If you have no feelings, do you want to remarry for the sake of your children???!!!

Updated on parenting 2024-08-14
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    has been divorced, remarriage and non-remarriage has nothing to do with children, traditional Chinese thought is more tolerant, there are many families for the sake of children and barely maintain an emotionless marriage, rather than maintaining for the sake of children, in fact, it may not be a good thing for children, and even affect children, but I offer three suggestions:

    1. The divorce of husband and wife has an absolute impact on children, and it is pitiful for parents all over the world.

    Regardless of whether you remarry or not, you must care for and care for your children, give warmth, and don't leave regrets, but it is difficult to do it after remarriage!

    2. The marriage was voluntary, and the divorce was also voluntary, so a toss makes you still feel that your ex-husband has feelings, or your ex-husband has nothing to forgive, then don't worry about remarrying! Of course, this is better for the child.

    3. If you choose to remarry just for the good of your children, and there are many such cases, then you must be mentally prepared that you can no longer quarrel with each other and divorce again, otherwise it will have a greater impact on your children.

    There is no turning back in life, take every step with your heart, unhappiness in marriage is the biggest misfortune in life, and it is best not to make the same mistake a second time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    You don't have to. Affection is the foundation of a normal marriage, and a marriage without emotion is an invisible cage, since you have already broken out of the cage, why should you put this shackle back on for the sake of your children? When divorcing, you should think carefully about the issue of children, and it is harmful to regret it at this time.

    You can think more about your children, but you don't have to remarry for the sake of your children.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Feelings need to be cultivated, you are husband and wife, and have children, although divorced, but it is unrealistic to say that there is no relationship at all, in the past few years, men must have reflected on their own problems, you might as well give him another chance, for the child to have a complete home, you can remarry, you each change your previous self, life will be happy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Yes, it doesn't matter if you don't have feelings, marriage is originally to live together, as long as you can live a good life, if you don't have domestic violence, you can remarry for the sake of the child and give the child a complete family.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's been divorced for 4 years, and if you don't have feelings, don't remarry for the sake of your children, didn't you divorce when you divorced, so many years have passed, if you have feelings, it's a good thing for the two of you to still want to come together, right, I'm just a personal opinion, it's mainly up to you, you can still be for the children if you don't get divorced, it's really unnecessary now, live a good personal life, it's good for each other, the two are separated as long as you still take care of the children, hope, thank you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There is no need, they have been divorced for four years, if the child was still young at the time of the divorce, he may not remember you after four years, if the child has grown up at the time of the divorce, then he may understand your choice and have long accepted the reality of your divorce. It took four years to come to you only to show that he couldn't find his next home and needed a nanny.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    When you are a husband and wife, your children will have warmth and love. There is no affection between you, and even remarriage is only a solution to financial problems and sexual needs. And did not give the child love and warmth.

    These are two different things. Don't use your weakness, that child, as a shield. This is not responsible for the child.

    If there is really no emotion, the separation of husband and wife is the most responsible behavior for the child. Never use children as a reason for the existence of a couple's relationship, that will hurt them even more.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There is no emotion, don't remarry for the sake of the child, there is no affection between you, the cold life is not very good for the child, and the remarriage should only be two people who love each other again, be considerate of each other, and understand each other to be together.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think it's okay to remarry for the sake of my children. Emotional matters. Well, I think it's better to think more about each other. Have a forgiving heart! to live well.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Actually, the first thing to see is what you think? And then see how the other person does it? What if the other party?

    has been very good to you, there are no other contradictions, just two people, sometimes not not on the same frequency, it's not a problem, the question is can you meet someone better than him? This is the most important thing, so in the absence of a better choice, the other party will not hurt you, just a kind of emotional blandness, I think you should still remarry, in this case, life has a certain sense of fulfillment, feelings are slowly cultivated, maybe a touched, it will make both of you, the emotion will be raised to a level, so it's just a matter of time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think it's completely unnecessary. Even if you reluctantly remarry for the sake of your children, you still have the other party, including the children, and you can't get real love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't have feelings, don't remarry, and children can't feel warmth in such a family environment!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you have no feelings, do you want to remarry for the sake of your children? I think a marriage without feelings is unhappy, and families do not have the tolerance of love and the atmosphere of love for each other. That kind of cold atmosphere will also make the child not feel loved. If I haven't loved, I don't think there is any need to remarry.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello, I'm leaving, if it's really for the sake of the child, don't talk about the elders with the child. Emotional problems arise because of the responsibilities of both parties, etc., and something goes wrong.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is not necessary, there is no emotion in the marriage, it is you who are uncomfortable, and the children of single-parent families can also be very good, as long as you can enjoy enough love and care.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is no point in remarrying, considering that there are unstable factors behind it or other debts, and the children can be raised together. Although this has a certain shadow on children, it is no problem to raise and educate them together.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, unless your child is over 14 years old and has a strong desire you must be together.

    Otherwise it is the torment of two people and the distortion of one child.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no need for unhappy couples and children will not be happy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think it's okay, and having no feelings hurts the child even more.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    People have to live for themselves, not for their parents or children. Since they have no feelings, continuing to stay together is also a pair of walking dead, why bother to remarry.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Leave all gone. Now in addition to thinking about the child, don't you have a suitable boyfriend who is worth entrusting for life? Think again, don't rush. A lifetime is a long time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The biggest harm is the harm to the child, for the sake of the child, it will be a lifetime, and it will pass in a flash.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Yes, a complete family plays a key role in the physical and mental education of children.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Summary. Hello, if you don't have feelings to remarry for the sake of your children, I don't recommend getting back together.

    Marriage needs to be emotionally maintained, and without feelings, it is difficult to tolerate each other once there is a dispute in the future.

    If it is to provide a good environment for the child to grow up, it is recommended that the child can be substituted by himself, and if the other party loves the child, he will pay enough living expenses and education expenses.

    In this way, although the child is a single parent, he can at least live in a peaceful and tranquil family.

    There is no emotion for the consequences of remarriage for the sake of the child.

    Hello, if you don't have feelings to remarry for the sake of your children, I don't recommend getting back together. Marriage needs to be maintained by the land of feelings, and without feelings, it is difficult to tolerate each other once there is a dispute in the future. If it is to provide a good environment for the child to grow up, it is recommended that the child can be substituted by himself, and if the other party loves the child, he will pay enough living expenses and education expenses.

    In this way, although the child is a single parent, he can at least live in a peaceful and tranquil family.

    Hope mine helps you!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Personally, I don't think it's necessary to remarry, you can stay friendly and move around a lot. Maybe after a long time, the relationship will slowly warm up, and then remarry, there will be no pimples in my heart, and I will be more satisfied.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You remarried for the sake of your children, can you promise that you will not leave again? You can't have a good life, so what will warm your children? If your child is sensible, he must want you to be happy first.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is recommended not to, your child sees you arguing, cold fighting or even fighting all day long, which is actually a more cruel harm to the child. Find a man who loves you and loves children.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It is clear that there is no need.

    1. Chinese people have a problem, having a child feels that it is completely for the child to live, and it seems to be worth it no matter how hard and tired you live. It is okay to create a superior environment for children to grow up appropriately, but I think it is foolish to completely sacrifice one's own happiness to fulfill children. You yourself think that you don't have the slightest emotion, and you've already gone out, why do you have to go back, you can't live for yourself?

    2. Even if two people are together, they have no feelings, except for the Cold War, they quarrel. What can you teach by example together? Let him be silent and withdrawn? It's better for single parents to give more warmth.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    An emotionless marriage is a grave.

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