Do couples have to quarrel with each other? Should couples fight each other?

It's normal to quarrel, and there will definitely be some contradictions between two people, especially if they are not together and have no common experience. The so-called nothing is wrong, but at least she loves you and wants to have some common experiences with you, my boyfriend and I are also in a different place in the past six months, sometimes I play ** before going to bed at night, one person is sleepy, and the other person is talking energetically, such a trivial matter will also cause quarrels, so two people are more considerate of each other. Every once in a while, as long as you have time, you can see each other, so the effect will be better, every girl wants her prince to be by her side, so that she can feel happy by her side!

1 She just thinks that your love life is too peaceful and makes people feel unreal, so she always wants to toss it to prove that your love exists, and feels that you care about her and spoil her.

2 Girls of this age are easily influenced by the various views of their friends and classmates, so they look at the couple's relationship mode and hope to learn from it, or imitate it to some extent.

3 Cherish it, at least she loves you, and according to your love, there is no fear of tossing. I wish you happiness and be more considerate, it's actually nothing. Let her more.

Quarrels are not a good thing, and of course, sometimes they are inevitable in life. Another point is that you are in a long-distance relationship, and there are some hidden dangers, that is, they are separated from each other, and there are fewer opportunities to meet and get along and communicate, and the relationship is maintained. Over time, love is born soon, and the building near the water gets the moon first. . .

All of this makes sense! Bless you all!

It's definitely going to be noisy, sometimes she's venting, sometimes it's to relieve pressure, sometimes it's because you miss you but you don't understand her, sometimes it's upset, sometimes it's tired, and so on, and so on, ......What you have to do is not to avoid quarrels, but to care more about her, be more patient and tolerant!! Do you understand?

Quarrel Small quarrel is fun Big quarrel is a disaster Some couples are happy enemies Some are respectful to each other Some are speechless I think it may be because of the personality Are girls a little willful Be a man to be generous Isn't it just a little woman Brother doesn't care about you With this mentality, your girlfriend will lose to you Haha Bless you.

The deeper you love, the more you care, and there are more disputes, but you are not together, she may need your shoulder sometimes, but you are no longer around, complaining to you, hoping that you can spend more time with her, girls are insecure.

Hitting is love, scolding is love, and it is not normal not to beat or scold.

Quarrels are also a form of communication.

Don't, after all, it's a couple who wants to live a lifetime, learn when you quarrel.

Learn to be calm. When many couples have conflicts, they quarrel regardless of the occasion and place, and then break up impulsively, and finally either regret that they shouldn't have been so impulsive, or they don't solve the problem, and fall into a bad cycle of reconciliation and breakup. In fact, no matter whose fault it is, don't blame the other party at will when there is a conflict, because this is tantamount to adding fuel to the fire, and it is even likely to rise to laughing at the other party, turning over old accounts, and escalating a simple quarrel into a more serious one.

Empathy. When there are disagreements and contradictions, you should learn to empathize and think about what is wrong with you, which is conducive to the return of your own reason. Just like the two people in the play, they have learned to empathize, quarrel overnight, apologize to each other in person the next day, and solve the contradiction if there is a contradiction, it is best to have one person give in first and throw an olive branch, and the other must also learn to catch it, ** level, which is also beneficial to the feelings of two people, if both people are deadlocked, it will be bad, and it will not be far from breaking up.

Couple quarrels are not entirely bad, sometimes couples quarrel can make the contradictions in the relationship be resolved in time, when both people say their hearts, the accumulated grievances are released, and at the same time get the other party's understanding, so that the relationship is stronger. Use a flexible method to resolve contradictions and conflicts, which is more obvious in girls, but at the same time, they also expect the other party to cover some edges and corners for themselves.

It's even worse if the two are always arguing endlessly, sometimes even stirring up trouble just to get the other person "out". Just because two people love each other doesn't mean that there will never be disagreements, what matters is how to resolve those conflicts. Some couples have always been tired and crooked in a particularly good relationship, but suddenly one day a quarrel broke out, and then suddenly broke up, indicating that they will not handle the conflict and disagreement correctly.

In fact, a long-term relationship is not always harmonious, but also how to resolve contradictions. Couples quarrel not to divide the winners and losers, but to maintain intimacy, resolve conflicts, and apologize is not faceless, but to express their love and cherish this relationship.

Some couples get better and better after a quarrel, while some couples divorce after a quarrel, which may be due to whether they will quarrel, and for those who will quarrel, it may make the relationship between couples continue to heat up. The following is an introduction to whether it is normal for couples to quarrel and what to do if couples quarrel.

Is it normal for couples to quarrel with each other.

It is very normal for couples to quarrel with each other, in fact, the more intimate they are, the easier it is to quarrel, but people with average relationships will be too lazy to quarrel after having a conflict, and it is a big deal not to communicate. In general, quarrels are emotional confrontations, and in the process of quarrels, it is not the content but the emotions that are quarreled, so when people communicate with each other, emotions are always perceived before the content, which leads to emotional distortion and quarrels.

What to do if there is a quarrel between couples.

1. Stay calm.

Stay calm after a fight between couples and don't make decisions when you're angry, so you'll regret it when the time comes, so be sure to try to keep your head cool.

2. Don't say hurtful things.

Couples can be loud when they quarrel, but don't say hurtful words, after all, the other person is the person you love, don't let the other person leave you.

