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Once people reach middle age and have experienced the ups and downs of the years, they will also be more eager for a relatively stable life, and they will be eager to have a warm harbor to live in. When I was young, I was eager to be casual, eager to work around, couldn't stand the restraints, and even was full of resistance to marriage, but when I got older, I would be full of desire for the bland fireworks atmosphere, and I would look forward to having one for myself.

Don't think that men seem to be strong, in fact, they will be afraid of loneliness in their hearts, worry about being empty behind them, and see that the people around them not only have a happy marriage, but also be very longing. Especially in middle age, life will always change dramatically, constantly bearing the separation, work and life will inevitably suffer cruel constraints, it is difficult to achieve complete stability, and the more things that cannot be obtained, the more people are extremely desired.

Little Farewell" suffered the impact of work around him, in order to prevent his relatives from worrying, he chose to conceal the report, and after the matter was exposed, although he pretended not to care on the surface, but in a drunken but released all the sadness in his heart, fortunately there was a warm home, accompanied by a lover, when she lay on his wife's body and cried bitterly, people couldn't help but be moved.

If there is no stability in work and life, then the final place of residence is the stability of a family. In this case, if there is a wife waiting by his side, he will be sure to comfort and encourage himself, as if he has been given a shot in the arm, which makes people wake up and suddenly understand: there is still a future to be expected on the road of life, and there are loving people waiting by their side, everything is so worthwhile.

In the film and television "Charlotte's Troubles", the male protagonist Charlotte wanted to pretend to be wide at the wedding scene of his classmates to satisfy his love for vanity, and deliberately sat down in a luxury car to drink happy wine, but was rushed to the scene Xia Dongmei was suddenly exposed, which made him angry. A middle-aged and elderly man like Charlotte represents a true portrayal of a type of man: he has worked hard for half his life, has not lived a rich life, and has not married the woman he liked at the beginning.

But whether they live satisfactorily or not, men have a certain amount of self-esteem, and they all hope that they can exhale and raise their eyebrows in front of outsiders, and they don't want to be low to the dust. Sometimes, face is the most important thing for middle-aged and elderly men in social relations, if you lack face, you can't get good connections, you can't get the attention of others, and improve your class.

Middle-aged and elderly men are likely to have some "inconsistencies" and "inconsistencies", but behind this corresponds to a deeper level of helplessness. At this time, the lover not only does not understand himself, but also exposes his face in front of everyone, and the man will feel that the mysterious state of mind in his heart is stabbed, so he will be angry and self-ashamed, and the relationship usually cannot last. On the contrary, if a woman can understand a man's innermost mentality, respect his need for face, do not embarrass a man in front of outsiders, give him tolerance and satisfaction, and maintain his self-esteem, men will love women more deeply.

To satisfy his desire for stability, to firmly accompany the people around him to middle age, after experiencing the ups and downs of the years, he will be more eager for a stable life, eager to have a warm harbor for him to inhabit. When I was young, I longed for freedom, I longed to wander around, I couldn't bear the constraints, and I was full of rejection even about marriage.

No matter what, respect his advice, mutual respect is the premise for the relationship to remain in the best state. You ask a man for advice before you do anything, and even if you don't take his point of view, it's respectful for him.

When he needs it, the middle-aged person who accompanies him is most likely to feel lonely, and chatting with him will be much better to talk to him about some topics that interest him, so that his heart will be greatly satisfied.

Caring for him, helping him, understanding him, supporting him, giving him the emotional value he wants, so you can get him.

Give him more tenderness, think from their point of view, give them more understanding, support and understand their decisions, and make a delicious meal to capture their hearts.

To learn to be independent, then you must work hard, not to be vexatious, to have your own economic strength, to support the other party's decision, not to restrict the other party's freedom.