Used for the publication of blind dates, Ningbo came to send blind dates successfully

1. The utilitarian nature of the blind date is very clear and strong.

2. The blind date is a stranger and has no emotional basis. The man's economic base plays a decisive role.

3. The two parties on the blind date are basically unsuccessful in free love.

4. Both parties on a blind date are generally older and have certain social experience.

5. Blind date women are basically very materialistic, and they pay great attention to the man's conditions (appearance, economic income). Some men with good conditions can find a beautiful woman in their 20s in their forties and fifties.

6. The society is very realistic, blind date love marriage is more realistic, and the man's economic income is the pillar of the whole family. The blind date woman's economic needs are tactful or direct, they will be revealed, and their gentleness and thoughtfulness need to be paid by the man's economy.

7. If the concept and values of the blind date are appropriate, they will talk, otherwise they will refuse euphemistically, and both parties should not waste money and time.

9. On the first side of the blind date, at most a cup of tea, don't spend too much. After all, the blind date is a stranger, if you are satisfied, you can talk, if you don't like to find a reason to leave, even a cup of tea money will be saved.

10. No matter what the result of the blind date, it is best to report to the introducer, and there are some things that the introducer can say better.

11, if the blind date is successful, it is the best, everyone is happy. Even if the blind date is unsuccessful, be natural and generous. The blind date is a stranger, and both parties have not invested too much, and it is okay to be a stranger if they don't succeed.

Talking about those real blind date cases is no less than the comedy component of the joke; Talking about the feelings of those hard work, the emotion also makes people can't help crying. A few days ago, the Ningbo Public Welfare Matchmaker Alliance held such a seminar on the coexistence of laughter and moving, more than 20 matchmaker representatives gathered together, ** business also shared socks to enjoy the experience, single friends are worth seeing!

Show performance. In 29 years, more than 280 pairs have been successfully introduced, and they all lament that it is becoming more and more difficult to go on a blind date now.

In the past October, it was said that it was red, and the hotels in Ningbo had many wedding banquets, and even the wedding master of ceremonies was not enough. For public welfare matchmakers, it is also common to receive pennants and invitations. After all, it's harvest season.

As soon as the matchmakers sat down, the first thing was to introduce themselves, and an indispensable part of them was to show their performance. This is not only an affirmation of self-work, but also a sharing of the joy of success. Although affected by the epidemic this year, everyone's performance has "declined", and there are fewer people who have entered the marriage hall after their introduction, but the reporter paid attention to the celebration, and it was basically between three or five pairs to ten pairs, which can be regarded as a good "annual report".

I am Zhu Yueping from Nanyuan Community, Duantang Street, and I have been doing public welfare blind dates for 29 years, and I have successfully introduced more than 280 pairs. Such achievements are also outstanding among public welfare matchmakers. Zhu Yuping's words changed, but what she said aroused the resonance of the matchmakers in the audience - "I have a feeling that it is getting more and more difficult to help people go on blind dates now!"

Why is it getting harder and harder to introduce blind dates now? The matchmakers discussed it.

Some parents set rules and regulations, which are really outrageous! "My daughter is in a state-owned enterprise, so I must find a civil servant ......

Others say that now the young people are all being held up, and their psychological age is too naïve. "** understands feelings, let alone knows what a sense of family responsibility is, and it doesn't matter what it is. "After many times without success, the matchmaker kindly inquired, "I don't feel it", "I haven't played enough", "I don't want to get married yet", such a reply can make the matchmakers angry before and after running.

This is a way to say hello, nothing strange, since the blind date is a good talk, it is better than the inexplicable so-called Prince Charming, who knows if those Prince Charming is not golden, ruined.

Not yet, ready to go to bed? Didn't do anything.

It's very simple, she has a good impression of you, generally girls are very reserved after a blind date, unless they have a good impression, they will never take the initiative to send a message. You're welcome to reply and ask if the food is delicious? (Have you had a meal?) , and then ask her out again under the pretext, if she agrees, it's almost the same. Adopt it, dear.

I searched for a circle and didn't find a good one, but I thought about it and you were more suitable, so I inquired about whether you were still single, so I contacted you with the idea of trying it out to see if there was any hope.

During the year, he didn't find a suitable one, so he wanted to come back to you again.

No one else wants him, so I have to beg you to accept him.

Needless to ask, of course there are ideas.

First of all, you want to say that you are very happy to meet this time, and you want to continue to understand each other and so on, ask when you have time next time, so that you can eat or drink tea or other outdoor activities together, if the other party gives you a clear answer, it proves that you have a great chance, if not, it is also recommended that you often give each other information, care about each other, this time is 1 week, if it exceeds and ignores it, then you can give up.

It's like a casual chat.。。 Gab... Talk about something more funny. Make him think you're more humorous. I still want to get in touch with you.

Chat casually, learn about her interests and hobbies, and then find her to cut into the topics she is interested in.

For example, if you don't eat, either come and eat with me or come to my house to eat (so he doesn't dare to come and eat with you, she's afraid, if she's not afraid, it's better) You ask him what he likes or what kind of boy, talk about everything, so there is a topic.

This woman, maybe it's **. I've experienced it. is a company. Go to bed on time at night and are not allowed to talk. Those women were managed by the sample and used to deceive the blind date men.

If I really don't want to pay attention to you, I won't reply to you.

Actually, it's not good for you to ask that. It should be a direct appointment, and I retreated without playing.

The network is a virtual space, and the ** sent up is not necessarily the person. If the blind date ** adopts the real-name system, it should be me.

Right! See if you can find a sincere man, the more beautiful the woman, the more I don't like men who only care about appearance, so I've been screening!

They're for popularity, and they're all fake! Don't believe it, are you qualified to be their boyfriend, unless you are the first generation with hundreds of millions of assets, even then it may not be that people will take care of you.

That's it, I think so too, if you're so beautiful, you won't have a boyfriend.

It may be me, but most of them are beautified.

It's all **, brother, don't be fooled.

You can think yes or no.