Buddhists are more likely to be depressed

Buddhism is an internet buzzword and a cultural phenomenon. The main meaning refers to the attitude of life that has no desires, no sorrows, no joys, and the pursuit of inner peace of mind.

This is because of the Buddhist attitude, the core of which is the mentality of not entangled, not twisted, not indulged, everything is just like this, and there is no need to take it to heart.

People with this mentality often look like everything is empty on the outside, but on the inside they know how to grasp the bottom-line principle that they recognize, and they can keep things and people outside the bottom-line principle.

It is precisely this kind of self-cleaning and relaxation that makes the originally tight and cramped workplace atmosphere and relationships have room for maneuver - after all, many relationships and work cooperation in the workplace cannot reach the point of touching the principle of personal bottom line in most cases.

But there are some people in the crowd who are very unfortunate enough to be unable to enter the state of self-refuge of the Buddha system.

They are often easily caught up in an emotion, and are repeatedly entangled and tormented by this emotion, which eventually leads to personality and emotional breakdown. That's right, we're talking about depression, the world's most lethal emotional killer in recent years.

Depression is the most common mental and emotional disorder in our daily life. The main clinical feature of depression is a marked and persistent depression in mood and inability to extricate oneself.

In medicine, depressed mood is completely different from general emotional depression.

Emotional depression will gradually dissipate as the environment changes and things progress; However, depressed mood has its own obvious and unique development path and stage: at the beginning, it is unexplained depression, and after a long time, the whole person will become inexplicably grief-stricken, if it is not effectively resolved, after accumulating day by day, people begin to fall into inferiority complex, and even pessimistic and misanthropic.

Buddhism of Buddhism, I think this kind of people are generally more introverted, and it is easy to go to extremes, this kind of very normal things are also easy to get a solution because of psychological problems, every day is not in the mood of Buddhism, I think this kind of people are generally more introverted, and it is easy to go to extremes, this kind of very normal things are also easy to get a solution because of psychological problems, every day is in a bad mood.

Hello, I think Buddhist people should not be prone to depression, because Buddhist people are more open to things, they don't get entangled, and they don't care too much about the results.

If you are a very Buddhist person, you will usually be more stubborn in your thinking, and it is easy to live in your own small world, and this type of person will be very prone to depression.

Relatively speaking, it is indeed easier for Buddhist people to be beneficial, because familiar people, their personality traits often determine that they are not so enthusiastic and generous, so people in this area should be more should.

Enlightenment is actually very simple, it is difficult to maintain, people may be enlightened one moment, but the next moment they will go back again. To learn Buddhism is to endure loneliness, first of all, we must let go of attachment and let go of the eyes of those around us.

Zi said: "If a gentleman is not heavy, he is not powerful, and if he learns, he is not solid." The Lord is faithful, and those who have no friends are not as good as themselves, and do not be afraid to change them. ”

I guess I can't do a lot of things.

For example, if you like someone, but you don't know if he likes yourself or not, you can only stay in the ambiguous stage and laugh at yourself, let everything follow fate. After saying that, I still continue to maintain an ambiguous relationship, if you don't say it, I won't say it.

Continue to be a salted fish without dreams as always, but you are not as good as ever, how can he be closer to you if he is so good? To put it bluntly, it's just that we're afraid of being said, we're really just good friends, don't think too much.

Another example is work, obviously everything is properly arranged, and it is also done in accordance with the leader's wishes, but because of some temporary episodes, they messed up, complicated simple things, and if things are not completed, they will be called to the office for a training that will cover their heads. In the final analysis, I don't have enough adaptability and too much confidence for myself. As a result, not only was he wronged, but he also made a mess, and he could only cower in front of the leader and say that he would not do this next time.

Then in the face of the next work assigned by the leader, even if I did a good job and was praised by the leader, I would only think that it would be good if I wasn't scolded, and I didn't expect you to praise me. Do your job honestly, and you won't interfere with others by pointing fingers.

Therefore, "Buddhist life" is a self-ridicule for young people today, after all, aren't they afraid of hearing some answers that they don't want?

The most important thing to be a person is to be happy, if you don't give some self-ridicule, how can you live this hard life? Right?

The rationale behind this is actually quite simple.

1.Recognize the self-limitation of insufficient resources.

