Is it too much for the in laws to pay 400 yuan a month to watch the children cook, why are the in la

Thanks for the invitation, is it too much for the in-laws to watch the children cook, and pay 400 yuan a month? Why are my in-laws reluctant to ask for it?

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The subject is showing his own life, and the family is happy, there are kind father-in-laws and mothers-in-law to help take care of the children, wash clothes and mop the floor, do all the housework, and at the same time see that this family is a family with a very superior sense of superiority, but asking questions like this is itself a question that pushes itself on the cusp, because! Ordinary family life also requires general standard living expenses, 400 yuan, not to mention living expenses, but a kind of warmth or buying cosmetics for her mother-in-law like a daughter. But this question, all friends, spray subject, can't blame friends, but high-quality teachers' questions, testing ordinary people living on ordinary platforms.

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I don't think it's much, because my in-laws don't want to add to your burden, and they really feel sorry for you, so even if it's 400 yuan, they don't want to ask for such in-laws, they have to be filial.

400 yuan is not a lot, and your parents-in-law don't want your money because they don't want to take care of their grandchildren as a transaction, after all, children are also their grandchildren.

Not much, too little, your in-laws don't want to see that you don't have money, and they don't want to burden you.

The in-laws are reluctant to do so because they feel that they are helping the daily life of the couple, and at the same time the in-laws feel that this is their responsibility, and they also love the children very much, so they are willing to pay.

Paying 400 yuan a month is not much, or even a little less. They don't want to be considerate of you, they think they are still capable, and they don't want you to make up for it.

The in-laws pay 400 yuan a month for living expenses when they watch their children cook, which is actually not much, and the reason why the in-laws are reluctant to ask for it is because they feel that it is actually an obligation to take their grandchildren.

In the eyes of the in-laws, this is their responsibility, after all, they are taking care of their own grandchildren, and you give 400 yuan because you are afraid that they will work hard, but in their eyes it is not necessary, so don't.

Not much. The in-laws don't want to take care of the children because they want to take care of them voluntarily, and if they receive the money, they will be very out of sight, and they don't look like a family.

Not much. Because the in-laws take care of the children because they love the children, they don't care about this money.

Because the in-laws take care of their children more and are very considerate, they think that it is natural for the family to take care of each other, and it is more face-saving not to have living expenses.

Summary. Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, you can say something like this: in-laws, you see, the weather is so hot now, the air conditioning electricity bill is also a lot, and it is hot enough to go out to buy things, this is the money for your electricity bill, so as to prevent heatstroke and cool down.

If you want to give your mother-in-law and father-in-law living expenses, it's hard to say it directly.

You can say this: Mother-in-law, you see, the weather is so hot now, and there are a lot of electricity bills in the empty head, and it is hot enough to go out to buy the east and the west, this is the money for your electricity bill, so as to prevent heatstroke and cool down.

Our family and Yinxiao are rural, there is no air conditioning, so my mother-in-law always says that everything in this house is theirs, and we are working, and we don't bring the town to do farm work with them, I want to give some living expenses, and the province is that we always eat them.

I used to work outside, and now I bring my children back to school, I always say so, how should I say not to be noisy, you are very filial, empathetic, and praise for you, you can give money to your husband, ask your husband to give them money, dig your son to give money to Qianzhou, parents will want it, this is filial piety.

You can also say this: children go to school, buy clothes, buy stationery, buy all kinds of materials, the cost is very large, this money is taken by the second elder for the child to go to school. If you don't tell them to use it, you will gladly accept it.

Categories: Troubles >> family relationships.

Problem description: My husband and their parents live in the same community, just pay tribute to different units, because Lao Chenfu is a cook, so in the past, we generally ate and lived in the unit, and the house was rented to others, but now we are married, we live in the house by ourselves, we don't have our own gang, because we are close to the parents who are sent back, so we usually eat dinner at my parents' house after work.

Although the two old ones didn't say anything, should the daughter-in-law pay for food in this situation?

Analysis: It is okay to pay the living expenses or not, it still depends on the attitude and income of the elderly, but you should at least have a serious discussion with the elderly on this issue and listen to their opinions. In fact, many elderly people hope that their children can stay together often, and they don't care too much about the cost of living.

You yourselves should give back to the old man in other ways (both spiritual and material), and such a life will be beautiful. Wishing you happiness!

Summary. Pro, give your mother-in-law food expenses, which is a traditional Chinese culture to support the elderly.

We give my mother-in-law food money every month, and he also asks us to pay 200 yuan every month.

Pro, give your mother-in-law food expenses, which is a traditional Chinese culture to support the elderly.

Mother-in-law still asks you to pay 200 yuan a month, is this the living expenses of you and your husband?

is to give her food expenses every month, and she also wants us to give him an extra 200 every month, and her mother-in-law has explained the other 200 yuan, what is it for?

What your husband asks of his mother-in-law, what does he do.

Save up, ask my husband and brothers to give 200 relatives a month, can you understand, mother-in-law is trying to help your brothers save money, in some places, although the brothers have their own families, but in the eyes of parents, it is still a family.

Therefore, they will ask each child to save an extra 200 in addition to living expenses.

What do you think about this extra 200 yuan?

In the big family, our customs are still based on the big family, the mother is there, the home is there, so in the eyes of the mother, the child is always the child, the 200 yuan, on the surface is money, but in fact the authority of the elders.

Dear, what do you think of this request from your mother-in-law? What did my husband do?

Kiss, are you there? You can say what you think, and we'll analyze it.

Your mother-in-law just doesn't want to see the child or give money, and the family guesses what she said in order to coax you to have a child and take a child, do you really dare to believe it?

You ask your mother-in-law for pocket money, and you don't pay attention to it anywhere. Ask your husband Duan Zhaoshen for money, if he doesn't give it, either you don't look at the children and go out to work directly. Either wait until your child goes to kindergarten and go find a job on your own.

Hello! 1.The child was born to you and your husband, and your young couple has the obligation to raise the child, while the mother-in-law has no obligation to raise the grandchildren, so you should not ask the mother-in-law for money.

2.When the child's milk powder or diaper will run out, you let your husband talk to your mother-in-law, and you, don't rush to the "front line". My husband said:

Referring to God's mother, before the spring teasing, now the child's milk powder has been eaten, and it is going to be **. It costs 2,000 yuan to buy it once, and the diaper is almost gone, and I can't support him on my own salary. Mom, what do you think?

3.Daily: When you go out and go home, you see your mother-in-law, your mouth is sweet, and you say for the child: "Grandma, I'm home, grandma, have you eaten?" If you are polite (respectful) to grandma, grandma will also love you!

Has your husband been ignored by you?