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1. Talk less: Strive to be a person who talks less, chattering all day long, noisy, that is a child, talking when you see someone, saying anything is naïve, you must understand the truth that trouble comes from the mouth, and you must lose if you say more, and you must make less promises to others, strive to be a listener, listen more to the conversations of your elders, listen more to the opinions of others, listen to the feelings of others, gain experience from the conversations of others, obtain the truth of life and life, and solve problems.
2. Less playfulness: children will be greedy for play, play do not know the length of time, play forget to eat, want to grow up and want to mature every day to tell themselves to play less games, nothing less to chat, that will waste a lot of their time, arrange a good work and rest time, go to bed early and get up early, stay up less late, be kind to yourself, know how to feel sorry for yourself, and your body is your own.
3. Complain less: If you want to be mature, complain less, don't complain about the injustice of fate, complaining is a manifestation of cowardice, is a manifestation of psychological immaturity, mature people know how to face life positively and optimistically, know how to work hard to change the unsatisfactory in life, instead of complaining about the depression and degeneration after not wanting to forge ahead, and when encountering things, it is the idea of working hard to overcome and make yourself stronger.
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Most boys are rebellious in opposition to their parents, they do not obey the discipline of their parents, feel that they are an adult, talk back to their parents, and even look down on their parents, so the first step for boys to mature is to treat their parents well, change their attitude towards their parents, respect their parents' opinions, and honor them well, which is a sign of maturity.
Haruki Murakami once wrote: You have to be a quiet adult, you can't be emotional, you can't look back, you have to know that all fish don't live in the same sea. So the second step of maturity is to control your emotions, don't let emotions control you, and become the master of your emotions.
No longer because of some small things to die or live, but to analyze these things calmly and objectively, this is what a mature man should do.
Mature men are not allowed to do whatever they want, they must know what they can and cannot do. For example, if your roommate asks you to go to an Internet café to play games, can you go? You have to control your desires and make the right decisions.
One sign of maturity is knowing what you should be doing. If you are an employee, do your best to do a good job and give an explanation to the boss.
I always remember the saying: maturity has nothing to do with age, it depends on experience. A person in his fifties may not know what he should do, but a teenager has already begun to support a family, and if we want to mature, we must go through some things, because the more we experience, the more we feel, the more experience, the ability will improve, and we can mature.
True maturity is not sophistication, not how good you are at flamboyance, nor how good you are at going left and right, but that you can still look at the world optimistically after experiencing something, this is true maturity.
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Question: How can boys mature a little Answer: Maturity takes time, not three days or two days.
I look at what it means to be a mature man from a woman's perspective, and I hope it will help you. 1. Keep learning and increase your knowledge. Having a wealth of knowledge and being able to draw on people when talking to people will make people feel that you are very insightful, which will increase your sense of maturity.
2. Independent personality and assertiveness. Everyone has their own strengths, you can use your strengths more, and at the same time, be assertive and don't ask people how to do everything. If your girlfriend asks you where to go for dinner and you are still hesitant, it will definitely damage your image as a mature man.
How about the boys to mature a little.
I'm a boy, and they say I'm a girl.
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Question: How can boys mature a little Answer: Maturity takes time, not three days or two days.
I look at what it means to be a mature man from a woman's perspective, and I hope it will help you. 1. Keep learning and increase your knowledge. Having a wealth of knowledge and being able to draw on people when talking to people will make people feel that you are very insightful, which will increase your sense of maturity.
2. Independent personality and assertiveness. Everyone has their own strengths, you can use your strengths more, and at the same time, be assertive and don't ask people how to do everything. If your girlfriend asks you where to go for dinner and you are still hesitant, it will definitely damage your image as a mature man.
3. Interact with people and master the measure. A mature man will not casually giggle and fight with people in public, and he must be more measured in his interactions with women. 4. Work steadfastly, with a beginning and an end.
Doing things in society, Hanger Langdang is the most annoying. If you promise something, you will do it seriously, which is the basic principle of a mature man.
