Peacefully broke up. 5 years are over, what should I do in the future?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-06
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    It's going to be sad to break up for the time being, and we've been together for so long. What I want to tell the landlord is that when you don't know if a person is doing well, don't criticize anything. Maybe she's just as sad as you are.

    Since you think she has a new life, then don't live in the past, but look to the future. Because I don't know you very well either. So I don't know how to make you have a purpose.

    The goal is to learn to find it yourself. Here's a piece of advice: I'm still young and can pursue my career or studies.

    I believe you will find the right one for you in the future.

    I know the breakup was painful, but relax and the sky is bluer.

    I also know that it is easier to say that it is up to you to do it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Dude, want to open some, my love for seven years is just a pity in the end, don't read those emotional articles on the Internet during this time, find a few good brothers to travel together or something.

    Maybe someone will let you start another relationship or something, I just want to say my opinion, you must be very uncomfortable now, and you are not in decline, so in your state, if you start a new relationship, it is an irresponsible attitude towards you and others, and you are very likely to be numb again.

    So I advise you to go out for a walk and see the beauty of nature.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Since there is no result after paying, there are not many regrets, after all, there are good memories. She must also be sad and sad, after all, she has also given her feelings.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Learn to forget. You will step into your new world.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I'm also very uncomfortable.

    But if you continue to struggle like this, it will always be your own pain, and she will not pity you.

    All you have to do is live better than her.

    Believe in yourself and you can find a girl who is more suitable for you

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You should give him constant ** and send messages to express his heart, and you can ask him out to sit down and talk about it to see if there is any possibility of recovery.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can apologize to the other person, you can directly tell the other person that you can't forget the other person and want to redeem the other person.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you really can't let go of this relationship, then try to chase the other person back, so that you don't regret it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Some people may not have the courage to start a relationship again after many years of breakup, and this situation can be improved in the following three ways:1. Go out and contact others more; 2. Strive to improve yourself; 3. See a psychologist

    First of all, some people don't start a new relationship after breaking up for many years because they are used to the current life, and some people don't dare to fall in love because they have been traumatized, but we must understand that not every love in the world is exactly the same, we must learn to contact different people, so that we can see a different world, otherwise we will be more and more reluctant to go out if we have been staying in our own world.

    And let you go out to contact others, not to let you go on a blind date or to "fish", but to go out to contact friends, to meet friends of friends, and gradually you will meet a person who you have a good impression of, in fact, a good feeling will easily arise, if you don't go out all the time, you will never meet such a person.

    In addition, there are some people who dare not go out to fall in love, just because they have no confidence in themselves, in fact, we should understand that what others like is the unique you, as long as you have no principled problems, then it is okay to be deficient in other places, there is no need to take Liu Yifei's appearance to demand yourself.

    Finally, if you still can't go out and fall in love, then there is an immediate way, that is, to see a psychologist, the psychologist can accurately find your problem, can help you relieve the emotions you dare not face in your heart, and please be sure to trust the psychologist, give yourself completely to them, they will use their expertise to help you solve the problems you currently feel you can't solve.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can meet new opinions, you can also make new friends, and you can participate in more blind dates and dating parties in your life. You can start a new life for yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You should be brave enough to take this step, look for the sweetness of love, and let yourself take this step by communicating with others or by contacting others.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think first of all, you should change your mind, and you should also know that you deserve to meet someone better, and when you meet someone you like, you should be brave to confess or be brave enough to get along with others, so that you can start a relationship again.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you love him and he loves you, don't care about your family.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Time is the best medicine for pain.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Find one as soon as possible and get rid of the previous relationship.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can fight for it, but if you can't do it, start the next relationship.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My husband had been talking in Xinjiang for four years, and the woman was pregnant and the fetal position was wrong. The woman is an only child, and the mother over there asked her to be a son-in-law, but the mother here refused, and then the woman's mother asked them to break up, and the woman proposed to break up, which is very similar to you. In the end, they met me for almost half a year.

    At first, let me be my sister and the relationship was confirmed in the last few minutes, you can try to calm down for a while and redevelop the relationship

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Finding a new partner is the most effective way to do it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    How many years have we been acquainted since 07. From which you have lived with someone else.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's hard to get out of a 6-year relationship, it's not that easy.

    As the saying goes, the best way to forget a relationship is to start a new one, preferably away from the place where you spent it together, and never see him again

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I rubbed it for six years, just because my family didn't agree.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Quickly find a new one, you can go to the Internet or bar, etc.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Approaching a new relationship. Otherwise, you will never be able to get out. You have to find one that is hundreds of times thousands of times better than the original.

    What was not in the original is available now. It has to be this way. Before moving on to your next relationship, it's a good idea to find a game to play to distract yourself before learning to cook and hang out with friends.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Go on a trip....Or a different environment....

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Envy... If it's me. I eloped.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Find another one, time can fade away, I'm about the same as you! I'm five years old, and my family doesn't agree! Now we're all married!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you really love him, you won't give up on him.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The family disagrees, you have been here for six years, why don't you insist.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Hold on a little longer and see if the family agrees, my sister didn't agree with the family before, but later agreed.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The family doesn't agree, and you break up.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Find someone to walk out for you instead of him.

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