With a stranger, he finally had a chance to talk

Don't worry, don't borrow from what others have used, express it in your own way. You're talking about him being a man. I think you should be subtle and express it with your own feelings.

When we meet, we can talk about whatever we want

I think he'll refuse! You should try to get in touch with it first!

If you are embarrassed to talk to him in person, you can tell him through letters, **, QQ, and email. Or not through the mouth of a third person.

You can establish contact with him first, such as messages, QQ or something, and slowly understand whether there is something in common between the two. Start slowly.

If you are in a hurry to confess, although you are relaxed, the other party is still very inexplicable. Maybe he has feelings for you, and it will be very beginning. But what if he doesn't feel for you. That's not a pity.

The most direct way is to want him to confess in person, have the courage, and must dare to face it, otherwise there will be no chance in the future, but there are not so many three years to waste.

If you like it, you can say it, it's really not refreshing.

It's a good idea...

I think okay, you can try it.

As long as you meet, you won't be embarrassed, and you will have something to say

I don't have to be so troublesome, but I know you're a face-loving person

In fact, it's good to know him directly, and if he feels good about you at first, he can get along.

Maybe he'll say he loves you first

Find a common topic when talking about news or television and the most important thing is to be generous. Let go Talk to others first, and they will naturally not be lukewarm to you.

Girls generally like humorous guys, and at the beginning, you'd better find a reason, for example, you've seen a girl's performance, etc., and then it's officially started.

Practice makes perfect, let's say something that doesn't make sense.

Isn't that tantamount to lying to her like that? If you really like her, go and confess to her! I believe that the paper can't contain the fire, and she is saying that you are a manly husband, why do you do such a immoral thing, and then she knows that you are lying to her, and she will hate you

Don't learn from those upstairs!!

1. Talk to strangers. It's okay to force yourself.

2. Enrich your knowledge (this is very important, even if it is the weather of the day, mobile phone number and other information), so that there is a topic in the communication. (Learn about some information that is popular and everyone cares about.) ）

3. Know yourself, when you understand yourself, you will know why you are afraid to talk to strangers. Knowing the reason, the problem is solved.

4. It is not a bad phenomenon for boys to speak in front of the living, there are too many such people. The forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds. Don't stress too much.

5. Relax when talking to strangers. Don't be nervous, your mind will be active. Use your sense of humor more.

Go to the marketing training class, it's a good exercise for the thickness of your skin.

Recommend "I Don't Understand" and "I Am Your Son".

The language is witty and humorous, and the plot is very good. Very impressed.

You should still be very young, social experience will help a person gradually become older, but if it is not for the needs of work, there is no need to give up young shyness immediately. Each stage has its own unique things, and the shyness and clumsiness of the fledgling can also be accepted by society. The key is that you must first like yourself, and with self-confidence, you will have the confidence to communicate with strangers.

I recommend you to watch "Cai Kangyong's Way of Speaking".

It's best not to choose to be a salesperson, because it's a relaxing and pleasant thing for extroverts, but it's torment for introverts, and it's even easy to have mental illnesses such as self-denial and low self-esteem.

Why do you have to be the same as an extrovert? Although there are many areas in this society where extroverts are more popular, there are also many jobs that introverts can do. For example, accountants, academics, writers, etc.

Don't pay too much attention to the value judgment of the society, it is not that the society says that extroverts are good and introverts are not good, nor is it that the society says that sales are good and other industries are not good. The key is to find a job that suits you, and don't blindly judge which industry you go to based on which industry you make more money. I don't believe that a champion in a (even if it is an unpopular) industry is not as profitable and respected as a loser in a popular industry.

Self-centeredness is not like that. Self-centeredness is putting one's own interests first, which is not the same thing as the situation you are in now.

You can exercise and talk to friends first, just talk casually, wait for a long time, that is, unfamiliar people, and there are chatters when you meet、、、 that is, exercise more.

You have to know that introverts will have a hard time eating in society.

Autosuggestion.

