Is it really love at first sight?

The term love at first sight is not uncommon, and some people believe in it, but there are also many who are skeptical of it.

Those who believe believe that people with fate meet for the first time as if they have known each other for a long time, just like in "Dream of Red Mansions", when Jia Baoyu saw Lin Daiyu for the first time, he said: "I seem to have seen this sister in **." "Same.

They believe that there are many things in this world that are difficult to explain with science, and there are many things that cannot be explained in words. In particular, some of the talented and beautiful women in China's scripts are admirers of love at first sight: Yingying met Zhang Sheng, and recommended herself to the pillow at night; In the Peony Pavilion, Du Liniang just saw Liu Mengmei in a dream, and she was able to die for him and live for him.

Although there is a big difference between the speaking book and real life, and a lot of illusory elements are added for the sake of art, it is not difficult for us to see that love at first sight is still recognized by people.

However, there are some people who don't agree with what love at first sight is. I remember when I watched "Dream of Red Mansions", Jia's mother said that she didn't like to read those elopement scripts the most, saying that it was just a meeting once, and she wanted to live or die for a strange man, and she could cut off relations with her family, which was not a pursuit, it was shameless. In reality, love at first sight is relatively rare, because after all, everyone is an adult, and they are all more rational and know how to distinguish between right and wrong, no matter how good your impression of this person is when you meet him for the first time, you still don't know him, I don't know what kind of temper he has, what kind of family he has, what kind of person he is.

Therefore, even if someone has this kind of emotion, they will restrain it.

I don't denigrate love at first sight, but I think it should be done sensibly. The tragic character who fell in love at first sight should belong to Wang Baochuan. After Xue Pinggui saved her, she secretly promised, and later gave him an opportunity to go to the bottom of the embroidery building and receive the hydrangea thrown by her.

The father of the family did not agree to this marriage, and she swore an oath with her father for the sake of a man she had only met once, and broke off the father-daughter relationship. It's incredible, ridiculous, and pathetic. In the end, she stayed in the cold kiln for eighteen years, and waited for a princess to come back, as well as her husband's children.

I think love at first sight exists, but what is more powerful than love at first sight is human restraint. Although it is said, I don't know what to do, and I go deep. However, as rational and thoughtful human beings, we should still be cautious and consider after falling in love at first sight, and should not only take care of ourselves, should not go our own way, only be happy for ourselves, and ignore the persuasion of others.

I think that as long as you treat it well, love at first sight and real life always have a balance.

Hello, dear, because through the social life since birth, influenced by the people around them, etc., some people have stored the ideal object in the brain, and over time and the influence of external factors, the ideal object is constantly filled and corrected. When you see each other for the first time, the brain will quickly search for each other, and soon find that the other person is very similar to the "file" stored in the brain, and this information is conveyed to the brain, and there will be a state of "love at first sight".

When a person has been empty for a long time, it is actually easy to fall in love at first sight, and at an ordinary time and place, he meets a person with light all over his body.

The lover's eyes are out of Xi Shi", his smile and every move exude a unique charm, you try everything to get closer, and soon establish a relationship, at this time, the emotional road begins to diverge to both ends.

At one end of the spectrum, the freshness is not there, and the hormones come and go quickly. At one end is the emotion of "indescribable", and finally it turns into the attachment between family members.

Is it too quick to determine that the relationship is not long-lasting? Can the relationship that has experienced the long-distance love run be long-lasting? None of this is absolute.

But it cannot be denied that there is a period of love in a relationship, and after the period of love, there is no "unreserved love and love after being attracted by the other party's temperament and appearance".

If you meet the right person, it's a kind of luck, and if you don't, it's also a kind of growth! Feelings are only good or bad, right or wrong!

Hello! Fate is predestined. Some people are able to fall in love at first sight. There are also people who will fall in love for a long time. Personally, I think it's good to have a relationship over time.

This is because the magnetic field between people attracts each other, two people have a crush on each other, and two people fall in love at first sight. When two people meet each other and have a good feeling for each other, there will be a chain reaction between the brain and some areas of the body, and the brain will secrete a very happy thing, which will be quickly transmitted to all parts of the body.

The two people are attracted to each other, and the wild shot will fall in love at first sight.

