What bitterness have you experienced that you can t put into words?

One person spent the Mid-Autumn Festival in the dormitory, and the whole building was empty.

Obviously, he and his daughter-in-law have been quarreling for two months, and now they have been in a cold war. In front of his parents, he still pretended to love each other very much.

After talking about the object for a long time, the family has always disagreed, and she is often cuckolded but chooses to believe her, but she is injured again and again, and she doesn't dare to tell her family when she cries.

The saddest thing is that I spend the Spring Festival alone outside, everyone goes home for the New Year, and I eat a fried noodles by myself in the dormitory. But when I was still with my family, I said that everyone ate a big meal together.

I had a cold, a fever, and I didn't tell my parents for a week, for fear that they would be worried.

At that time, I had just graduated, and I had been submitting my resume, but it had been a tragedy, and finally I started to work as a cleaner.

When I work in other places, I will be inexplicably dismissed every time, and the rarest thing is to eat steamed buns and eat pickles every day. But every time I hit the family **, "I'm doing well!" ”

I found a girlfriend, and on New Year's Day, she brought herself a big green hat, and I still had a good relationship with my family.

At that time, I was alone in the field, I had to have a minor operation, and I was very scared, but I still endured it alone, and I didn't have any friends or relatives around me.

My monthly salary is 2,000, excluding rent, living expenses, and water and electricity bills, and I don't have much left every month. Or pretend to be atmospheric to give 1000 fast to parents every month, so that they feel that they are treated well.

When I first came out of society, I experienced an incident that made me very sad, which left an indelible impression on me. ......At that time, I had just entered the workplace, there was a person who was very enthusiastic about himself, and he had a good relationship with him, and he had a lot of work for him to do. But when the work was finally done, he took credit for it alone and ignored me.

This is the most sad thing for me. ......The reason why I feel this way is because the person's behavior hurt my feelings so badly, because it changed my way of thinking about people and things, and because it made me realize how complex the workplace can be.

1. That person's behavior seriously hurt my feelings, so I feel very sad.

At the beginning of my career, I was very touched to meet a colleague who treated me warmly. I even think that I have met a nobleman. ......But the truth made me feel extremely sad, that person was just using himself, and this incident caused serious damage to his feelings, and I still felt extremely sad until I looked back on it much later.

2. This incident has changed my way of thinking about people and things.

Before this incident, my view of people's shortcomings and things was relatively simple, thinking that the merits are obvious, and as long as you pay sincerely, you can reap the rewards. ......But the truth made me feel extremely sad, and my true feelings were nothing ...... in the eyes of the person who used himSince this incident, my perception of people and things has changed dramatically, and I have become calmer and more rational.

3. This incident made me deeply aware of how complex the workplace is.

Through this incident, the deepest feeling for myself is that the workplace is really too complicated ......In the past, everything was so simple and idealistic when I was in school, but when I really entered the workplace, I found that the people and things here were so complicated that I could hardly imagine. ......Through this bitter experience, I fully realized my own shortcomings, and since then I have begun to observe and analyze the people and things around me attentively, and I have become more and more rational and calm, and there will be no more deceived people in the future. ......This can be regarded as a receipt brought to me by this incident.

Everyone will encounter a lot of setbacks and sad experiences on the way to growth, and then we all gradually become mature and steady. There is no such thing as a smooth sailing life, maybe you envy the achievements of others, but there is pain behind him that you can't bear. What we see is always an illusion, and it is impossible for anyone to expose their scars to others.

With these bitter experiences, we can know that happiness is not easy to come by, and we will cherish the good things in life more. I have also experienced many bitter experiences that no one knows, and it is these setbacks that have made me love life even more. <>

First, I was dumped by my boyfriend when I was young, and I felt so faceless and my dignity was shattered. My ex had promised me a romantic wedding, but in the end I didn't fulfill my promise, and he and his new love entered the palace of marriage, and every time I think about it, my heart aches. A girl will feel very shameless when she is dumped, but if you think about it, it is not her fault.

A man who messes with flowers and grass is simply unreliable, and I don't have to pay for other people's mistakes, so I was relieved later. <>

Second, waste your youth in the factory, but now you don't have a skill. After failing the college entrance examination, I embarked on the road of the factory, because I could only do assembly line work because of my low education, and no matter how much I paid, I could not increase my knowledge. Later, when I quit my job and stepped into society, I realized that I was like a caged bird, and I never entered the factory since, but I didn't have any skills.

Now that I am married and have children, I understand the pain and helplessness of not having a school, so I attach great importance to my children's education. I think that a person must learn endlessly, and must have the ability to support his family, in order to live a more dignified life. <>

Third, everyone will have a sad experience in their hearts, who does not fly all the way with scars. It is the sadness and pain of the past that have made us who we are now, so we don't need to be sad about the past experience, but have a heart that looks forward to the future. Anyone's success comes by stepping on thorns, and how can you reap the success in life without experiencing the baptism of life.

We must turn the sadness of the past into motivation, and live our wonderful life with a strong heart, so that success will be closer and closer to us.

When I go to work, the salary is very low, and sometimes when I am not busy at work and on vacation, I only eat one meal a day. When I come to work, the hardships and sweat are unimaginable to ordinary people.

I still remember that when I just bought a house and paid the down payment, I was really poor at that time, and I began to worry about the next month's mortgage, and I ate noodles for a whole month!

I think the most sad experience may be that no matter how hard you work at work, others will not be understood, but others will think that you can do better, but in fact, many times you have done your best.

