If you have a child and die in childbirth, can you accept your partner s renewal?

Updated on parenting 2024-04-20
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If I have a child who dies in childbirth, I will definitely hope that he will continue to do so. Without my company, I really don't feel at ease that he lives alone in this world.

    Personally, I think that since I have passed away, as the saying goes, life can't bring it with death, people come and go naked, since I can't take anything away, and I can't come back, why be selfish and let the other party always remember me and be loyal to me. I think that truly loving someone is of course hoping that the other person can live a better life, and living alone or raising children alone is obviously not a happy choice. I wish I had someone to accompany him and talk to him.

    If I die of childbirth, but the baby is born. I have only one request: he and the two don't treat the child badly, the child is pitiful, since the string has been renewed, I hope that the other half of the string is a kind-hearted person, don't treat my child badly, and can work together with him to raise me and his child.

    Speaking from the bottom of my heart, if I unfortunately die in childbirth and leave him alone, I will be sad and afraid that he will be alone. So of course I can accept his retinuation, and I should also thank the other half of the continuum for being willing to take my place and continue to accompany him and take care of him on my behalf. I hope that even without me, he and her will live a happy life.

    It's good to have someone to accompany him to old age for me.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    <>If it really happens, then people are dead, and what else can accept the unacceptable. I can't accept it and I can't manage it anymore, I'm helpless, I can't do anything, do I want to turn into a ghost and come back to ask for an explanation? Personally, I think this question is good and has no value for discussion!

    If you ask if you ask if there is someone outside your husband after getting married and having children, what should you do as a woman with children? This is also worth discussing. The point is that they are all dead, can they still know what is happening in reality?

    Even if you don't want to die and die in the end, you can't stop anything from happening in the future. As a person, he has his own thoughts and feelings, of course, if his beloved wife dies because he gave birth to a child, then no matter what kind of man will feel ashamed of his wife, maybe whenever he sees his own children, he will think of his deceased wife. The key is that no matter how sad and sad you are at that time, time can always make people's pain better, because there is a physiological phenomenon called "forgetting".

    Slowly, no matter how turbulent things are, they will always return to calm.

    He can face life calmly after being heartbroken, so whether the surviving husband will consider finding a wife to continue for himself or for the sake of a complete family for his children is his own idea. It has nothing to do with the self after death. No matter how much a husband loves his wife, after a long time, because he is no longer around, he will also shift his thoughts about himself, which is human nature, and it is a normal physiological reaction.

    It's like falling out of love, and I was sad at the time, but I can always accept the reality later, because even if I was reluctant at that time, I would forget everything later because of the passage of time, or forget the grief of the past because I met another person who was more suitable for me than before.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think if this happens, as far as I am concerned, I will definitely agree with my partner to continue the string! I already belong to the dead, I must love him very much, I don't want my death to bind him for a lifetime, I want him to be happy and happy Even if I don't accompany him in the next life, it's enough for him to be happy!

    What does it be like to love someone? I think the main thing is, I want him to be well, and I'm happy without me. When you are together, you can bravely form a family with him, have children for him, and even give your own life.

    I think if it were me, I would definitely love this person miserably, and I wouldn't be selfish to say to him, after I die, you must always remember me, and never marry someone else. Such a request is selfish, I am not such a selfish person!

    After I die, maybe I will have only one request, that is, to take good care of our child, I exchanged my life for his life, I hope you love him well, take care of him and grow up slowly, and at the same time live happily, don't let our children be wronged!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. Under the current medical conditions, it is not so easy to give birth to a child and die easily, and there is no need for pregnant mothers to make such assumptions out of thin air.

    2. What age is it now, even if the wife dies, it seems that the husband remarries more appropriately than "remarriage". There is no need for women to confine their ideas of marriage to the ideas of decades or hundreds of years ago.

    3. Both the husband and the wife are independent individuals, and after the death of the wife, whether the husband remarries or not is his personal choice, and the wife has no right to interfere, and there is no possibility of interference. Do you ask your husband to write a pledge: "If you die, I will never marry again?" ”

    4. The more you demand from your husband, the more it shows that women are dependent on men.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If my wife is gone, I will definitely continue to have another one, and then divorce, or simply take it alone.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think I will be able to, if it is really the time to keep the big and the small I think as long as I don't faint, I will protect myself because people are really selfish, so I am not so great If I pass out, even if my in-laws want to keep the small, I don't think my family will agree, so I said, I won't dislike it, don't spray.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Although there is a little unwillingness and envy, it is great that they can be happy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This question! I guess I'm the most vocal. Unfortunately, I was the one who gave birth.

    I heard that my mother died of hemorrhage after giving birth to me, and then I became a child without a mother, and I didn't even know what my mother looked like. At that time, it was a miracle that I survived the rural feudal superstitions, at least I was not treated as a hoodoo and thrown in the barren mountains and wilderness, it was my uncle, uncle, grandmother who didn't care about these feudal superstitions, didn't care about the eyes of others, and brought me back to my home as a baby from the hospital until I grew up. Their living conditions at that time were quite acceptable at that time, and they didn't have grandchildren yet, so the whole family loved me and protected me.

    Whatever is delicious and fun, leave it to me. It can be regarded as wanting the wind to be windy, and it is raining to be rainy, just like a little young master. But maybe it's because I myself have known that I don't have a mother since I was a child, so I've always played quietly and by myself.

    My dad is in me.

    I married my current mom when I was six or seven years old, but I've got it all.

    When she was six or seven years old, she already knew something, and then she gave birth to two younger sisters. When we were younger brothers and sisters, I often bullied them, and my mother was also towards me, until I grew up, I would be better to those two younger sisters, although we were half-siblings, but there would be no such estrangement, we still got along very well, no different from a mother, at least ours would not say that the other party was not biological, and there would be no such posture of not getting along. Although I know that it is also my mother, she is also very good to me, from a small manuscript to a big meticulous care of my life and study.

    It's the same as my own son, and it's better for me than for my two biological sisters. But after all, she is not my biological mother, and I will have a gap in communication with her, and I will not tell her everything, and I like to hide my thoughts. In this way, the mother's love that has been missing from childhood to adulthood cannot be made up for by anyone, and it cannot be replaced. . .

    So what I want to say is that if you give birth to a child and die in childbirth, you must be a father before the child is sensible and can remember. Find someone who can give the child mother's love, because I know that the kind of love without a mother has too many flaws in the child's growth. No one hurts when you cry, no one teaches you when you do something wrong, and no one praises you for doing something good.

    What is it like not to be coquettish in your mother's arms. The lack of all kinds of maternal love has too many disadvantages for the child's growth, such as the child's guts, courage, self-confidence, etc., will have an impact, so that the child is cowardly and self-closed, afraid to communicate with the outside world... It has a great impact on the development of children.

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