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Nowadays, almost most children are only children, so they have grown up under the pampering of their parents since they were young, and they have friends by their side after going to school, as well as the care of teachers, so in many cases it will feel as if the world is revolving around us, but when you graduate from college and enter the society, you will find that it is not like this.
When I interviewed for my senior year, I was deeply aware of this. Because I need to go to the internship in my senior year, I want to find a self-leading company to intern in the new ** operation position according to my hobbies, but most companies recruit people who need to have experience, although I think I also have relevant operation experience in school, but it is still not enough for those companies, so I was frustrated everywhere during the interview, and I can say very well when it comes to professional skills, but when it comes to experience, I hear that I am a senior intern, Many interviewers in companies rejected me outright, which made me very frustrated, and it was at that time that I realized that the world did not revolve around us.
But fortunately, there is a company that is willing to train me who has no experience, and gave me an internship opportunity, and it is in that company that I began to really get in touch with the new ** and learned a lot of things, so I have always been very grateful to that company, although I don't work in that company now, but I still maintain a good relationship with the boss of that company, and occasionally cooperate.
In fact, each of us has to go through such a stage to understand that the world does not revolve around us, but as long as we adjust our mentality, we can still go on very smoothly. For example, I am more comfortable with my work now, and I have a team with a few students who have just entered the society like me before, and I have always encouraged them. Therefore, no matter what the situation is, what kind of things we encounter, one thing that will never be wrong is to strive to improve ourselves, because only by improving ourselves will we have more opportunities and the possibility of success.
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I got depression after I went to college, but my good friends didn't care about me very much, and then I realized that they also had their own troubles, and the world didn't revolve around me.
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When the person who is dedicated to helping and trusts one day finds that he no longer trusts himself. At this time, you will find that it is not as important as you think.
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When you enter the university, you will find that your roommates will not take care of your preferences, and if you want to fit in with the university community, don't always think about others surrounding you.
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I only know that the world doesn't revolve around you because of employment, and you can do many things if you can, and if you can't, someone else will do it for you.
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People have to go through it to understand what the truth is.
We never grew up, but we stubbornly believe that age is proportional to experience, forcing you to grow. When we were young, we were not afraid of novelty because of curiosity, and we always refused to help our hands, from stumbling to running, from longing for the outside world ......From great curiosity to timidity, when the amygdala disguised itself, I gradually understood that even if the sun revolves around me, the world is not there for a moment. Therefore, I used to understand, why do others do what I do, why do I always fail?
As I grew older, I was afraid of the world outside, and I was afraid of change.
People always think that they see the world from such a beautiful perspective, and they look at other people's perspectives so narcissistically, they feel that everything others do is related to them, they feel that their gestures can be eye-catching, and the unintentional glance of others may make him think that person will appreciate me. In fact, you will find that you will find it difficult to talk about the mistakes you have made, but others will not remember it at all, and it turns out that there is such a thing. The narcissistic person who used to be would disguise himself so perfectly, for fear that he would laugh in front of others, but the pity is that no one else may have looked at you, even if you fall in public, you will feel ashamed and blush, you will want to find a hole to get into, you will think about my perfect image!
But, in the eyes of others: Ah, someone has fallen! No, don't expect how long you'll be in other people's heads, they just know it's there, and they can't sit in the right seat for you.
So, don't think about how important you are, you don't have to be who you are.
On the way you grow up, you will always meet people who praise and appreciate you, but it does not mean that everyone will revolve around you, the world is equal, she is not a personal property.
In fact, you are very small and just a drop in the ocean, an insignificant character, and the world will still turn when you leave you. So, don't let the amygdala dominate you and make you look childish and ridiculous.
I feel more and more that many things are not what I want, and even the smallest expression of happiness and unhappiness seems to start to belong to me. Someone once told you to learn to be mature, to learn to adapt to this society that is not only you, but you stubbornly didn't listen, until one day someone suddenly told you in very realistic words, don't be stupid, you don't have the halo of the protagonist. At that time, you turn around and lower your head to wipe secretly, blaming the other party for speaking too cruelly.
From then on, you will understand that society is like this, be strong.
The world will still turn when you leave. You are not a princess in a fairy tale, and there is no prince to love you. At that time, we always thought that we were the center of the world, until one day, we found that we were just a small role in a sea of people, and everything was still turning away from us.
