Love her and change how to decide, 20, love her how to decide

Updated on Car 2024-08-02
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Be sure to think about whether you love her or not!!

    Don't break someone's heart!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    You don't want to go out to work and worry about what the person at home is doing. Men are already tired of life. What is needed most is the warmth of having a home. I think you know who to choose.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Which one is important in your own opinion, you really can't toss a coin to choose.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Actually, she was right.

    You're all too small.

    Not suitable for a relationship.

    That's what she does to you.

    It could be pressure from her family.

    Maybe her family knows that you're a little unusual.

    Then enlighten her.

    This is very likely.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you can't let go of your childhood love, you will never grow up.

    Looks like she's grown up with you?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hi are all kids.

    Slowly you will understand.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's a bit small, it's okay for girls to say, you're a boy, and now you're still a student, so you can say that you have nothing, is it necessary to fall in love? It's better to study hard and work hard to do a good job before you think about it! The certainty of the success of the person to whom we talk about it is not high now.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Read well, and there will be opportunities in the future. Don't distract yourself now, don't get involved in feelings too early, it's better to be carefree like a child.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Alas, you are indeed small, and it is difficult to say whether you have a future or not, but no matter what you do today, it will become a valuable experience for you in the rest of your life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I still seem to be a high school student, so don't forget, I have to focus on my studies.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Let's stalk! Nabs! I'm sticking with you!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Follow her closely and tell her jokes like that (I don't have a bad idea).

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I found another version of my former self. Hehe.

    Send you a suggestion.

    You just love her too much and care about her too much. You want her to revolve around you so much, so you're restricting his freedom too much.

    Let it go. Send you a true story, that's love!

    Because it's hard to say the real name, use Ming Yanping).

    Ming and Yan talked before, after the breakup, Ming still loved Yan, but Yan found a boy Ping, Ming went to Ping, and said to him: I didn't come to you to find trouble, I admit that you are not handsome, maybe not as rich as you, she is good with you, I am not angry.

    When I heard this, I thought he was a fool. bThe person he likes gets along with others, and he doesn't get angry. But what he said later convinced me!

    I only have one Yan in my heart, I don't care what she does now, I just need to love her. I never pretended to be a second person in my heart, only one of her.

    To add, after Yan and Ming separated, Yan's mobile phone broke, Ming immediately took more than 500 to buy her a mobile phone, Yan didn't have a down jacket in winter, and Ming took another 300 to buy a down jacket and give it to her. Maybe it didn't add up much, but he was a student at the time and bought it for her.

    Or maybe you don't have the right understanding of the true meaning of love, and I believe that this story can help you, at least benefit me a lot. Hehe.

    The tighter you grasp, the more tired you are, just like the saying **where there is oppression**, there is resistance. It is enough to respect her own life, as long as she asks herself and is worthy of her own practices. There's no need to hold on so tightly!

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Cherish the person who is by your side and is always jealous and angry for no reason! Because, it is a blessing to be loved so deeply by a person. People who love you deeply will always be cranky about each other's every move.

    This leads to unnecessary misunderstandings, quarrels, and even breakups. But do you know that this is actually a move that the other party cares about you, and you should cherish it even more.

    You can't really love your significant other without feeling it when you're chatting with other members of the opposite sex or going out alone. If your partner is not jealous or upset, it is because he or she may not really love you and do not care about you very much. Or the relationship between the two of you has become a habit, the other party doesn't seem to be able to do without you, but there is nothing to feel with you; At this time, is there really any emotion?

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It may be true, but it can also be understood in a different way. Love requires understanding, tolerance. Of course, both sides should try to do their best.

    But if one party can't do it, the other party should try to understand. No one is perfect, and not everyone is what you outline in your heart. You can try to influence her, maybe for the better.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Just wanted to tell you.

    Girlfriend finds one she likes.

    The wife at least finds one who likes her.

    In fact, many times don't expect any romantic or any love at all, many people in life are unsatisfactory, how much pressure we are under, parents, house, maybe there is not much time to put on love at all.

    I used to discuss a lot of situations with my classmates in college, and of course you are the same, but our choice is to give up. People are very realistic, do you think that love should be unconditional, that is, unilateral giving, and don't reciprocate? That's bullshit.

    Of course, I am very much in favor of your decision, and when it is interrupted, it will be chaotic.

    My girlfriend and I are very far away, she is in Shanghai and I am in Guangzhou, we both have the same goal, so we are both working hard. Occasionally a **, a text message, are very simple and should be understood for each other.

    So you're right.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Since we love each other, we must understand and support each other. Instead of being noisy ...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think you have a good relationship with your girlfriend, that's why it's like this!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    A good man shouldn't let his beloved woman get hurt a little bit! A good man is to work hard for her in the world! It is very important for two people who want to live a down-to-earth life with a solid economic foundation, brother, don't be aggrieved in your hometown, after a long time, not only their family but even you yourself will look down on you, go out and win a world for her!

    After all, you are only 22 years old, and you are fearless because you are young, so isn't this a test of love? Believe in yourself!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You've got a problem I've had before.

    Let me ask you: What did you leave your hometown for?

    And then you have the capital! You can build a better station for yourself outside [10 is 10 100 100 1000 is 1000] you are born and decided; Don't talk about any skills, just the modern cognition of "It's not that New China has just been founded, and a hundred wastes are replaced by new ones." People who are poor and think about change can basically get up":

    Your 100W light will also emit 100W light, only less. Will there be more? Can you still make 150w?

    It's really out, and it's estimated that people are also gove

    Ironclad facts: In business, a few officials stayed outside; Those who used to go out to work on the construction site like you are now running home

    If you can't live in your hometown, then you're going to die? That's it!!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    "I'm entangled, confused, I don't want to leave my family, my lover, but for work, life, I have to go out again,".

