Am I still living in my memories? It turns out that he has always lived in my memories

Updated on psychology 2024-06-18
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Looking at the moment when you said "I'm so hard", I suddenly felt that I felt empathy, not because we were very similar, but because we were both women, and I could feel that you were tired, entangled and struggling.

    Some women are like this, they attach too much importance to feelings, especially the feelings that they don't get, and there will always be a concern and feel that they are not finished. I feel sorry if I can't get it, love is in memories, live in memories, always be sweet in memories and cry in reality, right?

    So is he married now, if he is married, then stop, memories can be bitter or sweet, and you can't hurt other innocent people because of your selfishness. This world is not what you want to be, because you have to take into account the feelings of other people, and there are too many things to consider.

    If he's not married, then you can safely pursue him, but I think it may not be that simple, because there are still so many stories that you haven't told us.

    No matter how you relax, try to think about other people or things, distract yourself, find a job you like, it's useless for you to fall deeper and deeper like this, you have to know that sooner or later there will be an end, you can't be drunk all day like this all your life, why not end it now, end your pain early. Give this love to your friends and family who love you.

    It doesn't matter what others say, the most important thing is that you can get out.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, the only one who can always accompany you in life is yourself. Don't go for alcoholism. Take care of yourself.

    Keep yourself busy, and when you are busy, you can forget what you shouldn't think, and over time you will get used to not thinking about him. There is nothing in this world that no one can't forget. I wish you a speedy ride out of the haze.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Memories are beautiful, but they are also painful... After passing, you still have to live.

    Or start if the other party has a family, it is recommended that you start another life of your own, so that your serious efforts will slowly fade into the experience...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Memories are history!

    And history cannot be changed, don't let the past stop you in the pursuit of happiness!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    People who live in memories are sadder.

    It's too late to pack your bags and the story has come to an end.

    The people who were left behind are still stumbling in their memories.

    Unable to Forget is the tentacles of loneliness.

    You can't escape the old days and slowly age.

    Some people don't look back, some people still appreciate.

    It's ridiculous to live in memory.

    People who live in memories are always disguised.

    When sadness comes, pretend to be happy.

    With a smile on your face, hide your past.

    The crowd is warm and loneliness is quietly growing.

    At this moment, the side has long been far away.

    Rickety Some people are still wandering in the past.

    People who live in memories don't grow.

    The people who live in the memories are still looking behind them.

    Life passes through time, how to compensate for the time given.

    The memory in the story is too good, and it is easy to get hurt.

    You who live in your memories, don't be afraid of the future.

    As long as you slowly move upward, the pain will become strength.

    Memories don't stop there.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is no stardust at night, there is no road without lights, alone, a little cold.

    Raindrops stained the leaves, and a person, holding an umbrella, walked step by step. On this dark and lightless road, I can always bring back memories and think of a person.

    It's another day when I want to fall in love, but every time I think about it, the figure of that person always echoes in my mind. He and I met online. Coincidentally, we are also alumni of the same year. It made me so happy at the time.

    They all say that their first love is something they can't forget for a lifetime, and it's good-looking. But actually, my first love was not pretty. He's a 177-year-old boy, a little dark, and a little naïve.

    The first time we met, it was in a school classroom. I was reading by the window, and he was walking down the road, looking at me, smiling widely, and waving to me. I remember that when he came, the sun fell all over the ground.

    In **, his low laughter can always be heard, and there are a little tsundere words. The sound is very good, every time I hear it, it is like a spring breeze. There was a voice engraved in the memory.

    Later, we separated.

    That short-lived online dating ended, and we finally became two people, and we didn't see each other for the rest of our lives. That was my first love, having heard his voice; I have played a little tantrum on him; Imagine our future together. Like him, just him; Had grieved and feared separation.

    He is very good, he has a good voice, he writes well, he draws very well, and I have nothing in comparison.

    If you like someone, your first reaction is inferiority, it's true. He came to my life for a short time, but he left a strong mark on my life.