When people meet each other, it is a kind of fate, two people can talk, they can meet and come together, and two people are attracted to each other. When two people meet, they will fall in love at first sight, this is because two people have fate, two people are attracted to each other, people often say that two people should talk about eye fate at first sight, there is eye edge, there is fate, it will be love at first sight. Two people have the same three views, two people have the same interests and hobbies, so two people can talk, and then two people want to live together, which is called love at first sight.

When two people meet, they are happy, and their brains are receiving signals of happiness.

If we meet someone we don't like, the brain sends us bad signals, we may not be positive, we don't want to speak, we don't have the desire to continue chatting. If we are happy when we meet, our brain will send us a happy signal that the person opposite us is someone we like and that we can continue to be in a relationship. The brain is the headquarters of the whole body, and when the brain receives a signal, it will command the whole body to secrete the element of happiness, which means that they like each other very much.

It will make us very energetic, it will make us full of confidence, and it will make us face it very sunny and positive, so two people may become lovers, and two people may enter the marriage hall.

Love at first sight is a kind of fate, and it is the most beautiful choice for both parties, I hope that all lovers can eventually become married, and I hope that all singles can be hungry and love at first sight. I hope you can be more happy, so that the brain command can send more happy signals, I hope to meet you who fell in love at first sight.

Each of us hopes that we can get a happy and sweet love, and we strive for it. ......Among them, the love at first sight love that touches the heart at first sight is the most romantic and what we look forward to. But that doesn't mean that we will give up when we meet a boy or girl who doesn't have a crush at first sight.

The reason why I say this is because love at first sight is hard to find, people can only really understand each other through long-term interactions, and love should be rational and not emotional.

1. Love at first sight is unattainable, so it cannot be forced.

At first sight, this kind of love at first sight is the most romantic, and it is also the most enviable and expected headshot. ......But this kind of love is hard to come by, and only a very small number of people can get such love, and it is undesirable for most people. ......Therefore, we can't force this kind of love, even if we can't meet it, we should choose it rationally.

2. People can only really understand each other through long-term interactions.

Fundamentally, for two people to fully understand each other, they must be able to achieve it through a long relationship. ......Therefore, the kind of love at first sight, although it may be romantic, is not necessarily the best state of love. ......In fact, for love with the goal of lifelong companionship, two people who love each other should still get a full understanding through long-term dating, in order to achieve true happiness.

3. For love, we should be rational, not emotional.

Although love is a kind of feeling, the process of pursuing love cannot only focus on feelings. ......Emotional love is destined to fail to achieve a satisfactory result, so the kind of love at first sight that looks at the first glance of the heart does not necessarily lead to happiness, only through rational analysis and judgment, choose the most suitable person for yourself as a partner, in order to find a lover who is truly suitable for you. ......Therefore, even if we meet a boy or girl who is not attracted at first sight, we should continue to choose and give each other enough time to get to know each other, so that we can leave no regrets.

The reason why human beings can be distinguished from animals is that there are feelings between people, and feelings cannot be pondered in words.

Hello! It's a feeling that I think is very eye-catching at first sight, and of course everyone likes it very much, so it's still good.

Love at first sight is when you have a strong affection for someone at first sight, and this feeling can easily lead people to fall in love, and many people enjoy this experience. However, from science and practical experience, love at first sight is not always reliable.

First of all, love at first sight is not really a collapsed love, but just a momentary strong attraction and emotional impulse. This emotional impulse will subside after a period of time, and you may find that the other person is not the person you want to be.

Second, love at first sight may be based on an individual's appearance and appearance, rather than on their inner qualities and values. In real life, people's appearance does not remain constant, but important traits such as personality and values persist for a long time.

In addition, love at first sight often does not have enough time and opportunity to slip into the eyes to understand the other party for what it really is, which can lead to over-idealization and exaggeration of the level of affection for the other party. When the reality is truly confronted, conflicts and contradictions may erupt, leading to the breakdown of the relationship.

To sum up, while love at first sight is romantic and attractive, it's not always a reliable choice. We should ask Bu Cai to avoid blindly falling into this emotional impulse, and to rationally understand the inner characteristics and values of the other person, so that it is possible to establish a long-term and stable relationship.