The difference between cynicism and scolding

Both cynicism and fingering are Chinese idioms, and there are some differences in their meaning and usage.

Sneering is an idiom that means ridiculing and sarcasm in harsh language. This idiom emphasizes the use of witty and vicious language to ridicule and ridicule someone or something. For example, when he hears others boasting about his achievements, he can't help but respond with cynicism.

It is also an idiom to refer to Sang and scold Huai, which means that it is a metaphor to scold this person on the surface, but actually scold that person. This idiom emphasizes the use of metaphors to suggest and express dissatisfaction or criticism. For example, she often complains about her leader's decisions in front of her colleagues.

In general, cynicism is mainly to ridicule and ridicule in language, while pointing at Sang and scolding Huai is mainly to use metaphors and hints in expression to convey dissatisfaction or criticism.

Sneering uses language to ridicule and sarcasm. Referring to Sang scolding Huai and scolding another person with words.

To be cynical means to use harsh language to ridicule and sarcasm. Pointing to the mulberry and scolding the locust means pointing to the mulberry tree and counting the locust trees, which is a metaphor for scolding this person on the surface, but actually scolding that person.

Qing Wu Zhaoren's "The Strange Status Quo Witnessed in Twenty Years": "The ghost is ghostly, and the mother and son do not move; The cynicism and embarrassment of Shibo were embarrassed. ”

What should I do if Sang scolds Huai?

He didn't do anything to shame others. If he has a clear conscience, leave him alone. He can do what others want to say.

It's a big deal that such people are no longer friends! The body is not afraid of crooked shadows! Some people see that others are doing better than him, or jealousy turns into jealousy or even hatred, that is, the mentality of others is not right.

He and his colleagues scolded people in the circle of friends, should they be scolded back?

No! Swearing is a good behavior.

1. From his words and deeds, we can see what kind of person he (she) is. We should pay attention to his behavior whenever and wherever he is.

2. Even if you are angry, don't scold. Find another way to vent your anger.

3. Circle of friends is a platform with a wide range of communication speed. Once you scold others on it, the impact is very bad, which will not only cause disgust to others, but also attract some discussions.

The happier you live, the more people envy you. You can't pander to someone just to say hello. Are you too aggrieved?

[Explanation]: Pointing to the mulberry tree and scolding the locust tree. The metaphor scolds the person on the surface, but it actually scolds the person.

Pronunciation]: zhǐ sāng mà huái

From]: The sixteenth chapter of Qing Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions": "Of all these housekeepers and grandmothers in our family, which one is easy to entangle?" If they are wrong, they will laugh and joke, and if they are a little, they will blame Sang for scolding Huai's complaints. ”

Grammar]: Linked; as subject, predicate, adverbial; Derogatory.

A teacher who likes to sarcastically sarcastically say, "If there is a fool in this classroom, please stand up." After a while, a new student stood up.

I said, "Why do you think you're a fool?" The teacher said in a mocking tone. "Actually, I didn't think I was stupid, but I felt embarrassed to have the teacher standing here alone. ”

Refers to the explanation of Sang scolding Huai.

point at the mulberry and abuse the locust——point at one but abuse another]

Pointing to the mulberry tree and counting the locust tree, it is a metaphor to scold this person on the surface, but in fact scolding that person Explain in detail "Referring to the mulberry tree and scolding the locust tree". It is also known as "referring to mulberry and saying Huai". The parable refers to this and scolds the other.

The sixty-second chapter of the words: "Every day he pointed to the mulberry tree and scolded the locust tree, and praised it in every way." "Dream of Red Mansions" Chapter 59:

Don't point fingers at Sang and scold Huai. The sixth and ninth chapter of "Dream of Red Mansions": "All the girls and daughters-in-law are all speechless, pointing to Sang and talking about Huai, and secretly sneering at each other.

The second and second chapters of "Tian Yuhua": "I don't have a good face with him all year round, and I just talk coldly and say Huai Huai from morning to dusk." Mao Dun "Characters in the Small Circle":

Before the class was dismissed, she had listened to Mrs. Pei's cold ridicule and the snarl of pointing at Sang and scolding Huai. ”

Word decomposition Interpretation of finger refers to ǐ The branch of the hand (the toe is also called "toe"): the finger. Giant finger (thumb).

Fingernail. Fingerprint. Fingerprint.

Handful. Measure word, the width of one finger: it rained three fingers.

finger or object tip) towards, towards: point. Finger drawing.

Compass. Lay a finger on someone. Point out and tell the explanation of the locust á deciduous tree.

Timber is used in construction and furniture. Flower buds can be made of yellow dye: locust fire (use locust wood to make fire).

