There are 7 stages of a long term marriage, how many stages does a marriage generally go through?

It is easy to fall in love and marriage is not easy, and a perfect marriage must also withstand the test of time and the run-in of time, but a long-term marriage must go through the following seven stages, and after going through, the marriage is yours. Holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son, what stage has your marriage reached?

I'm not married yet, but I understand this situation, because I've seen the marital status of my parents, and there is indeed the weary period that you mentioned in this situation, which is about 1 or 2 years after getting married.

2 years after marriage because many people think that 1 2 years after marriage should be the sweetest period for two people, there is no trouble of having children, there is no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law living with Suila, and the world of the two is both romantic and free. Having said that, many times the first two years after marriage are also a hurdle that many couples can't overcome, for the simple reason that such couples have not lived together before marriage, and they pay great attention to their image every time they date and meet, and they also know how to hide their shortcomings in front of each other. But living together after marriage is a completely different picture, the wife is not used to seeing her husband sloppy, the husband complains that his wife spends money lavishly, when the image of the Picha clan fan before marriage is completely collapsed after marriage, there will be more and more contradictions between the two, and they will even dislike each other, thinking that this marriage is too hasty.

The post-birth stage of the child is because when the young couple has successfully passed the first 2 years of marriage, the next challenge is the life after having a child. Children are the crystallization of the love of the husband and wife, but it is also the standard for testing the relationship between husband and wife, do not think that raising children is just feeding and changing diapers, the hard work here also includes the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the confinement of the relationship, the husband is busy with work and rarely takes care of the family, the difference between the two generations of parenting concepts. In addition, many couples will become very busy after having children, so that there will be a lot less communication with each other, wives complain that their husbands are not considerate of themselves, husbands feel that their wives are hypocritical, and the dilution of feelings and various life conflicts make it difficult for many young couples to survive the first two years after the birth of their children.

The first stage is re-cognition, in this trembling stage, you need to have a correct understanding of the nature of marriage, understand that marriage is the practice of two people, and it requires two people to improve each other, constantly change and progress.

The second stage is to understand the differences, in marital life, the conflicts between the husband and wife are often due to the ignorance of the differences that exist between men and women, which leads to stronger conflicts. Recognizing and respecting the differences between men and women is the basis for the proper management of marital relationships. Learn to empathize and guide the other person to express their emotions reasonably.

The third stage is to understand oneself, when there is a problem in the marriage, the most important thing is not to look for the other party's mistakes, but to reflect on oneself first, so that you can become an excellent lover first, so as to guide the other party to cheat and quarrel to change.

The fourth stage is to express effectively, when facing quarrels, don't bring the concepts brought to you by the big family into your married life, and don't use your parents' experience as a reference standard for dealing with problems.

The fifth stage is forgiveness and reconciliation, and the ultimate skill to make a marriage more lasting and happy is to find a common goal for both parties, experience the happiness brought by marriage together, and work together for a common goal, which is the secret of lasting happiness in marriage.