-factor contact, those problems that are covered up, especially after marriage and life together, will be exposed. Therefore, I myself am not against people who "online dating", before getting married, live together for a period of time.

There seem to be more "leftover women" than "leftover men" among netizens, why is this? In general, it is true that there are slightly more women than men in our country, especially in large cities. And biologically, women naturally tend to prefer men who are older than themselves, while men are the opposite.

This gap in time and space also causes women to have a relatively short marriageable age, and they are "left" if they are not careful.

The above content basically understands the thoughts of online lovers. In fact, there must be a reason to find online dating, and some people themselves can realize this. It's just that they don't want to change and let themselves continue to be addicted.

If online dating can become a reality, it can be regarded as a good result. If online dating affects your family, or if your marriage breaks down, it shouldn't be.