    A short period of sweetness, the consequence is endless bitterness. No matter how it was, we ended up in that snowy winter. Later, we became me and him, and we were no longer us.

    Trabecular ......The sound of excitement disappeared at the end of that winter, the beginning of spring.

    I have actually forgotten him, and now that I think about it, there are no more waves in my heart, no more sadness. I said calmly. She looked at me and said affirmatively, "No, you didn't forget, really."

    I promise" I looked at her and I was thinking, she didn't know anything, why was she so sure.

    Now, I know, she didn't lie to me. I haven't forgotten him. I just downplayed that hot love affair and put that boy and the memories about him somewhere. When the day comes, I will still rewind that memory again.

    Maybe you won't forget, but after all, it's just a memory.

    When we parted, the big boy had red eyes. I calmly watched his departing back. Actually, the person who looks at the back and leaves is more sad. It turns out that our ending is also powerless.

    Maybe you won't forget, but after all, it's just a memory. I have written so many endings, but I have never written the ending.

    It turned out to be uncontinuing.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The original singer of the song "Living in Memories" is Li Lele.

    Li Lele female singer, representative works "The City of Lost Love", "How Lucky to Meet You", "Tears in My Eyes and You in My Heart", "Infatuation is Too Difficult", "Just to Meet You" and "Enemy of the World". In 2020, he participated in the Tonghua City Summer Cool Drink Tonghua Theme Electronic Music Festival.

    "Living in Memories" is a song written by Zhou Bing, composed by Wang Pingping, and sung by Li Lele. ** Style pops.

    Song Lyrics:

    There is no you by my side, and my thoughts spread to the zero degree air, drifting into snowflakes and blooming in winter. Your figure is so clear. I still remember it in my heart. But I don't dare to contact you again. The wounds he had suffered had not yet healed.

    I can't afford your love. As long as you're happy, I'm really willing, even if it's not me in the end, it doesn't matter. Because I love you, that's all, and I'm willing to live in your memories.

    As long as you're happy, I'm really willing. Even if I only learn to cherish it in the end. If you can still continue the old love.

    Can I stay in your heart, I still remember it in my heart, but I dare not contact you again. The wounds I have suffered have not healed yet, I can't bear your love, as long as you are happy, I am really willing, even if it is not me in the end, it doesn't matter. Because loving you is nothing more.

    I would like to live in your memories. As long as you are happy, I am really willing, even if I only learn to cherish it in the end.

    If I can continue the old love, can I stay in your heart, as long as you are happy, I am really willing, even if it is not me in the end. Because loving you is nothing more. I would like to live in your memories, as long as you are happy, I am really willing, even if I only learn to cherish it in the end, if I can continue the old love, can I stay in your heart.

    If the old love can continue, can I stay in your heart?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Ten years of life and death, without thinking. Unforgettable. This is a poem written by Su Shi to commemorate his deceased wife, and the sad memories have made him suffer.

    But in another word, the meaning of the word has completely changed: ten years of life and death, without thinking. Forget about each other.

    You can't always live in memories.

    The memories are wonderful. I used to be a person who liked to keep my memories and savor the pain when I was lonely. So much so that the current QQ name is still reminiscing.

    Memories can imagine imperfect people or things as perfect; You can think of a single shadow as a pair of shadows in three; You can imagine the bright moon as a glow-in-the-dark glass of grape wine. Memories are my homesickness at this end and my mother at that end.

    But people can't always live in memories, they can't always remember chatting with you, washing their feet on the beach and watching the sunrise; I can't always remember to ride a bicycle by the river and blow the sea breeze with you; I can't always remember walking with you with an oil-paper umbrella on the small bridge and flowing water in Zhouzhuang. You can't even find another her, and you have your shadow.

    Everyone has their own way to go, whether it is Yangguan Avenue or Yanggu Trail, there are many things that have not yet been explored. You can't hold on to memories anymore. Try to learn to erase some memories, to relax your mind and relax your body.

    Learn to see farther, let your pace be slower, don't have to rush to catch up, and the scenery of the journey is more worth admiring. Because people can't always live in memories!

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