I don't know what to say when I see a stranger, in fact, I also have embarrassing feelings in it, I am afraid that others will laugh at what I say or not get a response, so you should imply that you are the same person, there is no need to be shy, you really regard the other party as your friend, say whatever you want to say, believe that the other party will also respond to you, I think it is very important to cultivate self-confidence, anyway, I am like this to strangers, I don't know if it is useful to you.

I think going to the bar is a good choice.

Alcohol can be emboldened, and bars are full of conversations with strangers.

Exercise more. You have to be willing to change from the inside.

Why don't you dare to talk to strangers is actually your own fear, afraid of talking to people wrong, afraid of others refusing, etc., these are ultimately a matter of face, when communicating with strangers, don't think too much about the gains and losses before you say anything, if you have anything, you will not be afraid to talk to strangers, I was the same as you, now there are some changes, to continue to encourage yourself, I hope you can take a step from now on, take the initiative to communicate with strangers, you will feel good.

I have a friend who is like this, at first I also thought she was a quiet girl, but after a long time, I found out that she was a cheerful girl, and I had a fight, haha!

It's okay, let him go, it won't cause any serious effects anyway!!

Speak as if you were an acquaintance. =v=, since you all know that the problem lies in **, you are not afraid that it will not be solved.

Not necessarily. Maybe she likes to talk more. Not every girl wants to say that she is for every boy.

It may be that there are fewer things you have experienced together, and she doesn't want to be cold and keep talking. You also have to learn to collect interesting things in your life and tell her, after all, falling in love is a matter of two people, and it's better to interact, right? When you experience more things together, you will naturally talk about it together.

What do you think?

Chatter! Buy her a mask!

Listening is also a way of love.

First of all, I want to say to you: talkative is not everyone's style If you blindly force yourself on this issue, it may also backfire, causing you to have an inferiority tendency, become less and less confident, more and more nervous, form a conditioned reflex, and the tongue of a stranger begins to become stiff and even fearful

I don't think you have to worry about it, no matter who you're sitting with, whether it's a friend, a colleague, or even a stranger, remember: listening to someone is also an art, not only to make the other person feel empathetic, but also to get to know the other person more deeply There is a saying: silence is golden That's what is said.

Be confident, since you can't talk about it; So why can't you be a person who listens, believe in yourself, and everything will change quietly Remember: as long as you believe in the good, then the good will always be around you

The most polite way is Japanese, first meet to shake hands, smiling, smiling can be a person unconsciously relax a new mood, after looking at the generous words to say something, say something wrong, explain sorry, remember, don't say sorry, others will think that you don't treat it as a friend, and don't want to get close to you, so to speak generously, to force yourself to develop such a habit, over time will become more and more atmospheric, there will be more and more people willing to approach you, So you'll be able to socialize with people easily1

I hope my proposal will help you!

And·· Happy New Year! ^_

I found out that I was the same as the landlord.

I stutter, especially when talking to strangers, I was super introverted before high school, and I definitely didn't take the initiative to find others when others didn't talk to me, even if it was my favorite, I was ashamed.

But now that I'm in college, I also feel like I need to change in my heart, so sometimes I force myself to learn to communicate with others, greetings and the like, and say something innocuous (although sometimes I think it will be very boring), but this is really exercising myself, working in the future or something, talking about business at the wine table or something, it's all about talking, bragging or something, so in order to have a better relationship and connections in the future, work hard now, force yourself.

I'm better off than I was in high school, but I still don't dare to speak in public. I'm afraid of stuttering and being laughed at, so I have to overcome it slowly in the future.

If you have the opportunity to look for books on interpersonal communication, some of the skills in it are quite useful, and I hope you can overcome them soon. Force yourself not to care too much about what other people think!!

you can do it !

This is normal, in fact, chatting with strangers can have the following topics:

1. The current situation topic that you know.

2 hours of things.

3. Current affairs such as hydroamine and so on.

4 Or a TV series.

Participate in more bai party parts or friends to travel or something

!Everyone plays together, there are people who know the dao and those who are unfamiliar with it, they are all friends, everyone has the right to you and me, just chat!

But remember not to think that you don't know how to speak, because you'll only get more and more nervous! Think about it, a stranger doesn't understand you, and you don't know him, there should be a lot to talk about! Maybe you're too nervous, that's why you're late