Why do I keep losing? 40

Why do you always suffer losses, you should know that continuous losses will learn from experience and lessons, as the saying goes, "losses are blessings".

It's that you love others too much and forget yourself.

Always looked down upon by others.

Wholeheartedly for others.

People don't take you seriously.

It is wisest to leave early.

In today's society, being able to clearly know that you are at a loss, in fact, is actually a clear idea, seeing your narrative, I feel that you are still very face-loving, and would rather suffer more losses than tear your face with your so-called friends, in fact, this will only make the other party think more that they have taken a big advantage, which is the problem. As the saying goes, suffering is a blessing, but in fact, this is not the case, you have to adjust your perception of people and things, which people are worth eatingWhat is lost, which is not worth it. Knowing how to deal with people and things is the root of the problem.

It's a blessing to suffer a loss, I've been in the company for a few years, and the salary is still there, what does he do.

No way! People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden! It's bad luck to come across this! It's not good to get it!

Because you're not mentally strong!

That's why there are so many things!

Because your kindness is recognized by others.

That's because you're a comparative, that's because you're a person who thinks about problems sometimes, and thinks less, so that's it.

People think that it is a blessing to suffer, but always suffer, you have to think about what the problem is?

Why do I keep losing? There is a saying that if you suffer a small loss, you will take advantage of a big advantage, so it is a blessing to suffer a loss, and it is beneficial to suffer more losses.

Suffering losses is a blessing, don't worry too much, you can't suffer any big losses.

The reason why you suffer a loss may be because you are kind-hearted, so when you don't fight with others to forbear, you forbear, because of the transition between yin and yang, so you often suffer losses and do not fight for your own interests.

It's because you may be weak alone, that's why you treat it like this at home.

Sometimes, don't think of yourself as a fool if you suffer too much, you can choose to leave him, or do something else on your own.

Because of your kindness, you always suffer, and kind people always suffer, you must remember.

Because you always care about other people's thoughts and feelings, plus you blindly obey and always do things you don't want to do. It's very simple not to suffer, it's OK to refuse, the tone can be tactful, and you must be superficial about your thoughts. Don't always think that you're going to lose their favor, you're going to lose it, you're going to be unhappy.

It is a blessing to suffer a loss, but it depends on who you are with, those who are worth dating can suffer losses, and those who are not worth it are not necessary.

It's always you who suffers, and I think you have to think about it for yourself. I really have to think about it for myself, because after I read your topic, I didn't know that you were at a loss. But you'd better be able to think for yourself why you're losing.

In fact, suffering is not necessarily a bad thing, you can get experience from it to know what kind of character you are, so that you can better get rid of this kind of character. So that you will not suffer in the future.

During the National Day, Yancheng direct store held the first event. Due to the large scale of the activity, it was necessary to transfer staff from the headquarters to assist in the development of the activity, and everyone excused themselves with their own reasons. The boss was furious at the meeting and angrily reprimanded:

When the company needs you, you all choose to back down. This time you have to go, and if you don't go, you have to go. Even so, everyone seems to be unmoved, after all, everyone has their own arrangements during the National Day ** week.

The boss was helpless, so he came to me and said: Now the company is in trouble, you are the person in charge of the sales department, you have to take the lead in the business trip, and others will respond. The sales department and the direct sales department are two separate departments, each with its own sales goals.

In terms of work attributes, there is not much intersection in work. But I was powerless to refute such far-fetched reasons given by my boss, even if I was extremely reluctant in my heart.

Sales work has always been about running around. Others celebrate the holidays, but we still have to run to the front line of the market. The biggest torment in every salesperson's heart is not this wandering life, but the guilt of the family.

Entering the peak sales season in September, except for the youngest daughter who took half a day off for vaccination, the rest of the time was either at work or on a business trip. This year's Mid-Autumn Festival moon night was also spent thousands of miles away in a foreign land. That day at the high-speed rail station, I watched everyone else rushing home, and we ran from home to a foreign land, and we didn't feel sad.

During the rare National Day holiday, I originally planned to return to the life track of the family to make up for the regret of the lack of life roles of "being a son, a husband, and a father". My mother has been suffering from inexplicable foot pain recently, and she has difficulty walking. Although ** has been saying that it is not a big thing to hinder the guesser, but in my heart I can't let it go.