Huai Xu. Huai Neem (take the chaos of a Chinese Zhou Dynasty court species three Huai nine thorns, the princess and the doctor sat under it, and later because of the "Huai thorn" refers to the position of the three dukes or the three dukes; Escort B refers to the premises where the proceedings are heard. All are also known as "acacia".

Pointing out that scolding Huai is often a kind of self-destructive behavior, the parties in the venting of emotions and dissatisfaction at the same time, pull down their own moral norms and standards, for this kind of behavior, often take a disregard attitude as the first choiceHere's how:

1. 1. If this kind of accusation and scolding is just aimed at yourself, but there is no exact basis, it is best not to respond at this time, and do not have a seizure, because if you respond or have a seizure at this time, you will give others a reason to scold. At this time, the best response is to ignore it, and the matter will pass slowly;

At the same time, he also showed his generosity and the other party's small belly chicken intestines.

2. Second, if this kind of accusation and scolding Huai has a rough paragraph or rhetoric against the evidence against the self-grasping, at this time, don't tolerate it in imitation, because excessive tolerance will make the other party mistakenly think that he is cowardly. At this time, if it is a unit, you can directly ask the other party for questioning, but you should pay attention to the method and method.

It is often not advisable to treat others the way they want to be treated, because it will affect their own quality;

You can argue with reason, but of course, if the other party is an unreasonable person, it is not necessary.

Silence is golden. It's hard not to speak in life, and it's painful not to tell the truth. Therefore, silence is a practice, a quality that everyone enjoys.

Plant melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans. This sentence is pushed to say that people who like nonsense are actually people who like to plant hatred, and what they get in the end is also the fruit of hatred. People who like to plant love must reap the fruits of love in the end.

Silence is the antidote to disputes. Being cautious in words and deeds is a kind of cultivation and kindness. Zhu Ziqing said: "Silence is a philosophy of life, and when used well, it is also an art." ”

Meaning: Pointing toMulberry treesScolding the locust tree. The metaphor scolds this person on the surface, but in reality it scolds that person.

Pronunciation: refers to Sang骂槐 [zhǐ sāng mà huái].

Source: Ming Lanling Xiaoxiaosheng.

Golden Bottle Plum Words": "He pointed to the mulberry tree every day and scolded the locust tree; Say it fast. ”

Example sentence: cynicism, referring to the style of Sang scolding Huai is unacceptable.

Usage examples: 1. I have always been stupid and stupid, so you just mean Sang scolding Huai, and I don't understand it.

2, this ** is obviously insinuating, pointing at Sang and scolding Huai, satirizing those political figures.

synonyms:

一、一arrow双電 [yī jiàn shuāng diāo].

Interpretation: Originally refers to superb archery skills, one arrow hit two eagles. After the metaphor does one thing to serve two purposes.

Citation: Because Feng Zhu is also sixteen years old, Commander Hu has already had a mind to win Longwangshu and wants to slowly use his methods. Qing Li Baojia's "The Appearance of Officialdom".

The twelfth round. Source: Tang Cui Zhiyuan's "Guiyuan Pen Cultivation Record": "It can drop two eagles with one arrow; Thousands of miles of dust are sold on the same day. ”

二、一二得 [yī jǔ liǎng dé].

Interpretation: Doing one thing gets two benefits.

Quotation is empty: one is to avoid the trouble of Chu, and the other is to provoke the advancement, isn't it? Ming Feng Menglong, "Chronicles of the Eastern Zhou Dynasty".

Sixty-first.

Source: "Jin Shu Shu Hui Biography": "Give it ten years of Yanfu, to comfort the feelings of relocation, kill two birds with one stone, the outside is real and the inside is wide." ”

Meaning pointingMulberry treesCounting the locust trees is a metaphor for scolding this person on the surface, but actually scolding that person.

指干骂槐 [zhǐ sāng mà huái]Source:明·兰陵笑笑生。

Golden Bottle Plum Words": "He pointed to the mulberry tree every day and scolded the locust tree; Say it fast. ”

Grammar]: Linked; as subject, predicate, adverbial; Derogatory.

Usage examples:1Xiao Li to Wang Ming.

Refers to the scolding of Sang Yu.

2.Of course, he pointed out that Sang's scolding of Huai was aimed at me.

3.If you have something to say, why bother pointing at Sang and scolding Huai.

4.I don't care about him scolding Huai sarcastically.

synonyms:borrowed ancient irony jin [ jiè gǔ fěng jīn ] Interpretation: borrow: false trust.

Irony: Irony, sarcasm.

Guise. Source: Zhang Kang Zhuyuan Kang "National Soul".

Idiom grammar: linkage; as a predicate, a definite; Expressing dissatisfaction with reality.

2.Borrowing from the past to satirize the present, and acupuncture the disadvantages of the times, are the main characteristics of the essay.

3.Lu Xun. Many of his works are based on the past and the present, and the meaning of things.