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This kind of thing is a lot to say, the freshness at the beginning, curiosity, and the desire to understand the past, it is to understand each other, to be familiar, to become a part of themselves, to know what each other is, to have a choice, what is good, what is not good, what is suitable for yourself, what is not suitable for yourself, tired of it, it is enough, it is time to end, but to understand a person, how easy it is to talk, some people will not see each other in their lives.
Some people can't even talk about understanding themselves in this life, let alone others.
So, it's a long story.
I can only tell you that the feeling of being in love can only be experienced and felt by yourself.
It can only be understood, not spoken.
Chirp,.Just humble opinion. See the laugh.
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There is no greasy, in fact, two people together is also fate, depending on how you cherish it, the best thing is to understand more, be more tolerant, give each other more thoughtfulness, and occasionally give him (her) some unexpected surprises It's not bad, even if it's small, it can't be small, it will have different effects.
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In the process of two people getting acquainted, knowing, falling in love, and getting married, there is also a process of affection from the love island, this degree should be grasped by themselves, women love to be coquettish, so that small sex is nature, men must know how to coax women to be happy, not big men.
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Greasy is for sure, it's like liking ham, you will definitely be tired if you eat it every day, so you change tricks every day, but you can't change your heart.
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Analysis of the reasons why it is easy to break up after a long relationship.
I often come across some suggestions. The two fell in love for a few years, just like husband and wife, and continued to date, and it stands to reason that they should get married, but one day they separated and became strangers again. It may be brought up by one party, or it may be taken seriously by the two.
Come to think of it, no matter what you think, it's very sad that a relationship that has been going on for a few years could end like this. The truth is that the longer two people are together, the more stable the relationship becomes. Most of the time, if you don't get married after talking for a long time, you won't really get married in the future.
From the beginning, there were no plans to get married. It is not normal for a man to be in a relationship with a woman for many years without getting married. That's it, they really want to live with someone for a lifetime, there is a certain tacit understanding between them, they have been in love for a certain amount of time, they will not be dragged down at all, naturally, the two of them will put the issue of marriage on the agenda.
The two of them will take the initiative to speak up, they will be willing, they will work hard for it, to convince their parents, to finalize all the procedures and relationships. Generally speaking, love should be like this, it's just that there are always some people who will also enter into a relationship, but from the bottom of their hearts, they are not really satisfied. It's not because they like it, they don't see it as their other half, they want a future, but they just want to stop for a while and have someone by their side.
You see, we can stay in a relationship for a while, but later, if we get married, we will want to be with someone else. For some people, falling in love and getting married are completely different things, two different things. So even if they've been talking for a long time, but at that age, they really want to get married, and they won't even think about continuing like this, and he'll break up quickly and go back to being single, and then they'll look for someone who feels right.
In fact, there are a lot of people who don't get good results. This is due to the fact that the company's business is not good. At the same time, when they first got together, the situation was different in all aspects, there were a few years, each other's opportunities were different, the contact environment was different, and their own development was not the same.
The two of them could marry each other. They will feel that today is not what they want, and they will worry that things will get worse later if they get married easily. If you talk for a long time, you will really start to lose your previous motivation, you will no longer be as brave as before, you will no longer be as sure of the other person as you used to, you will think that the other person is right, you will just start to become very suspicious, and most importantly you will withdraw from it.
This sentiment has been brewing and one day it will really explode and finally decide that you don't want to go on any longer and don't want to be in this state for the rest of your life.
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1. I have met you for two years, and I have been happy, and such days can continue in the future.
2. My goal in life is to maintain the status quo with you.
3. If a girl tells a boy the name of the flower, once the boy sees that kind of flower in his life, he will think of that girl.
4. There is no light rain outside the window, and the rain is cut into sections by the dim yellow street lamps, and he is very shy while listening to the sound of the rain and looking at his paintings. It's going to catch a cold, he said, and brought a hair dryer from the bathroom, and the hair dryer line was just in time to arrive, and he began to help me dry my hair, feeling like something was about to start. The sound of my heart beating outweighed the sound of the hair dryer.
5. Stereo **If you listen with headphones, the left and right ears will hear different sounds of the stool, and if two people listen to one ear, they will hear different sounds.
6. The beginning is the beginning of the end, the encounter is always accompanied by parting, and love is like a party that will end one day.
7. It's impossible to like it all the time like before, and if you want to pursue this kind of thing, you can't be happy.
8. Once you think of breaking up, this crack will get bigger and bigger.
9. I think it's okay not to break up, just get married, have a few children, call yourself mom and dad, you can't always like it as much as you did at the beginning, everyone lives like this, I am confident that I can live well with you and become happy together.
10. It's really hard to be an ordinary person.
11. There is such a thing as love, but it can't be half of one person, love is one for one person.
12. It was also raining that day, he helped me blow my hair, the baked rice balls were delicious, how is the couple at the bakery near the apartment now?
13. The loneliness of two people is far more lonely than the loneliness of one person.
14. You have forgotten to change the light bulb on the balcony.
15. Love is fresh food, there is a period of appreciation, after the appreciation period, the two will only keep throwing the ball and catching the ball, just seeking to be evenly matched.