The eldest daughter is in the rebellious period of adolescence, and the teacher has been sending messages recently hoping that the parents will communicate well. The youngest daughter is about to turn one year old, and her lover said that she always likes to call "Dad" with lead oranges. Although my lover doesn't go to work, he is responsible for the daily life of his two children, and he has obviously aged a lot in the past two ......yearsHow I would like to spend more time with them, but life has to go on and work needs to be cherished.

In the workplace, many things are involuntary.

The boss's arrangement, in fact, I could have turned down with good reasons, but at that moment I had a hard time speaking. As the saying goes: suffering is a blessing.

For this unattainable and somewhat illusory "blessing", I would rather not suffer this loss. I remember a senior once said to me: That day, when you know how to refuse, is when you are truly mature.

Yes, because I don't know how to refuse, it's always me who suffers every time.

Growth Day Lesson 197 365

The ancestors have a saying: suffering is a blessing! But in real life, most people will think that suffering is suffering, because as the literal meaning of "suffering" must be a loss to themselves, either interests or feelings, there is always a point where they are treated unfairly.

And some people don't suffer losses once, but often suffer losses, and what is even more distressing is that they repeatedly suffer losses on similar issues, so they sigh: "Why is it always me who suffers?" ”

Yes! Why is it always you who suffers?

Maybe you're a careless person.

In the personality assessment, there is a personality trait called "sluggishness", which does not refer to the derogatory meaning of a person's slow response, but reflects a person's insensitivity to the words and attitudes of others.

In interpersonal relationships, people who don't care about anything don't care about anything, it doesn't matter if they pay more, it doesn't matter if they take on more, such people are the good people in people's mouths. Good people will win respect when they meet people who know how to cherish and gratitude, but they will be easily deceived and deceived when they meet people with bad hearts. Because he is willing to pay, he is constantly exploited, and because he is willing to bear, he is constantly oppressed.

Although I don't care, as long as people are not stupid, they can still see the ugly faces of bad people after a long time, and at this time they will find that they have been suffering.

Maybe you're a forgetful person.

When I was a child, I was always deceived by my cousin, and every time he got into trouble and coaxed me to take the blame for him, my mother would scold me for being brainless and letting the dog eat my memory.

Every time I was scolded, I really felt wronged, and tears flowed. When I grew up, joined the work, and led the team to work, I realized that my mother's words were really the essence.

The team worked together, and some people dragged everyone back because of their own negligence, but others didn't have a long memory and always handed over the same thing to this person to do, but every time something went wrong because of him, and when it was time to hold them accountable, they found out that he had harmed everyone.

Suffering a loss is inexperienced, suffering two losses is kindness, and suffering three losses is willing to endure, but always suffering losses is not a plan or must be good forgetfulness, commonly known as not long memory.

You must not do a review.

As the saying goes: Eating a trench grows a wisdom, but too many people can't grow a wisdom after eating a lot of trenches, for no other reason, that is, they don't do a review.

When you get a benefit, you feel that your character is good, and if you suffer a loss, you will only say that you are unlucky, but you will not do things retrospectively and analyze.

In fact, no matter what happens in this world, as long as there is a presentation of the result, the cause, the process, and the result are sorted out, and the correlation between cause and effect has a logical line.

Therefore, successful people like to review, while failed people never make excuses subjectively, and never review objectively.

The above is the reason why many people often suffer losses, if you also find that you often suffer losses, you may wish to compare them and see which one you belong to.

Summary. I suffer because I am too kind and too honest. So people will want to bully you.

If you don't want to be disadvantaged, then you have to get a little bit worse. Don't always think about others when you encounter things, and sometimes be selfish. Don't always say yes, learn to say no, not what others say.

Then, you must know how to refute, not what others say is what it is, and it is useless to move in an ambiguous way, and you must properly express your true thoughts. Therefore, if you want not to suffer losses, you have to become "bad", and of course, I still don't advocate doing bad things.

I'm always at a loss.

I suffer because I am too kind and too honest. So people will want to bully you. If you don't want to be disadvantaged, then you have to get a little bit worse.

Don't always think about others when you encounter things, and sometimes be selfish. Don't always say yes, learn to say no, not what others say. Then, you must know how to refute, not what others say is what it is, and it is useless to move in an ambiguous way, and you must properly express your true thoughts.

Therefore, if you want not to suffer losses, you have to become "bad", and of course, I still don't advocate doing bad things.

I am dissatisfied with society.

My dear, how can you be dissatisfied with society? How long have you been thinking about this?

I've been suffering for a long time.

If you always suffer, that's your problem, you have to face up to this problem and find a way to solve it, but when others make these unreasonable demands with you, you have to learn to refuse.