It is recommended that you improve in several areas:1Dress masculinely.
2.Don't be a sissy when you speak and do things, and strive to make your words resolute and resolute. 3.
No one will say anything about you next, because you have managed to change your image!
I'm a boy, and what if other people say I'm a girl.
Maybe people say you're a girl, but they're just joking with you. Because children are more naughty, and some adults are just for fun. You don't have to take their words to heart.
They said my face was shaped like a girl.
Are you there. It shows that you are good-looking, there is nothing bad about it, and maybe your personality is also more introverted. It doesn't matter, first of all, what you look like is given by your parents, you are born, and you don't have to worry too much about the question of objective reasons.
Secondly, as you grow older and have more experience, you will gradually mature and become stronger in your heart, which is enough, don't be too surprised about what to say.
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Hello, mature men generally have the following advantages, you can refer to them: mature men respect their appearance and keep the most suitable hairstyle, clean chin, no beard stubble, no greasy face, no long nails, clothes do not have to be brand-name, but neat and generous. Mature men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions, and are good at good advice.
Mature men read, accept new things, new information, and constantly enrich their connotations. Mature men don't care, they don't covet small gains, and they don't care about small losses. Mature men respect themselves, know how to respect others, and are good at empathy.
Read more books. A mature man values not his appearance, but more of his knowledge. So if a man wants to become mature, he will absorb more new things from outside.
Because they need to constantly improve their inner self, a person's appearance is always changing, only their knowledge will always exist. And they don't deliberately show off their connotations, only in some very necessary ways will they show their rich cultural connotations. Strive for progress.
A mature man knows how important a career is to them, so they will be especially motivated in their work. Because they know that only if they have a good career, can they support the whole family and give their own responsibility to the family. Although they didn't start from a high starting point, he worked hard for his family instead of standing still.
In addition to these, a mature man will put his family first. Because he clearly knows that only when the rear work is arranged, can he have the motivation to work hard. So do boys know how to be a mature man?
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In fact, this is just a behavior to see if you can control your emotions, as long as you don't be too active, talk calmly and behave lightly, you can show maturity! That's a little bit of my method, and so am I! Hehe, I hope it works for you.
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Maturity, to say that it matures all at once, it may be difficult, time is needed. Remember, don't do things according to your own temperament, you should focus on other people's feelings before doing it, but at the same time, don't be too indecisive, at home, talk to your parents about something, you will learn a lot. Between friends, I think, after getting along for a long time, you naturally know what they want, and care about them at the right time, just like caring about your girlfriend and boyfriend, and they will feel your "love".
If you have your other half, I don't think you should force him to do things you don't like, and know how to care about him when he is sad, don't let some misunderstandings exist among you, and slowly you will form a regular thing like this, and you will grow up a lot, because you will understand a lot when you do these things. You'll grow up slowly. Hopefully, you'll grow a lot by the time I see you. Ha.
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A person's maturity is self-sufficient.
Now multifaceted.
Let me tell you a few.
1. A mature person generally has a certain sense of responsibility, and what he has to do is to think carefully before making a decision.
2. People will not be as arrogant as young people, but more low-key and reserved.
3. People with more experience have a characteristic, that is, to look at people, which can only be practiced by time, for the good and bad of a person's character, powerful people can see it at a glance!
4. When people reach middle age, their hearts will change greatly, that is, they will become more concerned about people and understand people, rather than becoming more careless, of course, it is not excluded that some people are moral.
In short, I don't think there are really mature people, it's just that they're older than before!
Speaking of which, I didn't feel like I had really grown up.
People are still growing up until the moment they die! !
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, a must for a mature man.
1. Pay attention to promises: Mature men will never go back on their word, he attaches great importance to each of his promises, and carefully considers whether his words can really be fulfilled before making a wish. Every word he says makes you feel reassured and trusted.
The man who runs the train with his mouth, fires empty cannons indiscriminately, and can't take action for a long time, has nothing to do with maturity.
