Where is the way out for stay at home moms? Stay at home mom going to work?

A few years ago, my husband often told me that I should use the time I spent with my children to read more books and study more to enrich myself. I started to refuse, I felt very tired, occasionally idle I need to look at the news gossip, see**, listen to **, do baking to relax yourself, I don't want to learn foreign languages anymore to read the professional bookbox, this kind of entertainment lasted for several years, until last year I came into contact with a book "Intelligent Times", read it intermittently, I have a sense of crisis, the world is changing too fast I can't keep up. In the future, the development will become more and more intelligent, and many industries and jobs will disappear, what else can we do?

What kind of knowledge do we need to stock up on now? So I read books such as "Sense of Engagement" written by Li Wanqiang, co-founder of Xiaomi, Eric Schmidt, executive director of Google, and "Redefining the company" by Jonathan Rosenberg, former senior vice president, and I began to understand this new era.

Time can't stand the carving, whether you complete it or not, the result is already what you see, in this life, learning is too important, not for exams, it is self-improvement, I began to self-reflect, my husband has been at work, has been constantly learning, and I am still stuck in the cognition of 6 years ago, not only he and I have no common language, even I don't like to be so useless now, full of complaints. Because the two children are still young, they also need to be picked up and dropped off when they go to kindergarten in September, and the school time is 08:00-16:

00 husband is very busy at work, often need to travel, mother-in-law can't pick up the child, if I go to work in the company, I can't solve the problem of picking up and dropping off the child, so I plan to do something small by myself, so that the time will be a little freer, while picking up the child, I can also have my own things to do, I began to pay attention to the project that can be done, at that time I considered one of the three projects: make a cup of tea in the Hainan region, open Jingdong supermarket, I opened a convenience store similar to 7-Eleven in front of the school to make high-quality snacks for children, because I opened a restaurant for a period of time in 2014, and the business was not bad, so I have a little experience in catering. While I was constantly thinking and planning, a chat with Kiki changed my plans again.

According to your description, your husband's attitude seems somewhat ambivalent and hesitant. On the one hand, he doesn't want you to go to work, but on the other hand, he provides you with support such as monthly living expenses and buying a mobile phone. In this case, you can communicate with your husband and express your thoughts and needs.

Especially in the case of the in-laws' family no longer subsidy, you can discuss with your husband how to share the family's financial expenses.

It is advisable to have a good talk with your husband first so that he understands your thoughts and needs and tries to reach a certain level of consensus. At the same time, you can also express your gratitude and understanding to your husband and let him know that your idea is motivated by the desire to contribute more to the family and not just to make money. If needed, you can solve this problem by planning the family budget with your husband, sharing household chores, etc.

In short, family financial management and financial expenditure are important issues in the relationship between husband and wife, and you and your husband need to actively resolve them. I hope that you can communicate more smoothly and effectively, reach a consensus of mutual understanding and support, and face various challenges in life together.