Love is not control, it is letting go and fulfilling

Many people will ask, what is love?

I used to think that love was just the love in Qiong Yao's drama, which came and went, unswerving to death, or betrayal, which could not be forgiven.

Later, I realized that true love is nothing but respect, fulfillment, letting go, and not bothering.

Of course, such a view will naturally be refuted. True love is to have, to give, to be willing, to be good for you. There was nothing wrong with it. I used to think so.

One infidelity, a hundred times will not be tolerated. "I thought that this was the bottom line of my love, this was the principle, and it would never be broken. But when you really love someone, you think: come back when you've had enough.

In the end, he will become that hopeless person.

Recently, I watched "Fazheng Pioneer", and I was there"Love"This has taught me another lesson.

The play talks about two couples, both of whom have been together for more than five years, one of them, the woman has a good sister, the relationship between the two is very good, the relationship between the woman and the man is also very good, the man loves the woman very much, but still sleeps with the woman's good sister when he is drunk.

was betrayed by the two closest people around me in an instant, and the pain in my heart is really self-evident. It is in response to my firm sentence: once unfaithful, a hundred times will not be tolerated.

It is impossible to forgive, whether it is a man or a good sister. But after so many years of relationship with a man, how can I break it, follow my heart, or prepare to forgive the man and get back together, but the good sister is pregnant, and the good sister shamelessly lets the woman let go, no way, a senior intellectual, a kind woman with strong self-esteem, on the one hand, is her good sister, on the other hand, although she is the man she loves, then she can only let go.

Something happens, it really happens, and if you can't turn back, then keep moving forward.

Another couple, together for five years, trusts each other. Women have to work abroad for three years because of an opportunity, men believe in each other's feelings, and more importantly, believe in women, respect women more, and let women chase their dreams.

Unexpectedly, five months later, the woman met her first love, and the two got back together, but they didn't tell the man, and the woman's first love had terminal cancer, which is really ironic.

The man and the woman met unexpectedly in China, and the man learned the truth, and proposed to break up before the woman proposed to let the man wait for him, so that the woman no longer felt guilty for this feeling found an outlet, because both parties knew that if the woman proposed to let the man wait, and wait for him to accompany his first lover through the last paragraph, the man would definitely wait, but the woman would definitely feel guilty, so the man mentioned the breakup first. At that time, the man's heart hurt so much that you can imagine.

was betrayed, but until the relationship came to the last step, it was still for the sake of the other party, so that the other party did not feel guilty and could move forward better, this is positive love.

True love is that two people can grow in this love, motivate each other, and get better and better, rather than consuming, not dragging each other down.

But true love also has a bottom line for each other, that is, respect, respect each other's choices, and wish each other happiness.

It is the dream of many people to be able to raise their eyebrows with their lovers, respect each other like guests, and live a life like a fairy couple.

However, not all efforts and expectations can be realized, sometimes two people love each other, there will be all kinds of obstacles, and there will be mistakes that cannot be controlled by people.

If you blindly insist on being with each other, maybe both people will be hurt, and proper letting go, although it will bring short-term pain, but in the long run, it is the best protection for the loved one.

is like Gao Chen in "Xiaolou and Dongfeng", he likes Lu Hanzhi very much, and he can't control his emotional impulse and shows his love.

It's just that two people have their own missions, and if they easily declare their likes, one will become the weakness of the other, and it will be inconvenient for them to carry out their work.

In order not to affect each other, in order to know that the old wheel guards the beliefs in their hearts, before Lu Hanzhi didn't know the truth, Gao Chen was always restraining his emotions, forcing himself to let go, and staying away from each other's lives, so as not to cause unnecessary trouble to his beloved woman.

Although the surface is put down, I have been thinking about it in my heart, silently guarding the place where my sweetheart can't see, and I don't believe that I want to make anything wrong with the woman I love.

Truly falling in love with someone is not desperate and doesn't care about any other factors to force you to be with each other, but to be able to seek truth from everything, let go appropriately, and give the other half the best protection.

Letting go is the fulfillment of love.

There are all kinds of regrets in the emotional world, and asking for it but not being able to do it is one of them.

Sometimes you fall in love with someone but don't get the same love from the other person.

As the lyrics say: I love you, but you love him, you break my heart to the core.

But love is about your love and my willingness, and the love you are forced to get will not be too sweet.

If you fall in love with someone who can't ask for it, you will let go of the happiness of the other person, and you will be satisfied when you see that your beloved is doing well.

If there is no affection between two people, and the relationship between two people has come to the end, then we must learn to be perfect and learn to let go.

To truly love him and be good for him is to hope that the other party can live a better and happier life, this is the real love for the other party, and you want to see the other person live better.

I know that the final letting go is to fulfill the other person and let the other person live the life they want.

There is a kind of love that is called loving you very much. There is a me, no matter how much I love you, I will leave you. Leave, it's not that I'm ruthless, it's not that I don't love you, it's that my hopes are disappointed, my heart is hurt, and my disappointment is enough.

Therefore, I left, not because I didn't love anymore, but because no matter how much love I had, I didn't have anything to look forward to. Love can't produce the result of love, it's better to give up early, keep love in your heart, and let the past become a good memory. There's a love, let it go!

Let go, not another new love, but perfection. Loving a person's body is involuntarily, willing to pay, and there are a thousand outlets for letting go, all of which are unwilling, but helpless.

But the truth is that true love will care, and when you think of deep love, you can't rely on each other, and your heart will ache, and that kind of pain is indescribable, unbearable, and unbearable. That kind of longing, as long as you close your eyes and live in your heart, the thoughts that will instantly emerge from the ocean in your heart to the thoughts in front of your eyes. No matter how many years, it is as clear as it was at the beginning, it is bitter, it is rippled, it is sad, it is happy, it is an indescribable mixed taste.

Loving someone deeply, not being together, is a deep love that cannot be parted, the most helpless love in the field of love, and the most painful emotion of love and reluctance. Therefore, letting go is not love, but understanding that you can't continue to love, and desperately entangled will only make yourself suffer more and more damage, and letting go is the only and most helpless choice. Letting go, although it will be painful, but the thought of the lover who has loved deeply will get the happiness he really wants, and letting go is worth it.

There is a kind of love called letting go!

<> letting go of love is not selfishness, but the great love in the world. Those who have truly loved, owned, moved, and laughed at have all passed in the end, but everything that has ever been will be remembered in my heart. The encounter was a very beautiful process.

When we fall in love with someone, it is also a kind of happiness. Because we know that there aren't many people in our lives that we can fall in love with. And we always have a kind of randomness, because we can't guarantee how long the encounter will last, whether the person we can love will want to love us.

I will also choose to let go in order to achieve each other, because so that we will not be very tired of each other, and we can become better people.

I may also choose to let go in order to fulfill the other person, the main reason is that I love him and I want him to be better.

I will let go in order to fulfill the other person, because it is good for me and her, and I will find my own happiness.