What have you experienced that have changed you a lot?

My ex-girlfriend abandoned me a year ago to get along with the blind date arranged by my family, and a year later, on November 11th, I was full of joy and had a single's day but received her crying** content "I am pregnant, he said that I was told to beat me off and then kicked me,** money will be given a few hundred yuan" After an hour, I still put down my happy activities to meet her, and accompanied her to two hospitals for examination, the result is that the uterine lining is thin, and this ** will lead to infertility in the future. I was devastated. But I don't have the identity to educate that kid.

In the end, I handed over the events of her life to his own mother. I haven't heard from her yet. I can't let go of it now, but I don't know what I'm thinking.

What makes it difficult for me to let go is that I am still half depressed and difficult to speak. The more people closest to me are, they either stumble on the road of my life, or try their best to pressure me, and they don't give me anything when they use the money (the money from the part-time job) at the critical moment, and even worse, they ruin my good family. It can't be said, and the evidence is insufficient.

Not only do I know, but those who are familiar with it understand, who can say. Fighting, even more humiliating. It could also be said that I am a wreck.

I'm not talking about one person. In the words of a friend: In my life, I can't hide from villains.

Fortunately, there is a disaster now. He doesn't know how to tell fortunes, he knows me too well. He admired me for making it through.

I couldn't be happier, forget it, it's all over. It's hard to forget. Just don't talk about this too often and let it pass.

I live a good life, but my mother is gone, and I can't pay off my debts, what a painful thing, everything in the world is not a thing, but life and death are big things, so we must cherish life, treat life well, and we don't do it, be a person who doesn't care about it. I can't let go of the thing, then I have to borrow money from my brother to buy a house, and I was willing to borrow it before, but I didn't expect that not only did I not borrow it, but I was also counted down and said to borrow so much money, what to pay back? It makes me angry.

There was once a girl I particularly liked, just after the beginning of the relationship and it was gone, I don't know the reason, it just disappeared, I died sadly, I was depressed every day, and suddenly someone told me that she was going to get married, and ran over like crazy, just glanced at it from a distance, and then turned around and left, and suddenly wanted to open, the past went with the wind, why worry.

I used to be young and delicate, and I was nicknamed by my classmates at different times: fake girl, little girl. At that time, it was still the era when the whole people learned from Lei Feng and Wang Jinxi, an advanced petroleum worker, unlike the Korean style small fresh meat that is popular now.

So, I secretly decided in my heart: to be a gentleman like Zhang Fei. But, how can you become a person like Zhang Fei?

Many times I climbed mountains, climbed trees, climbed high, fell to scratch and bleed, but I hope that the scars left can increase the strength of men!

Life is a long road, after all, after you make some decisions, you will regret it, you will be sad, you will feel helpless for what happened later, I hate myself the most is that I didn't listen to my parents, I didn't study seriously, I just read a diploma from an ordinary junior college, and I lived up to my parents' expectations.

There are many things that cannot be let go. But when people reach a certain point, they will no longer be entangled, because time and energy are limited. Because complaining doesn't solve the problem.

Everyone has to learn to swallow some bitter fruit, even if it is not planted by themselves. People also have to learn to subtract, clear their psychological burden, and let go of the troubles of the past, so that they can travel lightly and go to the next stop. There are even better views ahead, which are worth exploring.

Ever since I went out to study in junior high school and when I came back, everyone said I had changed.

They don't know what I've been through, that obedient and well-behaved child, who can't get back to his old self.

Our family has been a scholar for generations, and my grandfather was a teacher. I don't know if it's because I read too many books to become quiet, or because of the influence of my family environment, I have been quiet and introverted since I was a child, and I am not good at expressing my feelings.

Or they are too obedient, don't pay attention to their feelings, become introverted, and can't express themselves.

People with this kind of personality are definitely not suitable for studying outside. Extroverts are more comfortable with complex dorm relationships.

Since I was a child, I had high hopes to get my own path to success from studying.

I was bullied, those guys who don't read, talk a lot, don't like to study like to be in groups, I have few introverted friends, and being bullied doesn't help me.

I've changed, and I hate myself for being cowardly. Because of the focus on reading, people become introverted. I tried my best to maintain my academic performance because I was bullied by others.

I'm starting to hate my introverted self. I hate my grandfather with the same personality as me. Introverts look particularly annoying, close themselves off, and outsiders who don't understand seem to be introverts who are aloof and indifferent, look down on others, and don't want to talk to people.

But only introverts will understand that they just don't want to speak, and they are like this to everyone, not high-minded and look down on people.

I put a lot of effort into studying because I went through this and didn't want to study anymore. If you lose the foundation, you can't pick it up.

Some people go through something, and they change. After something important is broken, there is no expectation, and there is no desire to work hard.

Society is changing, people are changing, and a person who has changed must have experienced what he thought he had to change. There are no static people and things, and I hope that everyone can be treated gently and become cheerful and happy. Don't be like me.

If you feel that this year is going to be difficult, both in terms of the environment and your own situation, and you want to change this situation, you don't know how to start. Then you might as well try these three hours, at this moment, the most important thing we should do is not to force ourselves to rush forward, trying to make some earth-shaking changes, but to set a buffer time for ourselves, just focus on some small things, over time, these little things will bring you rewards like a seed.

First of all, control the content of the information you absorb every day, and if you can do this, you have won at least 90% of the people. Now our attention is often in a state of fear of missing out, that is, we will be afraid of missing what happens in the circle of friends, beware of eating less or missing a melon, so we keep checking our mobile phones, but our brains are actually inherently easy to be at the mercy of all kinds of information, and emotions will also change with the content we see, the terrible thing is that many reports are actually negative news to attract attention, which will make us more anxious the more we watch, just like a lovelorn person, constantly listening to love songs, He's only going to be more aggressive, so if you don't look at it, it's immediate.

Secondly, keep your phone far away while sleeping, this small change will bring more results than you think. Recall that you put your mobile phone at the head of the bed every morning as soon as the alarm clock rings, immediately press it off and continue to sleep, and the first thing that is natural after getting up, pick up the mobile phone and brush the circle of friends casually, see the short**, and the time is eaten like this. Later, I found that the simple action of putting your phone far away before going to bed can completely eliminate this bad habit, and this will make you spend at least 30 minutes more time a day, which is equivalent to living 180 hours more than others in a year.

Finally, take 15 minutes a day to write down what you can think about, how you feel at the moment, what you're facing, a conversation you have with someone, and so on. Writing is actually a thought process that helps you analyze and organize your ideas and makes it easier to find your blind spots.

Personally, I feel that if a person can correct his own shortcomings and is good at discovering the strengths of others, then he can change himself.

I know that in life, we must always maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, control the content of the information absorbed every day, put the mobile phone away when sleeping, don't stay up late at night, go to bed early and get up early, don't look at the mobile phone before going to bed at night, and take a little time every day to write down your mentality.

Exercise every day, read books every day, go to bed early and wake up early every day, take care of your skin every day, and do yoga every day.