A proper argument in a relationship may help warm up the relationship!

1.Quarrels allow both parties to express their grievances and needs and thus understand each other better.

2.Arguments can also help both parties to better solve problems and find better solutions, which can strengthen the feeling of trust and mutual support in a relationship.

3.But it's important to make sure that the argument is moderate and that you don't hurt each other or attack each other's personalities and values. If arguments are too frequent, intense, or uncontrolled, they can lead to emotional breakdown.

To ensure that arguments in a relationship are beneficial, healthy communication needs to be established, respect each other's ideas and needs, and a good understanding of each other's feelings. Old no.

Not necessarily, as long as the auspicious silver is held well, quarreling may enhance the relationship between the two parties, after all, it is impossible for couples who do not quarrel! I believe that everyone is very experienced in "quarreling", no matter who they are with or why. These seem to become a part of our lives, everything is natural, and over time, we take for granted that it is normal things to quarrel.

In my opinion, it is very normal for two couples to have conflicts and disputes when they get along together, but there is also a time limit for such conflicts to intensify. Normally, after a run-in period of about three months to half a year, most couples will gradually stabilize their relationship and the number of quarrels will decrease. And if after this period of time, couples who have not been able to reach a compromise balance are likely to move towards a breakup.

If, after a year of dating, the quarrel has not decreased, each must check their self-esteem.

To be honest, there is no such thing as a couple in this world who does not quarrel at all, after all, no matter how well two people get along, they can't avoid differences. Because they are in the stage of a couple, they are not completely familiar with each other. But as time goes on, you will slowly find out the temperament of the other person, and when you disagree, you will both find a better solution.

Couples will have a relationship run-in period from falling in love and getting married, if it is not lightning, and after the run-in period, you will feel very happy with each other. There will be no shadow of quarrels hurting feelings.

But no matter how you quarrel, I hope all couples understand one thing, and that is to remember not to hurt each other, after all, the person who can hurt you the most must be the person closest to you. I'm sure you've heard a lot of similar words. Because the people closest to us know us better and know our weaknesses.

Therefore, when the closest person wants to hurt you, it must be ruthless and accurate. I believe that the vast majority of people will not deliberately hurt those close to them. But people all have the same weakness - when they are emotional, they can't control themselves.

Therefore, when we are arguing, it is very easy for us to "win".

It's normal for couples to have an occasional quarrel with each other, because two people have different personalities, and when they are together, they need to grind each other's stools and judge each other. There are often quarrels between them. But if you quarrel often, you shouldn't hail it, which means that the personalities of the two people are not suitable.

You're right, it's very common for couples to quarrel with each other. It's just that it's all trivial things, and it doesn't matter if it's not a matter of principle. After the quarrel, no one should care.

Of course, it is very common, and there will always be different opinions when two people get along together, so it is normal to quarrel.

Yes, there will inevitably be friction after a long time, which is normal, but if you keep being unreasonable, then there will be a problem.

Quarrels between lovers are common, after a quarrel, no matter what the reason is, which party is responsible, as long as one party takes the initiative to apologize, generally speaking, the conflict can be resolved. Therefore, being generous and not worrying about whose fault is the best solution.

Nowhere is this more evident than in stubborn people. If you quarrel with a stubborn lover, as long as you apologize to him, you don't have to do anything else to get back together, but you can't ask the stubborn person in the same way, because the stubborn person will never change his words as soon as he speaks, and he is very stubborn and can't listen to other people's opinions, so if you want to ask the stubborn person to apologize to the other party, especially the other party with equal status, it is absolutely impossible, if you want the stubborn person to make peace with the other party, not only is it impossible to work, but there will be a danger of causing a major disaster. If you have to apologize to a stubborn person, it will be possible until he has forgotten everything and his anger has disappeared.

Once, my female friend and her boyfriend got into a fight over a trivial matter that didn't matter, and the boyfriend wouldn't budge. At this time, the other party said to him: "Your attitude is not good, I don't like you like this, as long as you apologize, I will forgive you."

But her boyfriend said that he didn't apologize for anything, and seeing that it couldn't be ended, her friend finally cried, bowed his head deeply and said, "You just apologize, right?" Then I will forgive you!

With tears in her eyes, she seemed to be playing a very artistic tragedy. The end result is that the boyfriend still hasn't apologized. It is obviously difficult to force the other party to apologize like this to try to get back together, and even if it is repaired temporarily, there will be hidden dangers in the future.

Of course, in some cases, no matter how hard you try, you can't make up for the gap with the other person or win back the other person's heart, at this time, you must decisively give up the desire to reconcile. Here are some of the things you might be able to make:

1.You feel that you are always cautious, suffering from gains and losses, and trying not to anger or offend him.

2.You feel like your partner doesn't respect you very often.

3.You go to work or with friends and are more confident than when you are with your partner.

4.You're not used to criticizing your partner.

5.You find it difficult to talk to your partner about what you really want and need, and sometimes you wonder if you "need" something or feel insecure.

6.You feel that your partner treats you as well as you treat him.

7.You feel you have to "work hard" to make your partner understand that you too have the right to love, hate, equality and freedom.

8.You often make excuses or excuses to yourself or your friends about your partner's behaviour or your life situation.

9.You often resent yourself for being weak and cowardly in front of men, but even though you vowed not to repeat the mistakes of the past, you willingly accepted unfair treatment.