I m in my 30s, my husband doesn t want children, is he a scumbag?

First of all, you have to understand that you are 30 years old and have no children, it is your husband who is not ready to have children, but this reason does not define your husband as a scumbag. Maybe he is not ready, you should find a suitable time to communicate with him to see if he is not ready. Or maybe it's something else.

There must be a reason for not wanting children, it may be that you are not prepared deep down, or it may be an external factor. Because of something in the past, the child is a bad existence in his heart, and he will have resistance. Or, the family's financial situation does not allow it.

Usually his parents are eager to have a child. <>

Or maybe your husband has a health problem and he hides it. It is impossible for a person to resist for no reason, and it is human instinct to reproduce and reproduce itself, so there must be a reason. Besides, how long have you been married, and only when you have been married for a long time can you talk and solve problems.

Or the worst situation happens, he doesn't love you anymore, and he has someone else in his heart. I don't want to drag myself down because of my child's affairs, but I don't know how to talk to you, so I have been resisting having children. <>

You have to figure out if he doesn't love you anymore, the most taboo thing for husband and wife to live together is to hide mutual suspicion. Is it that you put too much pressure on him, or maybe he can't accept some of your habits or something, and he is embarrassed to speak. You have to try to get better, and then find the right time for everyone to open up and figure things out.

What is the reason why you don't want children, because children need a process to grow up, the longer it will be unfavorable to you, make things clear, be responsible for you, be responsible for him, and be responsible for the child's family. I hope it can help you, and finally I wish you all the best. <>

For most women, the happiest thing is to have a family of their own, in which there is a husband who loves them, as well as the crystallization of their lover, so that life is perfect. If a woman has a child is equivalent to walking around the ghost gate, so many women want to give birth to their babies at their best age, if they have not given birth to children in their 30s, and their husbands have decided not to have children, this does not mean that the husband is a scumbag, you must communicate with him first to see why he does not want children.

There are many men who feel that it hurts a woman a lot to have children, so they will decide not to have children, if a husband does not want children for this reason, then it can only be said that this is a good man who loves his wife, and he has nothing to do with scumbags. If this is the reason, you need your wife to have a good talk with her husband, try to talk about the beauty of having a child and the willingness of a wife to give him a child is not afraid of hard work, and talking more will slowly dispel the fear and panic in his heart.

In today's society, it is rare not to have a child but to raise a child, if the husband is unwilling to have a child, it may also be out of consideration for his own economic conditions, after all, any pair of parents want to give the best to their children, so many parents will not have children without financial ability, this is an objective reason for the family, and it does not mean that the husband is a scumbag.

Nowadays, medicine is so developed, many celebrities only have children after the age of forty, and it is a normal thing for the current society to have no children in their 30s.

After having a child, my husband doesn't care about being a scumbag at all. In this case, you should communicate with your husband and tell him that it is also his responsibility to take care of the children, so that he is responsible for you and the children.

Of course it's a scumbag. As a father of a child, he doesn't care about his children, and he doesn't care about his family at all.

Count, the child is the child of the two of you, and he has the responsibility to fulfill the obligation of a father to take good care of the child, regardless of whether the child is a scumbag.

Count, it is also his responsibility to accompany the child's growth, if the child is born and ignores the child's life after that, this person is not worthy of being a father, and can be regarded as a scumbag.

Definitely. Children are part of your husband's responsibility, and the task of raising children is for two people, not just women. You have to make it clear to him and then divide the task evenly.

After having a child, my husband doesn't care about it at all, so he must be a scumbag. It's not your child alone, and your husband is also obliged to take care of the child.

Absolutely. Widowed parenting is terrible, not only will you be under a lot of pressure on yourself, but it will also have a detrimental effect on the child's development, and the father is too important for the child.

Count, they are all married, have children and wives, and they can't resist the responsibilities of the family, this is the characteristic of a scumbag.

Of course, you are a scumbag, after you have a child, your husband will completely ignore you, and such a man will divorce as soon as possible.

Count, after having children, your husband should care more about you, and be more responsible for you, your children, and your family.