Let s talk about why there are more and more older single young people in China?

The circle is too narrow, and there are too many otaku and otaku.

Because of electronic products such as mobile phones, many people are addicted to them and don't have time to think about their life's events.

In this case, there are more situations in villages and towns, mainly caused by economic conditions, maybe my thinking is a bit one-sided, now marrying a daughter-in-law is indeed a bit high, bride price and real estate will make many ordinary families into debts, some are affected by culture, unmarried people, emotional injuries are too serious, and so on.

Maybe I'm afraid that I'm not happy, if the life after marriage is not as good as when I was single, then it's better not to get married, how chic I am alone! Accustomed to the fast-paced single life, afraid of cumbersome married life, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, getting along with two people, having children, a sense of responsibility for the family and children, the collision of two families, many problems are afraid of not being handled well, and they can't afford to take responsibility!

Because the pressure on young people in today's society is particularly high, they can't even afford to support themselves, so they dare not fall in love, marry a wife and have children.

The higher the education, the higher the chances of being single. As a post-90s generation, almost all of the people who came out to work after high school around me are married, and now they are mostly college graduates.

Social intermediaries put profit first, and often do perfunctory things after inviting the parties in. It is not only a waste of the person's time, but also a waste of feelings, and in the end, it may not be satisfied.

There are more and more social uncertainties and unreliability factors, and people are becoming more and more afraid to talk to strangers, which also restricts the interaction of many older young people.

The life circle is small, relatively homely, there are few people I meet, I have no shining point, the long-distance relationship is too hard to maintain, introverted, I don't have time to work overtime, and I don't know how two people get along together after being single for a long time.

The level of trust between people is getting lower and lower, there are more and more people who tell lies, and those who tell the truth are not necessarily believed. If you are sincere to others, others may not be sincere, and if others are sincere to yourself, you may not believe it.

The pace of work and life is accelerating, and young people nowadays are getting busier and busier, busy with survival and even busier with life. At the same time, due to the limited number of people of the opposite sex who are familiar with the working relationship, and the groups outside the working relationship lack basic understanding.

The singleness of older young people is a family problem that cannot be ignored, and it is also a social problem that needs to be solved urgently. In this regard, both the older young people themselves, their families, and the whole society should attach great importance to it, find out the causes, take effective measures, and gradually solve the problem as soon as possible.

1. Reasons for older young people to be single.

There are many reasons why older young people are single, but the following factors cannot be ignored.

1.Social pressure. Young singles may face pressure from family, friends, and society to get married as soon as possible.

2.Financial difficulties. Young singles may face financial difficulties and cannot afford the cost of marriage, such as wedding gifts, weddings, etc.

3.Time is tight. Young singles may lack time to find a partner for reasons such as work and study.

4.Personality factors. Young singles may not be able to find a suitable partner due to personality factors.

5.Marriage concept. Young singles may not be able to find a suitable partner because of their different views on marriage.

6.Social skills. Young singles may not be able to find a suitable partner due to a lack of social skills.

Second, the main way to solve the problem of singleness among older young people.

It should be said that solving the problem of singleness among older young people is also a systematic project. From the family to the workplace and then to the whole society, we should give full play to our own advantages from different angles and strive to create favorable conditions for solving the problem of singleness among older young people. However, older young people, as the main body responsible for solving the problem of singleness, should take the initiative to do the following four things:

1. Participate in more social activities. Participate in various social activities, increase the circle of friends, increase the chances of making friends, and it is possible to meet like-minded partners.

2. Actively participate in online dating. Nowadays, online dating has become a common way, and you can actively participate in online dating through online dating platforms to increase your chances of making friends.

4. Participate in more volunteer activities. Participating in volunteer activities can increase your sense of social responsibility, and at the same time, you should also participate in more gatherings to expand your social circle and increase your opportunities to make friends. Create opportunities to solve the problem of singleness.