2. Don't talk exaggerated: A mature man never talks casually, he will grasp the appropriate silence, and speak clearly but not shouting. Just drink a little wine and tell a little story about your own little experience all over the table, and half a room can hear it without a loudspeaker, this kind of man, at most, will make the audience laugh, and no one will put your various so-called "road of struggle" in their hearts.
3. Knowledgeable and subtle and introverted: they read, accept new things and new information, and constantly enrich their connotation. But they are unassuming, their talents are only shown when necessary, and they are never deliberately showy in order to satisfy their vanity.
They are like mellow wine, the more you taste it, the more you taste it.
Fourth, broad-minded: mature men don't care, don't covet small gains, don't care about small losses, and don't chatter about this and that. Their vision is never stumped by trivial matters, and they are often the "angels who turn back first" when it comes to small quarrels in the family.
5. Not self-centered: Mature men respect themselves and know how to respect others. They are good at empathy, will consider problems from the standpoint of others, do not force others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others.
All men who are "how I am", the typical little emperor's temper, have not grown up yet.
6. Have the courage to admit mistakes: mature men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions, and are good at adopting good suggestions. They have the courage to bear the consequences of their own inappropriate decisions, and never make excuses to prevaricate.
Seventh, the will is firm: mature men have the psychological quality of not messing up, once they determine their own goal, they will work towards it, encounter setbacks, they analyze the reasons, learn lessons, and correct the direction in time, but never give up easily. They will be tired, but after resting, they will set out with confidence.
8. Clean and tidy: Mature men respect their appearance. They have a hairstyle that suits them best, a clean chin without stubble, a face that is not greasy, and no long nails.
The clothes don't have to be brand-name, but they are neat and generous, and they won't be crumpled like a courier. They will never wear black leather shoes and white socks and wear suits to travel.
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Ha, we've met people of the same kind, so it looks like we should have a conversation. Let's improve together! Deeply sympathetic ...
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You are now a problem of mentality, you say that you still have the psychology of not wanting to grow up, how can you be mature. So, as long as you don't want to grow up, your mentality changes, and you will naturally mature.
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The maturity and stability required by girls is actually a sense of security, and subconsciously they all want to be protected, as for how to do it, this is the cultivation of internal strength, and excessive attention seems contrived, you might as well observe the typical surroundings, maybe it will be enlightening. I wish you success!
You need to get in touch with some of your older friends to see how they deal with certain things...In this way, after a long time, I will mature unconsciously, I myself am an example, when I was twelve or thirteen years old, I played with three or four years older than me, and when I was twenty years old, people said that I was very mature, and others often praised me for dealing with certain things! Hehe, hope it helps.
Men should be more steady, and they should also know how to be humble and tolerant of others, if you are a person who allows others to tolerate you and be humble to you, you will definitely feel that the people around you will think that you are a child who does not grow up.
Pay attention to personal cultivation, think more before you encounter problems, and cultivate a stable personality and attitude to the world Dress appropriately, conform to your own characteristics, be generous, and don't dress strangely Be responsible in everything and fulfill your obligations as a person. To learn to be tolerant and understanding, to listen more to his (her) opinions, to give him (her) a space, to care more about him (her) so that he (her) feels that you are very focused on all aspects, the important thing is to understand. Maturity should be able to empathize, I am still very young, but when I start to think about others, there are always people who say that I have matured a lot, but the most important thing is that I did not go against my own will, or I did it. >>>More
The true maturity of a woman begins with these four losses.
1. Maturity is intrinsic, pay attention to personal cultivation, think about things before acting, and cultivate a stable character and attitude towards the world; 2. Maturity is also external, dress appropriately, conform to your own characteristics, be generous, and don't dress strangely; 3. Maturity is responsibility and obligation. Be responsible in everything and fulfill your obligations as a person. To learn to be tolerant and understanding, to listen more to his (her) opinions, to give him (her) a space, to care more about him (her) so that he (her) feels that you are very focused on all aspects, the important thing is to understand. >>>More