    You went out to work for the sake of "home" and for your life to be better, and I think she will understand you. Besides, it's not like you won't come back as soon as you go, as the saying goes: distance produces beauty. Perhaps, after a short separation, she will love you more.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I chose a job, and my goal was to be a strong woman.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I'm in the same situation as I am, except I'm a little older than you. The following is my brother's advice to you:

    As a man, you have to be responsible, now you are still very young, you need to experience, it is good to go out more, but be careful in everything; The problem of the family is not a big problem, if possible, take the time to go back and give the family a comfort, now the traffic is so developed, I believe it will not be a problem; After having the development capital, it is an honor to return to your hometown, and it is also a comfort to yourself; As for things like being lonely and less alone, it's not a problem at all.

    Young people want to open a point, and if they stick to the two of them, they will leave them out of the world.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What are you afraid of, afraid that your wife will give you a green hat? Don't be afraid, you're a man, you'll cuckold you, you'll dump it, go out on your own and make more money, find a way to be your own boss, afraid of loneliness? You're disgusting 22-year-old men are afraid of loneliness?

    I don't know how to have fun, so many workers, what are you afraid of, I like my wife and children to have a hot kang head? Who left you with no money?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Be strong, there are some things you have to face, work hard! When you make enough money, you can never be separated from her.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There are four questions in the life test: academics, career, marriage, and family. A high average score can pass, don't spend too much time and energy on any topic, focus or frivolity is a regret in life.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because you are still young, take that step out early, no matter how you choose, there are many opportunities, think about the consequences of giving up one of them, which is more important, choose one yourself, the sooner you make the choice, the better. lest it be bad for anyone to drag it all the time.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    We college students also face this problem, graduation is equal to unemployment. It is said that college is heaven, but people who have gone to college know that college is the beginning of pressure, the beginning of feeling pressure, we are also worried about love and career, worried that we will not be able to support our wives and children in the future, and we will not be able to support our parents. As for your question, since you are a man, you should go out and start a business, what is the matter with staying at home, it is not a way.

    What about your dreams? What about the grandiose ambitions of the past? Go out and create your own piece of the world!!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's really hard to choose, do you really don't have a good job in your hometown? Have you tried to find it?

    How far is your place of work from your hometown? Isn't it okay to see you twice a month?

    Talk to your elders more, they may have more experience.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't go out if you can't help it! No matter how poor the place is, there are business opportunities, pay attention to grasp it, you can discuss business with friends. Be bold and cautious in your investment, and you may be the boss in a few years!

    is young and has the capital to make mistakes, and he also reluctantly reluctantly himself. The problems related to life are worthy of your 100 points!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Let's go ahead, if you love deeply, there will be no problem, you can go over this hurdle. Try to give her a good future.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think at the age of 22, I still have to go out. Only when you have seen the scenery outside can you know that your heart is in**.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Hey, Sichuan? I think I should create something at such a young age, love is a must, but career is the hotbed of love. You have to tie your wife with your heart and love her with your heart. Of course, you also have to manage yourself, and don't let the distance produce a small three. Come on.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Lovesickness sounds romantic, but in fact it has to endure a lot of mental and physical torture. No one to talk about, no one to help, both sides. Work is for a better life.

    If she can't go out with you, why can't she find a job nearby and accumulate slowly. Or she'll go out with you. Since the income is so high, it is a very cost-effective transaction to exchange one less person's salary for the happiness of the family.

    Of course, my statement is more appropriate for those who are married. You think carefully.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Personally, I think it's family, because love has a shelf life

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If it were me, I would choose family,

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Actually, I think trying to understand the feelings of parents, it is not easy for them to be so old, they have experienced a lot of things, and there is a reason why they are not supportive. Unless your parents are very, very unreasonable and don't think about yourself. And your lover is really good enough to make you give up your family.

    It's happening to you, and no matter what others say, you can't really empathize, so sometimes it's up to you to see what you really need.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Women who can spend 20 to 400,000 a month need to be investigated...

    Extravagance will not be scientific!

    Just ask, what can 200,000 to 400,000 do? Extravagance is OK. How luxurious is it to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars a month? . . To be investigated. Man...

    My opinion, mainly depends on you. If it's me. That's not a problem for me at all.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It is advisable to find an independent woman.

    The work is not very busy, the position is not very high, but I can support a woman who is very family-oriented.

    She will only spend your money and quit as soon as she has a relationship with you It shows that she is not enthusiastic enough about her work And she is really a woman who is more materialistic and willing to enjoy it As soon as she says justice, she will directly make trouble If you insist on justice, will she be forced to break up?

    It's normal to have a lot of women like this right now, but unfortunately, you've come across it.

    Also, she chased you first, which shows that she still has scheming but not deep enough, and when she says justice, she is stupid and uses distrust as an excuse.

    Don't care what your family says, if you don't like her, why do you think so much, are you looking for a daughter-in-law or your family and friends, please take a clear position and be firm, your heart is so fragile, you will be confused and deceived by your family to the wedding hall.

    Don't have a woman chasing you, you'll be stupid, there are many women who can take care of people, but women who can understand other people's mental affairs and stick to them have to look for them.

    I'm curious, you should be a boss, why is your decision-making ability so poor, and the decision-making factor at work is put in the emotional one-half, and you won't be stupid enough to know and ask.

    I wish you to jump out of the fire of marital problems as soon as possible.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Man, you're rich! A poor man like me can't help you anymore. You'd better communicate with your rich friends in your circle, for a poor person like me can't understand your troubles.

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