When giving birth to a child and having a difficult birth, my husband and mother in law both said to

1.When giving birth to a child and having a difficult birth, my husband and mother-in-law both said to protect the child, should this marriage be divorced? If you don't choose your person for divorce, you have to give up, the hospital is the most real place to test human nature!

Someone said: "It is a woman's misfortune to marry into such a family, but it is a blessing to meet such a doctor in several lifetimes!" Indeed, many times, the person you trust and love the most may be the person who hurts you the most and hurts you the most.

Bi Shumin once gave a woman a piece of advice: a good marriage will die, and a bad marriage will also die. A good marriage can make each other better, while a tangled marriage will only constantly consume each other's energy and energy, hideous faces, vicious language and fierce conflicts, there are no winners, most of the time it is infighting or even three defeats.

2.It has been said that marriage is essentially a slow-growing plant that needs to be watered, fertilized, pruned, and wound together to grow more and stronger vines. The wife has a difficult birth, and the mother-in-law has a large and small flow, which is understandable; But it's incredible that the husband also gives up the big ones and the small ones.

Your marriage seems to have moved forward in a yellow light. We all know that in Chinese families, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not always so harmonious, and most of them are even bad. So, when his wife has a difficult birth, if he can only keep one head and give birth to a son, most mothers-in-law will give up the big and small many times.

Of course, if they had a daughter, they might have different ideas.

3.This is a helpless choice, which was made after the hospital gave professional advice, not a choice made by the mother-in-law on her own initiative. So it is understandable that the mother-in-law has such thoughts.

Marriage is a bet for women who, before marriage, mistakenly put their happiness on the choices of thousands of men, believing that choice is everything. But some men will be good at disguise, marriage and marriage have changed completely, all the money that a woman has given in marriage, all the treasures are bet on men, and she may lose badly in the end. Or even shattered into pieces!

I think you should get divorced, in this family you are just an outsider, just a machine to have children, and you will not be particularly happy living with each other.

Of course, they should be divorced, since they choose to keep their children, then don't leave them children, and don't contact such people, after all, such people have no conscience.

I think they have to get divorced, because they don't care about your life or death at all, what age is they still saying that they want to keep their children, which fully shows that they are short-sighted and really entrusted to non-people.

The news caused a lot of controversy, with some people arguing that the doctor's approach was right and should not be prosecuted; Some people think that the approach of the husband and mother-in-law is chilling, how can they give up on adults and choose children!

There are also lawyers who have given advice that pregnant women who have not yet given birth belong to natural persons and enjoy the right to life and health, and others have no right to deprive them, while the fetus has not yet been born and does not belong to natural persons, trusting the doctor's judgment and respecting the doctor's decision, will make the most favorable choice.

As a woman who wants to be a mother, she is facing the risk of giving birth, how to choose when the risk comes, you must think about it in advance, if you are really not at ease with your husband and mother-in-law, you can set your parents as guardians before giving birth, or you can sign a statement in advance, and in the case of "protecting adults and children", you can protect adults first.

I don't know what my husband and mother-in-law think, is my daughter-in-law so worthless in your eyes? Without the care of the mother, can the child grow up healthy? As the saying goes: "Stay in the green mountains, don't be afraid of no firewood", and there will be no children after they are gone!

You only think of your family's "successor", the family is not there, and you will never agree if you are there.

After this life and death catastrophe, the mother should also understand how terrible the intentions of the person in front of you and the person next to your pillow are, and the choice at the critical moment is really chilling and desperate, so let's have a snack.

The doctor will choose the most beneficial plan according to the situation at the scene, even if there is a real situation where adults and children can only choose one or the other, the doctor will give priority to adults, and will not let family members choose to protect the big and the small. Even if the pregnant woman asks for the doctor herself, the doctor will not do that. Unless adults are doomed to be unsaved.

Why do you have children when you meet such a mother-in-law and husband, it's better to be better to yourself!

If a divorce is really needed, you can file a divorce lawsuit directly with the court, but you need to collect relevant evidence of the breakdown of the relationship between the parties so that the court will make a judgment.

If it were me, I would definitely take the children back to my parents' house, and then file a lawsuit for divorce and stay away from them.

I think I should stick to my own attitude, I must divorce, the children and myself should be important, and even if my husband doesn't protect me, I should give up on him.

Then pick up the law to protect your rights and interests, after all, this harm to yourself is too much, I think everyone is unforgivable.

Your Chunpi approach is very correct, and it can be seen from your mother-in-law's tone that in the future, your mother-in-law will not give you any good looks. Poor pickpocketing.

I am very much in favor of this decision, because your mother-in-law doesn't care about your life or death at all, she only cares about the children.

I think you should also get divorced, because they don't value your life in such a family.

Your decision is right, this kind of family that treats your life as a mustard cannot continue to stay, otherwise it will be hurt even more in the future.