The world is so big, I want to go and see it, but unfortunately there is no money.

2.It's a character with low desires.,In the case of sufficient basic material security.,Just want to live a Buddhist life.。

Some people have this kind of nature, and they enjoy this kind of life.

3.There is a gap between dreams and self-positioning, and a lack of self-awareness, which leads to too much hope and too much disappointment.

Insufficient assessment of their own ability and resource level, always feel that they can do more, and later they were beaten by society, the psychological gap is large, and they are indignant, so they can only suppress their inner desires.

4.The current comfort zone is really comfortable, the Internet has increased young people's understanding of life, and many people are in a kind of 'go to **count** mentality to live.

Buddhism goes with the flow, and wants beautiful things, but now that I can live my life, I still say that in the past, I can basically meet what I want to buy and eat. However, if you add 'mortgage, car loan, wife and children' to this kind of life, it may rapidly reduce the quality of life. Under the trade-off, seeing that everyone is not in a hurry, I would rather have more than a day of high-quality life than a sleepy day.

5.I don't want to be overly involved in the life of leeks, and I don't want my children to continue to repeat this life.

The days of looking at the end at a glance are almost visible to young people nowadays, and since they are not living as they wish, then don't suffer the children.

There is still a big gap between this era and the previous era (when the computer side-sensitive network was not popular). The existence of the Internet has broken the scope of human cognition.

It turns out that you just heard about it but didn't Yun He Zhi has really come into contact with the life of a rich person, and your vision is so much that you can have a wife and children on a hot kang head, and you feel quite satisfied.

It can be said that the desire is average, but it is generally due to the limitation of knowledge; Now casually swipe the mobile phone, open the network and feel that the per capita million, life is happy, regular travel around the world, live a life of fine clothes and food, some people have money and some people have love, since then the pattern has opened, only to find that I want everything, but nothing.

Yesterday, I was chatting with a classmate, and I suddenly had the urge to write an article.

Chatting he sent me the following sentence:

I'm not sociable by nature. In most cases, I either find the other person boring or afraid that the other person will find me boring. But I was too tired to put up with the boredom of the other party, nor to make myself amused.

I'm most relaxed when I'm alone, because I don't feel bored, and even if I do, I bear it on my own, without affecting others, and I don't need to feel uneasy.

Zhou Guoping. He sent me this sentence, saying that this is his state, I thought about it and told him Zheng Jinma, this should be the status quo of the vast majority of people.

He also said that there is no disappointment without expectations, and I thought about it again and told him that there is no future to look forward to, so what is the point.

He also said that he was used to Buddhism and didn't care about it anymore. When I saw this sentence, I suddenly felt that Buddhism seemed to be a kind of pessimism, as if many things were expected, and when I found that I couldn't do it, I gave up, and then there was no desire and pursuit.

When I told him what I thought of Buddhism, he told me, "If you think it's pessimistic, be pessimistic, there are a thousand Hamlets for a thousand people, and everyone has a different understanding of Buddhism." ”

After thinking about it, perhaps, it's like reading comprehension can't get a perfect score, because there is no such thing as a fixed answer.

It's a good thing to be able to let go and see it, but it's a bad thing to bite your teeth and have to grit your teeth if you can't see it.

I would like to add that the Buddha's mind is to go with the flow, and to become a Buddha is to have no desires and no desires. The Buddhism system we want to do is "but do good deeds, don't ask about the future" and "do it when you see it, let it go when you do it, and why not do it when you do it".

Nowadays, many people say that they are "Buddha", but many times their so-called "Buddha" is just an excuse for not working hard.

There are also some people who use "Buddhism" as a gimmick, and always shout "Amitabha" just to get out of position, in the end, they haven't even read a few scriptures, which makes me feel that they are not cute at all, but very sad, and even pitiful.

How boring a person has to be to associate himself with an unrelated hot spot. It was probably because his life was too much of nothing that this trend would detonate.

There are 84,000 ways to cultivate Buddhism, and if you see through it, you will naturally see through it.

As for Buddhism, if I make more progress, what if I believe in Buddhism? Don't think of the Buddha as a reason why you don't work hard and don't take it seriously, and you just mess up every day, and use the topic to get by. Only when you know what you want can you have faith, so that no matter what you believe or don't believe in anything, it is a really good life.