Our own existence is very small, and we are like a stubborn little grass, always trying to take root deep in the barren soil, so that we can survive in this vast world.
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It's always been, the world doesn't revolve around me.
I lost my father when I was a child, so I always do things carefully!
There is no confidence in doing things! Because I never got a father's love! No one has ever tasted a father's love!
So the world didn't revolve around me!
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I don't feel this way, because my family has four siblings, there are many children, and my parents are office workers for us to live a better life, and when we were born, there were only children, and I was very envious of them at the time, but when his parents were old, I didn't think like that.
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From the time I was sensible, I realized that the world never revolves around me, and we all have to obey the will of others, from adults when we are young, from teachers at school, to work with leaders, and to retire with the next generation.
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Growing up in my heart, the first time I was deceived and deceived, the first time I was betrayed, the first time I entered the social status alone, unless you stand in the center of the world, you are really nothing, life is not easy, and you survive.
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When we encounter each person, life in the changing situation, the feeling at that time from sunrise to sunset, from day to night, from spring to winter, from dusk, I feel that the world does not revolve around me, it is around the energetic, youthful, vibrant, life needs not experience, but the process of growth, life needs a sense of ritual, I want to see the world when I am in Fanghua.
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I was so happy when I was a kid. You will be the little sun in the family. Everybody, including parents, grandparents, and grandparents, will revolve around you.
The good times don't last long, and from the beginning of reading, you will find that all the teachers will not revolve around you, and there are so many students in the class. When you work, the leader will not revolve around you, but you will revolve around the leader. Therefore, the happiest time is at home, but unfortunately it is not the same as before.
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When you have the ability to think independently and feel the world with blood and tears.
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When I was young, the conditions at home were not very good, and it was not my child, at that time we knew that the world did not revolve around me alone, at that time we only knew that we could eat enough and dress warmly, only during the New Year there was fruit to eat, only during the New Year there were new clothes to wear, only during the New Year the meat can be eaten, because the family killed pigs, there is meat to eat, all year round, parents work hard, in order to support the family running around and tired, but life is still not satisfactory! Thank you to our parents for nurturing them!
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From the beginning of college, in the past, everyone would do what they did together, and when I was in junior high school, what happened, the whole school immediately knew, when I was in high school. Whatever happened, the whole grade knew about it, and the university, what happened, maybe only the dorm people knew.
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When you really face all your own things independently, you will understand that the world does not revolve around you, the earth does not revolve without you, and this is when you really grow up.
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It's been since elementary school.,Parents don't give you what you want.,Temper tantrums won't coax you anymore and then tell you that you're getting older and older and should know something.,There's also a possibility that you gave birth to a younger brother or sister.,Attention is not on yourself.,Parents spend more time on younger brothers and sisters.,I feel like I'm not pampered before.。
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I probably watched the blue cat naughty three thousand questions when I was a child, and I learned that the earth revolves around the sun.
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When I started elementary school, I felt that my family and teachers were very pampered when I was at home and in kindergarten, and the basic requirements could be met, but it was different in elementary school, there were many students in the class, and there were only a few teachers who liked it, and I felt that I was not valued for the first time.
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Start in elementary school! Because since elementary school, you need to care about learning something! Your focus is not here! And the attention of parents is also learning! Keep an eye on the results! That's why it's not a little sun!
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When you enter the society and start your professional career, you find that you are nothing in the eyes of others, no one will care about your feelings, it is natural to do things right, and you will be scolded if you do wrong.
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The world never revolves around anyone, so I never felt like the world revolves around me.
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The view that the world revolves around you is also a matter of recent years, especially for only children, this phenomenon rarely appeared in the past, in fact, when you go to school, you will know that the world does not revolve around you, and when you go to work, you will know that you are just a grain of sand in the world.
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When he was very young, he understood that everything could only be done on his own, and he was an early person who realized self-independence. Do your own things, don't rely on others and have your own opinions on everything, no one will surround you ** hold on to yourself, and don't be moved by external forces. It's good to know sweetness when you endure hardship early.
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When you encounter setbacks, you will know that except for your parents, everyone else will not revolve around you for no reason.
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