Now there are many older young people who do not have the idea of falling in love and getting married, especially capable girls, they feel that it is good to live alone, and they do not need to find a man to affect their work and life, and they feel that they are also good to live alone, so they have become older young people. And some people are reluctant to date because the cost of falling in love is too high. As an older youth, there are many people who are reluctant to associate with the opposite sex, and there are such older young people around me, who are unwilling to find a partner when they reach the marriageable age, or have not yet analyzed the object, there are the following reasons, the first reason is not willing to find a partner, this kind of thing is very assertive people.

They like to be single in their creed, without the existence of the other half, they like the life of singleness, willing to live their own day freely and chicly, without any care, people with this character are not suitable for falling in love, and they do not have the idea of falling in love, they have their own way of life and live very well.

The second type is those who have been emotionally wounded. The biggest reason why this kind of older young people are reluctant to associate with the opposite sex is because they have been hurt by feelings, they have been in love very sincerely, but in the end they can't do it, or because of the other party, the two people are separated, and then they never talk again, because they feel too tired of falling in love, and they also feel too uncertain, so they decide not to fall in love.

The third is to be too picky. As they grow older, their experience is getting richer and richer, and older young people can balance their lives well with their own income, so their requirements for the other half are getting higher and higher, and there are fewer and fewer people of the opposite sex who meet their requirements, because as they grow older, more and more friends of the opposite sex around them get married, which will lead to an imbalance between the two sides, and finally it will become an older young man, unwilling to find the opposite sex.

In fact, when older young people reach a certain age, they should have their own plans about life and marriage, they all have their own understandings and ideas, sometimes as bystanders, we can't judge the right or wrong behavior of the other party, but in their world, their lives are very good now, so we should respect their choice.

Perhaps because of the acceleration of the pace of life, or because of the increase in the pressure of life, many people are now busy with work and entertainment, learning and growing, and making money to enjoy, but they rarely take into account their emotional problems.

As a result, there are a lot of older singles. They miss the marriageable age and don't have the energy to have a big relationship.

Although they have always believed that when the right time comes, the destined person will definitely appear by their side, but as their parents, they are extremely anxious.

As a result, "urging marriage" and "blind date" have become a very headache for these older singles.

Netizen Xiao Zhang is one of the older single groups. She had a boyfriend in college, and like most campus romances, they broke up after graduation.

Maybe it's because of the pain after the breakup, or maybe it's because of the sharp increase in pressure from school to the workplace, in short, Xiao Zhang has put all his conversational power on work in the five years since graduation.

Although she is a girl, because of her excellent work ability and high dedication to work, Xiao Zhang's career development is relatively smooth, and she became the director of the company before the age of 30.

However, although Xiao Zhang's parents are relieved by the excellent work, because Xiao Zhang has been single, it also makes his parents worried.

knew that Xiao Zhang was too busy with work to fall in love, so her parents arranged a lot of blind dates for her.

In this regard, Xiao Zhang was very confused: "I am 29 years old, should I accept the blind date arranged by my parents?" ”

On the one hand, my parents were worried about my future, and on the other hand, I was afraid of blind dates. Xiao Zhang complained, "I know that my parents are good for me, but I don't know how to deal with this problem." ”

In fact, in real life, there are many cases with the same confusion as Xiao Zhang, and many people will reject blind dates, but at the same time they don't want to make their parents sad.

If you want to say that you are really not in a hurry about emotional problems, right? In fact, when I'm not busy, I still envy those who have someone to accompany me.

Nowadays, most young people do not want to get married, thinking that marriage is too tiring and hard, and the divorce rate is very high. has a fear of marriage, so I would rather live alone than fall into the so-called whirlpool of love.

1. The inevitability of the age structure.

As the younger generation is becoming more and more educated, especially those in the 80s, 90s and even the post-00s, their perception of the world will change accordingly. Getting married and having children is no longer a necessary stage of life, and the younger generation pays more attention to the improvement of personal ability and the comfort of their own living conditions.