16. The scenery we have come all the way is very beautiful, but we are only one step away.
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How long does it take for a relationship to get tired depends on what you fell in love with each other when you were together.
Because of the good looks and together, two months will be tired of watching the year button.
If you are together because you have money, you will get tired of the asset crisis.
Being together because of the interesting personality, you will get tired of exposing negative energy.
Because of the "nanny-style" goodness and being together, the nanny party will get tired of it.
However, loving someone requires growing together. Find someone with an interesting soul to be with, and even if you get bored one day, you can find new fun together. Liangchang.
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Of course, it's easy to get tired, which is a problem that every couple has to face in the process of falling in love.
I once saw an article that said that whether you get tired or not depends on what you liked each other when you were together. Because of the good looks together, they will get tired of it for two months; Because the nanny-style "good" is together, when the nanny party is tired and tired; Because there is money together, you will get tired of the asset crisis; Because the personality is interesting together, if you expose more negative energy, you will get tired;
Although it may not be all right, there is also a certain truth, in the final analysis, you will feel tired of being together for a long time, it is nothing more than loveless, or you don't know how to manage feelings.
Once, a friend asked me a question: "My boyfriend and I were obviously very good at the beginning, and we got along very well, but we only had each other in our eyes, but why is it getting weaker and weaker now?" He even sometimes tells me that I've been in love for so long and I'm tired of it!
I asked her if you were going to watch a movie together when you had just started a relationship? Will you prepare for a date together? Will they exchange gifts?
She nodded again and again, saying yes! I asked her again if you rarely go to the movies together, go shopping, go on dates, and even find it troublesome to give gifts. She thought about it for a moment, then nodded at me and said, "You're really amazing, you can guess it."
> fact, they have been together for a long time, and the reason why they feel tired is because the ritual sense of love at the beginning has disappeared with time, and the relationship will of course slowly fade. Some people say that love without a sense of ritual is soulless, and living every day is as plain as drinking boiled water.
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I feel that when it comes to falling in love, two people have already determined the relationship, and it needs to be officially announced, so that family, relatives and friends know each other's existence, so it's better, two people are in love, you need to pay attention to the following four points.
1. Learn to be coquettish in moderation.
People often say that spoiled girls are the best, but the premise is that they are smart and knowledgeable, and they can be coquettish willfully, but they must know how to be moderate. If you are too coquettish, you can't handle it well, and you enjoy the love of boys, and after a long time, boys will become very tired and their feelings will collapse. Properly grasp that degree, not only to get the other party's understanding, but also to express your anger appropriately.
It is necessary to be gentle and learn to be coquettish. In other words, what man doesn't like gentle and coquettish girls?
2. Give the other party a sense of mystery.
It is a thing that must be maintained in front of the person you like, just like you should never be too quick in love, the relationship is the same as the person, and you must always retain a sense of mystery. Feelings and people are the same, the more you taste, the more flavorful. Maybe he likes you because of your appearance, but he is reluctant to leave you because of your character and your way of life.
Let him see you but can't touch you, let the other party always maintain curiosity and desire to explore you, and keep the relationship fresh.
3. Economic independence.
Many boys will say in love: "I will raise you", but there are too many boys who are easy to break their promises. So people will quip:
Those women who have listened to men, I raised you, and in the end they all starved to death." Girls who are not financially independent often quarrel with each other over trivial things, and these are often the fuses for emotional breakdown. Therefore, girls, whether they are in love or married, must maintain their financial independence, which does not come from distrust of the other party, but a kind of early self-respect for your own personality.
4. Give the other party a little freedom.
Everyone yearns for freedom, especially boys, who yearn for freedom and don't want to be controlled. And many girls like to make deadly serial calls to their boyfriends. As long as my boyfriend is not around, ** keeps calling, and text messages keep sending.
What's more, some even have boyfriends, friends, and colleagues. This only makes the boy feel as if they are prisoners in captivity, and makes him feel the urge to escape. When a girl is calling ** or leaving a message with her boyfriend, don't drag it out for a long time, let alone be aggressive, which will make people bored and run away.
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In a relationship, the length of time is not the only determining factor. Two people who have been together for a long time may feel bored or bored for various reasons, but there are also many couples who can maintain a long-term relationship.
The reason for the boredom may be that the differences in hobbies, personality traits, living habits and other aspects of the two parties are gradually increasing, resulting in a gradual decrease in the attractiveness of each other. In addition, if two people spend too much time together, there may be problems such as mutual dependence, habitual thinking, and lack of freshness, which will also affect the development of the relationship.
However, if both partners are willing to make efforts to maintain the relationship, such as trying new things, sharing common interests, supporting and understanding each other, etc., it can alleviate the problem of boredom and make the relationship more stable and long-lasting.
Therefore, whether two people will get tired of being together for a long time depends on the way they get along and their mentality. If both parties can face the problem positively and constantly create surprises and freshness for each other, it can make the relationship even better.
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