Memories are really heart wrenching, is it good to live in memories? Why are memories so painful?

When he doesn't love you, your sadness is not sadness. Everyone will experience the pain of falling out of love more or less, most people choose to look for the next fate, why should you keep the love that is far away.

I've lost too. The feeling of the cone is no weaker than yours. I am glad that my beloved has finally found his true love and is no longer a prodigal son, even if that love is not reserved for me.

He also denied me, denied the memories of our acquaintance, acquaintance, and love, and I wanted to hate him, but when I saw his happy smile, I never dared to hate him. I think he's forgotten everything about me, it's useless to have wishful thinking in love, I thought he had me in his heart, but he had already figured out who he wanted to stay by. I became a person who could bring laughter to people, and I went from being an introverted shy girl to being unique and eclectic, which I promised him when he left me.

If we simply talk about love, it will not be precious, love is the most sincere emotion to be expressed in action and between the lines. I always feel that this is the most beautiful love story that can only be said once in a lifetime.

I know this kind of mood of yours, it does hurt at first, but after a long time, it will slowly fade away, of course you can recall, but you just need to recall the good things between you, as for those unpleasant things, let it slowly disappear with the long river of time, believe me, you can, there is an embarrassing period after the breakup, as long as this period passes, you can be friends, although you may not be suitable to be lovers, but you can be friends, because you know each other well, really, he and I are friends now, very good friends, the kind of friends who can talk about their hearts.

Time can dilute everything, don't forget it deliberately, you can try to divert your attention, there is no need to torture yourself with his ruthlessness.

Mature girls will know how to give up, know how to be independent, know how to be strong, and know how to respect themselves.

Maybe you will cry secretly in the night, and you won't let others see the tears

Loyal and painful love.

Time can take everything.

Like lyrics, is it lyrics?

You can't always do this yourself, I suggest you go to see a psychiatrist and let him help you out of the shadows @!

Make more friends, preferably a boyfriend. Maybe you don't need to be too handsome, but you have to know how to love you and love you. So when you're lonely, when you're scared, when you're facing fear.

You should find a boyfriend. Cry with you and laugh with you. Always by your side.

Keep yourself busy, let yourself go out and walk every day, on the street, in the park, in the library, Every day, See a lot of people, a lot of things, so that your head is full and can't accommodate your dark memories, The reason why you can't let go so much is that you are too introverted, too introverted, Shut your heart off, Block the entry of good information from the outside world, so that your memories are only those dark and painful memories, and there are no happy and beautiful memories, Trust me, go out for a walk, go out for a walk every day, Bring your friends, go out and have fun, even if it's just for a walk, don't lock yourself in the house, and you'll be fine.

Don't let yourself live in memories all the time! The past is nostalgic, but living in the past can be tiring. Memories are part of it, and it does not exclude forgetting, after all, if you are alone at this time.

The good old days can make you sentimental.

I can understand your feelings, don't worry too much about it, this kind of psychology is normal, maybe everyone has felt this way. Because when you have all your things or gains, when you don't get or lose, it will inevitably cause a kind of nostalgia. Sometimes.

It's also very warm to live in memories, but you can't immerse yourself in it for too long, and you can properly expose the "water" to let yourself see the world clearly. Of course. You can't expose yourself too much, it will hurt.

The present moment and the memory are the two extremes. 2 can only choose 1, memories are your pastime when you are bored, and the present is what you really have to face, but after facing it or it becomes memories, memories are just a pastime when life is boring, if you live in memories forever, then you will never know what is called growth. Remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten.

Cherish what should be cherished, give up what should be given up, change what can be changed, and accept what cannot be changed.

When it is not good to live in memories, you must have confidence in yourself, forget the past, welcome the new day, and don't let yourself live in memories.

The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy.

Cherish the present. I like to watch "Journey to the West", and every time I hear the sentence "The most painful thing in the world is this", I can't help but feel sad. I don't know how to cherish it when I have it, but I don't regret it until I lose it.

What you have, you are not satisfied, what you get, you don't cherish it, you are obsessed with greed, and you are just asking for happiness.

Liu Ruoying sang a song: "Later, I finally learned how to love, but you have long since disappeared into the sea of people, and then I finally understood in the tears that some people are not there once they miss it!" ”

I hope you cherish what you have in front of you and be content and happy!

There are many people in the world who only know how to cherish when they are lost, we should cherish the people we have around us, and do not lose a chance because of others, lose a lover, then we will lose a lot.

What are memories? Memories are the wind. Bursts of blowing are refreshing.

There are also chills. What are memories? Memories are sunshine.

Wisps of fire, warm and scorching. What are memories? Memories are waves.

Layer upon layer, caressing and blowing. Can people only be happy in their memories? After crying, I became calm, I became calm, and I thought over and over again, why is this happening?

If someone asks if it's worth it, they will say "it's worth it"!! But that kind of is worth it, and I will only say it once ·!! What are memories?

Is it necessary to reminisce when you are unhappy? Recall? Is it useful to go to reminiscence?

Everything that was in the past is already in the past, will it come back because you go to reminisce??? I don't think it will come back, so people have to live strong, don't always live in memories!! Maybe after crying, I won't become very strong, but I don't believe that I will never be strong, I have experienced happiness and sadness, so that I have seen through a lot of things, and I have learned a lot of things, in love, there is no one who is right or wrong, there is only who is hurt more and less, maybe we will hurt each other, but those hurts, will become dull with time, will be forgotten because of time, don't live in memories!!

Memories are a strange thing! It's weird, but it's not complicated at all. In the beginning, we always want to learn to forget as soon as possible, but the more we rush to forget, the clearer the memory, the more painful it is, and the pain tears away from our lives so violently.

Our feelings make it almost impossible to breathe, it is in front of our eyes, so that what we see and hear is inevitably tainted with the color of that memory. It's just there, living and growing with us. Until one day, when we gradually got used to living with it, we suddenly found that the once strong feelings had quietly left unconsciously, and those unforgettable memories finally found a corner in our hearts, and stayed there quietly, even if we still want to remember something more, it took a lot of effort to remember a little bit ......

Memories are our experiences, and they are a mirror for us to look back at our growth, in which we have our joys and unhappyness, so don't care too much, none of us will have heartache experiences and memories, in fact, don't care too much, everything will be natural, because this is the price of growth!

Memories are because of the thought of sadness, of the beauty of the past.

And memories are a beautiful thing, but also a painful thing, especially those unbearable past!

Someone once said: The greatest sorrow of man is to remember the happiness of the past when he is in pain. If a person is in the midst of a broken love, and thinking about the beauty of love, then the memories are painful.

One has to learn to remember at different moments. The good past proves that we once had, and the painful memories will make us cherish the present even more!

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to remember to pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

Because your memories are painful, when you recall the past, you are miserable; Why don't you reminisce about the good things in the past, so that you will be happy and happier. You are a sentimental and melancholy person, painful memories that not everyone will have; Too much goodness, maybe boring.

Love = (sincerity + sincerity + understanding + giving).

Because that in itself is a painful memory.

If that memory. It's sweet, but how can it be painful?