Women, in particular, are becoming more and more independent. The concept of "marrying a man, marrying a man, dressing and eating" has been completely abandoned. Girls can also buy a car and a house on their own, properly supporting half of today's society! Second, the promotion of the rhythm of life.

The pace of life in modern society is fast, and young people are under greater economic pressure. If the family's financial conditions are not good, then graduation means unemployment, it is quite difficult to start a business from scratch on your own, and you need to put in several times more effort than others. You need to constantly learn and recharge to enrich yourself in order to ensure that you are not eliminated by society.

Imagine, an ordinary migrant worker, in addition to dealing with the surging crowds of people in the morning and evening rush hours, also has to endure a day of heavy work. After work, I have to work hard to learn and expand my knowledge, which is quite tiring. There is no extra time and energy to talk about the so-called love, let alone think about each other and think about each other in everything.

It's a terrible day.

The impact of negative marriage and childbirth.

Modern society can be described as an era of information flow, as people's access to information is becoming more and more convenient, all kinds of negative news about marriage and childbirth are also emerging. In recent years, we have seen a lot of unequal experiences of women in the family, marriage and childbearing on the Internet.

All kinds of realities have a considerable impact on women's thoughts, and most of them are afraid of marriage and childbearing. I want to be happy and enjoy life alone. I don't want to be bound by my family.

Life is already difficult, why bother with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts, widowed parenting. Only those who are willful and free are worthy of themselves.

I also hope that everyone can be more tolerant and partial to the unmarried and childless people, and what kind of life to live is their own choice. You can't treat others as different just because they don't have the same choices as you. Maybe people are more comfortable and happy than you.

Being single at an older age is a common phenomenon, but it can also bring a certain sense of anxiety.

First of all, being single at an older age can make people feel lonely. Most people want a partner they can rely on, but older single people don't have that opportunity, which can make them feel lonely and sometimes even hopeless.

Secondly, being single at an older age can be stressful. Older singles can feel like they're left behind because they see their friends married and they don't have a chain yet, which can make them feel stressed and sometimes even hopeless.

Finally, being single at an older age can be worrying. Older single people worry that they will remain single, or even that they will never be stupid and not find their other half, which can make them feel anxious and sometimes even hopeless.

In short, being single at an older age can bring a certain sense of anxiety, but we should not give up hope of finding a significant other half. We should believe that as long as we work hard with a trillion, one day a partner we can rely on will appear by our side.

We see that there are a lot of older young people who are still single. It is precisely like this that older young people are still single, so many people are very concerned.

Especially the families of these older young people, they all hope that they can find someone they like as soon as possible and be able to have their own love. But even if their families are urging them in every way, these older young people are still single. So I'm wondering now what is the reason why I don't want to have friends of the opposite sex as an older youth.

In fact, there are many reasons for this. First of all, because there are a lot of girls now, and they are very, realistic. Especially in love.

They will put forward a lot of high requirements for boys, requiring boys to have a car, a house, a good job, and a good family, if the boy does not meet the requirements and conditions of the girl, then the girl will not be with the boy.

Even if two people are dating together, he will propose it to the boy. Other requirements, so many times boys are not able to meet the requirements of girls, even if they want to be with girls. Girls also don't want to be with boys.

So many times, some boys can only be forced to choose to be single. So we see that a lot of times it's not that they don't want to make friends of the opposite sex, but because there are some girls who have too high a vision. It's too demanding to be with boys.

So we hope that as a girl in love, we should still want. Pay more attention to love itself. Although it is true that material conditions are also important.

But in love, what is more important is the relationship between two people. If two people have no feelings. It's also impossible to want material things.

So we want to be for these older youth. They shouldn't be too materialistic. Instead, we should pay more attention to love.

Only when they can be better with each other and communicate better with each other, will they eventually be able to find a suitable friend of the opposite sex. Only in this way will he be able to truly find a suitable person for himself, so that they will eventually be able to have their own happy and sweet love.