Do you want a divorce for the sake of your children?

It depends on the individual's point of view. How many couples are together for the sake of their children. There are more parents who are all for their children. What is love? The child is real. If you can't get divorced, try not to get divorced.

What you mean is that you don't want to remarry, and you have this idea for the sake of your children, but your personalities are not harmonious, and you will return to your previous state after remarriage. Do you feel confident that you will create a warm and healthy home for your children after remarriage? If there is disharmony in the family, will your child grow up healthily?

Change your thinking, many single-parent families are also very happy, it depends on whether your mentality is correct.

What do you have in mind for yourself.

Never think about whether you should get divorced for the sake of your children. The members of the marriage are only two quarrelsome individuals, you and your spouse. Children are called family members. Therefore, when considering whether or not to divorce, the dominant relationship between you and Brother Wu and your spouse will always prevail.

Usually in the divorce, adults generally consider the following aspects of the child: worry that the child is too young, afraid of affecting the child's three views, afraid of separating from the child, and the child is in an important stage such as the college entrance examination. If you analyze the above reasons carefully, you will find that it has little to do with a single-parent family.

It has a lot to do with parents' educational concepts and family atmosphere. In other words, the impact of divorce on these things is secondary.

For example, a family in which parents quarrel and fight all day long tends to raise children with more psychological trauma than a single-parent but loving family. Therefore, regardless of single parents or two parents, the parent's own education method is the most important part of the child's growth process.

Look at Olympic champion Gu Ailing, she is also a child born in a single-parent family, but she is not inferior because of this, on the contrary, she is confident and strong. This is due to the fact that she has a strong mother who is able to give her daughter enough care and education even when she is raising her daughter alone, which has made her the Olympic champion she is today.

The child is an excuse for not wanting to divorce, or it is a reason, but the real reason is that there is no firm desire for divorce in the heart.

For the sake of the children or not, talk about my personal method of looking at the number of skins, whether you are divorced or not mainly depends on yourself, whether you love yourself more or love your children. But if I had to choose, I would have divorced.

First of all, staying away is not necessarily good for children. A slightly sensible child doesn't want his father (mother) to waste his best youth for his own grievances. If it were me, I would feel guilty.

In addition, the environment in which parents are not in harmony with each other may have a negative impact on children. Even if you try to create a beautiful family environment, do you have to spend your whole life using this lie to fulfill it? In the end, the child discovers that the happiness he has is only superficial beauty, but it is short-lived, based on the unhappiness of his parents, won't he be very sad?

Second, when the interruption continues, it will be chaotic, since it is not appropriate, why delay each other, and wear away the beauty of the past. I don't care about forever, I only care about what I once had.

If the other party really has no point of retention, I advise you to leave, don't ruin the first life of yourself and your children.

It depends on the specific circumstances of the family. If there are problems in the family such as violence, abuse, insecurity, etc., it is advisable to consider divorce because the growth of children requires a harmonious family environment. If the relationship in the family fight court is still relatively harmonious, it is recommended to keep the family together and create a safe and secure family environment for the child or the child.