As a parent, how can I guide my child to use the phone correctly?

As a parent, you must supervise your child when they use their mobile phone, so that they can use their mobile phone more correctly. First of all, parents should pay attention to the posture of their children using mobile phones, some children like to lower their heads or hook their necks when playing with mobile phones, in this case, children's cervical spine may have corresponding problems. And when children use mobile phones, parents should also help children control the distance between their eyes and mobile phones, if the eyes are too close to the mobile phone, then the children's vision may also have a corresponding impact.

Therefore, parents and children should stay with their children as much as possible when playing with their mobile phones, so that their children can play with their mobile phones in a more correct way. And play with children on mobile phones, such behavior can also supervise children not to use mobile phones to browse some things that should not be seen, some children use mobile phones, obviously said to study hard or to find the answer to this question, but after getting the mobile phone, they may be addicted to the world of the Internet and unable to extricate themselves.

Children do not have a particularly clear resolution at this time, if parents do not do it well when educating children, then it is easy to cause children to have corresponding problems at this time. Therefore, parents must remember that they must not casually make some problems that ignore their children's growth, which are very harmful to children.

When educating children, parents should choose the right way to guide their children to use mobile phones as much as possible, and in this process, children's personal abilities will become breakthroughs. Mom and dad must make their children better when using mobile phones, which is the real help for children, and in this case, children can get better harvests.

Parents should lead by example, put down their mobile phones to play with their children, must strengthen the concept of time, let children develop good habits of using mobile phones, study more, and read more.

You can use verbal instruction, and you can tell your child what not to play with while playing with their phone.

1. Parents should avoid being addicted to mobile phones and set an example for their children. Parents should make time for more interaction and spending time with their children. For example, doing housework with children, going out for outdoor activities together, playing games together, etc., can not only enhance the family relationship with children, but also avoid relying on mobile phones to pass the time when children are bored.

2. Encourage children to go out and socialize with classmates and friends. Interacting with other children can not only cultivate the child's emotional intelligence and improve his interpersonal skills, but also promote the child's mental health, so that he can talk about his troubles and resolve the psychological crisis in the communication with other children. Of course, children gain friendship and happiness in the process of socializing with classmates and friends, and of course they will not indulge in the illusory world of mobile phones.

3. Help children develop other interests and hobbies. For example, reading, drawing, practicing calligraphy, playing basketball, badminton, etc., are all very good hobbies. If the child has new hobbies in these aspects, his dependence and addiction to mobile phones will be greatly reduced, and these meaningful hobbies can also expand the child's knowledge, enhance the child's physique, and improve the child's talent, which is very helpful for future development.

4. Let children use mobile phones moderately. In this era of high popularity of mobile phones, it is also unrealistic to completely ban children from using mobile phones. Parents can let their children play with their mobile phones for a while at a certain time on the weekend, and at the same time guide their children to distinguish the advantages and disadvantages of online content, so as to avoid children being victimized or deceived by bad online content.

There are a few ways to plan when and how your child will use their phone:

1. Acceptance.

Children play games on the Internet, in fact, and adults play WeChat, watching the news is the same, this is also a way for him to pass the leisure time, without affecting learning, first of all, to give the child trust, believe that he can arrange his own time for learning and mobile phone entertainment, rather than seeing children playing with mobile phones to turn against each other, it is better to give the child some initiative, so that it is helpful for him to learn time management.

2. Principled constraints.

Agree with your child in advance which apps can be used and which apps are not allowed to appear on the phone; It is best not to use it for more than half an hour every day, and turn off the machine regularly. On top of that, cell phones are not allowed to be brought to school; At the same time, it is best for parents to set a good example for their children, and while restraining their children, it is best to reduce the time they spend swiping their mobile phones.

3. Make full use of the convenience of mobile phones.

Learn to scientifically classify the electronic applications in the mobile phone iPad, now many smart phones and ipads have set learning modes, set permissions for children who are not suitable for playing, and scientifically arrange the apps suitable for children to play, such as songs, games, English, animation, hand-drawing, etc., so that children can not only satisfy their curiosity about electronic products, but also allow children to learn knowledge in different electronic applications.

4. Clarify the ownership of mobile phones and cultivate children's norms for the use of items.

Most families with good economic conditions will give electronic products such as mobile phones, tablets, and watches as learning rewards to their children, but this will make primary school students think that what you reward me is my own thing, and parents have no right to interfere.

Therefore, when it comes to using mobile phones, parents cannot give full ownership of mobile phones to their children. Ownership of items is very important in everyday homeschooling.

5. Make a good terms for taking back the mobile phone and let the child confirm it.

Mobile phones are indeed helpful for our learning, and we cannot deny this. New technology products can improve our learning efficiency, but they can also affect our dependence on electronic products. Therefore, it is necessary to control the use time of the mobile phone, determine the time to take back the mobile phone and determine it with the child.

Specify rules for using your phone with your child.

After parents buy a mobile phone for their child, they should study the rules of using the mobile phone with their child and clarify some prohibited matters. For example, you can't use your mobile phone to surf the Internet, you are not allowed to use your mobile phone to receive or transmit bad information, you can't use your mobile phone in class, you can't play with your mobile phone after 10 o'clock in the evening, and other constraints to ensure that your child knows how to use your mobile phone correctly and scientifically.

Establish incentives and disincentives.

Moms and dads stipulate how much money to charge their children's mobile phone numbers every month, and there are penalties for overspending, and there are rewards for saving, so as to encourage children to use mobile phones correctly.

Control how long you spend playing on your phone.

After the child reaches the age of 3, consider buying a mobile phone for him, and at the same time control the time the child plays with the mobile phone, 10 minutes each time, or watch an episode of cartoons every week, do not be soft-hearted in controlling the time and number of times the child plays with the mobile phone, otherwise it will harm the child.

Choose quality content.

For children, parents must do a good job of content screening, it is best to cut off the Internet, and only in the mobile phone**some cartoons suitable for children** or**, to avoid children watching continuously**, playing games repeatedly.

Lead by example. As parents, you should also set an example not to indulge in mobile games, because many of children's behaviors are imitated by adults, so parents should pay attention and reduce the number and duration of playing mobile phones in front of their children. If you have to use your mobile phone for work, you can clearly tell your children that your parents are working on it, and you should put down your mobile phone immediately after work and concentrate on accompanying your children.

1. Several types of ways to correctly guide children to use mobile phones: try to adhere to the position of parents, and delay the child's desire to use mobile phones as late as possible.

2. If the child really needs to use the mobile phone, be sure to limit the time the child uses it.

3. Try to use smart products for children after the age of 10 to 12, and set rules.

4. Reach a consensus with relatives and friends, especially relatives, and don't just give your children's smartphones as prizes.

5. The user quietly rolls the mobile phone that cannot access the Internet.

6. Limit the time spent surfing the Internet at home.

7. Parents should take a firm stance (parents should reach a consensus), do not allow their children to have unreasonable demands, and put away their mobile phones when necessary.

8. Actively cultivate children's other interests, and parents try to participate with their children as much as possible.