Why do friends who used to have good relationships stop contacting me after a few years?

Updated on society 2024-08-14
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    In fact, this is a two-way street, friends need to contact each other, he doesn't contact you, you can take the initiative to contact him, he will always take the initiative to contact you, if not in a city, then there is less intersection and less contact. This kind of thing can be contacted when you encounter a holiday.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    The relationship was good before, but after the separation, the contact during the period failed to achieve the effect of maintaining the relationship, and this is the result, friendship also has gains and losses, and the fate is exhausted, so try to cherish the people around you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Friends who used to have a good relationship, but now they don't contact you, probably because you don't have frequent contact with you due to the gap in time and distance, and you are not together, and your relationship slowly fades, so I don't contact you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Not being in touch doesn't mean not missing. If you really want to be good, even if you don't contact each other when you are separated, when you get together again, you won't feel estranged, you won't feel strange, it's still the same her before, the same you used to be.

    Because they are separated, there are fewer connections in their lives, so the topics of chat sometimes can't be connected, so they will slowly get in touch less.

    But it doesn't mean that the person has disappeared from his own life force.

    My girlfriend and I too, we didn't go to the same school, and then she worked, and I was still in college. We don't keep in touch very much every month, let alone weekly or daily. Basically, they are all busy with their own work.

    But when I got together when I went home on vacation, I was separated as if it was yesterday, and there was no strange feeling at all.

    I think that if you still want to continue this good relationship with your friends, you should let it go, and if you don't take the initiative to find the other person, don't worry too much about whether the other party contacts you or not. Maybe she and you are anxious too.

    The main reason why I have the current mentality is because my friend said to me back then, "No contact does not mean no missing".

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    This friend gets along with each other, and the relationship may get better and better. But if you are separated and don't get in touch much, the relationship will naturally fade. This is also a very normal phenomenon, and it is good to have one or two good friends left in the end.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    With the development of society and the environment, the environment is changing, and people's thinking is also changing.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's that they're tired of playing with you.,I don't want to play with you anymore.,So it's based on you.,I don't want to miss you.,It's normal to say this.,It's really nice at the beginning.,It's not slow.,But after they arrived.,It's not good.,It's not good.,And then it's not fun.,Don't play anymore.,Don't be like that.。

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Why do friends who used to have good relationships stop contacting me after a few years? It's possible to be busy. There are a lot of housework. Take your time. It's been a long time. There are fewer and fewer and no contacts. This is also quite normal.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Because you live in different regions, if you live at different frequencies, for example, if the screen gap is relatively large, a rich person and I am more frugal, the relationship will definitely become weaker and weaker, at least there must be a common hobby, and the common interests will have a better relationship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    People change over time and in the environment. After a few years, you don't like to contact, which means that you and her life have become very little interconnected, and you have changed from a good friend to an ordinary friend who is slightly better than a stranger.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, it's all like that, after being separated for a long time, there are not so many topics to talk about when you meet new friends or a new environment with each other, and gradually you don't have much contact.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Friends who used to have a good relationship don't like to contact themselves after the police, and your friend doesn't like to contact you, but because he already has his own life and his family doesn't have so much time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because they are busy with their own things and rarely meet, they say that their feelings are getting weaker and weaker, and they have their own careers and rarely contact, so this situation is also caused.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    As my life continues to change, my work becomes busier and busier, and I will continue to meet new people, so I may have fewer contacts with previous people.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    People living in this world will always be affected by some things of one kind or another. Thoughts change with change! I can only say that in the past few years, you have not changed much, and you can't have an effective connection with your friends!

    If you have a fortune of billions and try again, the ending will be completely different from what you are now!

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because of the difference in the circle of life, the content of daily life is also different, so there is no common language.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Friends who used to have a good relationship, after a few years, may have their own families, and they are all working hard for their own families, and they may slowly lose contact.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In this case, you don't keep in touch often, and you are slowly estranged, which is why this is the case.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Normal. As time passes, there will be different social circles.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think it's very simple to get in touch with a good friend who hasn't been in touch for many years, since it's a good friend, then it means that your previous relationship must be very good, so sometimes don't feel that the relationship between you and him has become very estranged and very strange, you have to think in a good direction that we just haven't been in touch for a long time, but the feelings are still there. As long as you contact him first, he will definitely respond to you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can say hello at the beginning, and then ask how the past few years have been, and you must not ask him in an unfamiliar tone, so you can follow his words.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think it's possible to hit the ** way. Although it is said to be a little direct, it can really connect with feelings better.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can chat and say hello on your mobile phone first, and when the time is almost right, you can make an appointment to eat and chat.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I know where he is from, and now that he lives in the city, can I find his name?

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