I had just dropped out of school and had my first job unpaid by my boss, and I was penniless and unable to move around in a big city.

Now I don't have the youthful frivolity I had at the beginning, and I cherish the hard-won life even more. As the saying goes, if you eat a trench, you will grow wisely, and it is those past failures that make us more and more courageous. Life is a process of constantly surpassing yourself, and when you cross a stumbling block, you will eventually embrace a strong self.

Let all the pain and sadness of the past be a thing of the past! As long as we always maintain an optimistic and sunny attitude, and do not bow our heads or give in in the face of difficulties, we will be able to have a bright future.

In order to buy a ticket for a concert for a beloved, I got up at 2:00 in the morning to line up, which was really sad.

I once ate pickles and steamed buns for half a month in order to buy a ticket to my hometown for the New Year, and I was really poor.

Chinese New Year's Eve also had to work overtime in the unit, and also had to bear customer complaints, which made me particularly sad.

Yes, when I was in college, my family's financial conditions were not good, and I remember taking the train to the station during the winter vacation and having no money, so I walked 30 miles home.

My most sad experience was when I was in the sixth grade of elementary school, it was raining heavily. I forgot to bring an umbrella, it was getting dark, I really didn't dare to be at school, it was so dark, let's go home, so I ran around in the rain.

Everyone will have an unknown sad experience, and I am no exception, when you pay a lot for a person, but you don't get anything in return, there is no one to talk about the pain.

I have a bitter experience that I don't know, that is, because I was a returning student in the third year of high school, many classmates looked down on me, and I often had to face their contempt alone

When I went to Beijing to look for a job, who knew that it was very difficult to find a job, until I spent all my living expenses, and then wandered in Beijing for a while, I found my current job.

Of course, when I was very poor, my girlfriend asked me for a lot of material things, resulting in me only being able to drink boiled water and eat steamed buns every day.

Yes, when I first graduated, my salary was very low, and sometimes I couldn't make ends meet, and I was often hungry.

I have a very sad experience, for example, once I did not complete the task, mainly because other leaders asked me to complete a different thing, but my own leader gave me a task, in the time I asked to complete it, but I did not adjust the time, at this time I did not complete the task on both sides, in this case, I was very sad, and was scolded by both leaders, in fact, I obviously want to do both things well, so say, This was my sad experience.

I have been living a relatively comfortable life, just out of the ivory tower not long ago, stepping into the society, still thinking about the beauty of society, yearning for the state of a person's life, the appearance in the workplace, however, I found that this is not the case, the work pressure is high, the boss only looks at the results, and does not care whether you will or not, and when you return home, your roommates are not compatible and hindered by relatives, so you have to accommodate, and your life is so bad.

I live on the 13th floor, and I bought two air conditioners after the renovation of the new house, and the one in the living room was good to say when it was installed, but it was more troublesome to install the outdoor unit in the bedroom, one of the masters climbed outside the high wall with a safety rope, and the other master raised the air conditioner inside and handed it to the outside, the whole process made me look sad and distressed and worried about their safety, really super emotional.

When I was in high school, my QQ account was stolen. Then he borrowed money from my friends in my name. Then the friends didn't distinguish it, so they borrowed money, and lost a total of 1,600 yuan.

Later, the money was not recovered, and I returned the money to my friends alone, because I felt that I could not let my friends down.

I had one of the most sad experiences, that is, when I was in high school, I had no living expenses, I only ate one meal a day, and I only ate one steamed bun, that was my most sad time, I don't know why I lived so hard, just to prepare a birthday gift for the person I liked, I was very stupid at that time.

The most poignant story I've ever heard comes from Ye Guangqin's speech.

The eighties of the last century. Zeng Zhou went to investigate the giant pandas, fell off the cliff and died. So it was buried in Sanguan Temple.

His classmates have all become well-known giant panda experts in the country. For example, Lu Zhi, for example, his teacher Pan Shiwen, was with them at that time. As a student of the Department of Biology of Peking University, Zeng Zhou stayed in Zisanguan Temple forever.

When his classmates left, they planted many, many plants unique to the Qinling Mountains around his tomb. Among them is the white rhododendron. On the first anniversary of Zeng Zhou's death, his father came from Shantou, Guangdong to Sanguan Temple, and the old gentleman, who graduated from Tsinghua University, was single at the time, sitting in front of Zeng Zhou's tomb, without saying a word, and sitting for a whole morning.

Sitting in front of Zeng Zhou's tomb, the old man took out a **, which was completely a child, with a very spiritual gaze and a green face. Look at the outside world. This old man only has this one son, and this son was admitted to Peking University with the first place in Shantou, so he stayed in Sanguanmiao.

When the old gentleman was leaving, he shouted to the mountain

Zeng Zhou, Dad is gone, Dad is old, and he won't come to see you again in the future.

My mother passed away when I was three years old, and my father was only 25 years old. Throw away my little oil bottle, he is still a good young man.

After thinking about it for a while, my father went to Beijing through various channels, after all, he was young and talented, and soon went to graduate school and found a decent job.

Not long after, he found another Beijing girl of the week in Beijing, and soon married her. But he concealed his marriage history and my existence, and kept me in my grandmother's house, occasionally calling ** or sending some money back.

When I was four or five years old, I also tried to understand gradually.

One day, my father went to my grandmother's house to call **, and I picked it up and heard that it was him, and said to him in a small angry voice: Dad, I will speak quietly, so as not to be heard by her.