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In fact, you can also develop some new friends like him. Sometimes there is some boredom between friends, and it may be that you are not suitable for staying together for a long time, and you need some adjustment from other friends. It's not your problem, it's not either party's problem.
Friends aren't just playmates, they're all playmates, for example, I'm in a similar situation to a friend and you, I don't usually keep in touch with her, I like things that are completely different, but she shows up every time I need help. In fact, what I want to say is that distance produces beauty , even without her you can live well and develop more other friends. And you're already in your second year of high school, and when you're done in your third year of high school, you're going to be separated sooner or later, and it's just a waste of your time to dwell on these issues.
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Nothing, you have to learn the changes of time and environment, you may only be in contact with him for a long time, there is a kind of dependence psychology, you are a very want to have friends, relatives, confidants, you want them to turn around in their own lives, otherwise it will be very lonely and not fun. Be open to new friends.
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In the process of growing up, you will slowly feel that you are very uncomfortable, and then you will also open your heart and make more friends, and he may do this in order to make more friends to make himself more mature and understand himself, and pave the way for himself in the future. I believe that only communication can make me progress.
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If you don't like it, don't make it, after all, there are many friends for you to meet and socialize! I have a friend in junior high school who is the same, and now I feel that he is really good enough to walk slowly in the future! Good luck.
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Later, I found out more and more that in fact, knowing other friends is the best option to forget about another friend.
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Friends are an integral part of our lives, and they accompany us through many wonderful times. However, as we grow, so do our requirements for our friends.
The changes that come with growth.
As we grow up, we begin to pay more attention to our values and life goals, which also affects the requirements we place on our friends. We are beginning to value more like-minded friends who understand our thoughts and beliefs and who can pursue our goals together. At the same time, we also began to pay more attention to the quality and character of our friends, as these factors can affect the quality of our interactions and long-term friendships.
Support and understanding from friends.
As we grow, we also need the support and understanding of our friends. When we face difficulties and challenges, the support and encouragement of friends can help us get through them. And when we achieve achievements and successes, the congratulations and sharing of friends will also make us feel happier and more satisfied.
As a result, we also demand more attention from our friends on their emotional support and understanding skills.
The authenticity and stability of friendship.
As we grew up, we also began to value the authenticity and stability of friendships more. We want to be able to build deep friendships with people who really know us, so that they can stand the test of time and the test of time. At the same time, we have also begun to pay more attention to trust and loyalty between friends, as these factors can help us build more stable and long-lasting friendships.
Growing up, our requirements for friends have changed a lot. We began to pay more attention to socializing with like-minded friends, and we need the support and understanding of our friends, and we value the authenticity and stability of friendships. But no matter how our requirements change, the essence and value of friendship remains the same.
Friendship is one of the most important treasures in our lives, it accompanies us through the ups and downs of life, and makes us feel the beauty and happiness of life.
As we grew up, our requirements for friends changed a lot, but the essence and value of friendship remained the same. Friendship is one of the most important treasures in our lives, and it makes us feel the beauty and happiness of life. Therefore, we should cherish and maintain our friendship and make it the best memory of our lives.
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It is a very common phenomenon to drift away from friends or even quarrel and break up after school, regardless of age and occupation. In fact, this is an inevitable change in the development of people's songs, and almost everyone will go through such a stage in the process of growing up.
First of all, we need to realize that the interpersonal relationships in our lives are constantly changing, and friends may drift apart due to different situations, and occasional quarrels or even breakups are also part of the normal relationship development process, and it does not necessarily indicate which party has a problem. In the process of growing up, people will change a lot with the accumulation of life experience, family background, occupation, hobbies, etc. As a result, the way we interact and our best friends will also change dramatically.
Secondly, there are many reasons for quarrels and breakdowns, which may be poor communication, lack of understanding and support, or relapse due to different life stages, different values, different interests and hobbies, etc. These factors can affect the relationship between our friends and even lead to conflicts and disagreements.
However, even if we break up, we can take a positive approach to dealing with this phenomenon, such as:
1.Reconnect with each other: Perhaps we can wait a while after breaking up and reconnect with each other when we calm down, trying to understand and support each other better. This helps to promote the restoration of camaraderie.
2.Relief and tolerance: Perhaps there is some irreparable rift between us and our former friends, and then we can try to be relieved and tolerant, let go of what happened before, accept the reality, and learn from the experience and lessons.
3.Finding new friends: Although the loss of a friend is painful, since the relationship is terminal, we might as well go and find new friends, and we may meet better people and better things.
In conclusion, changes and disconnections between friends are an inevitable part of life, and we need to accept the reality and try to deal with the situation with a positive attitude. At the same time, we should also cherish the people with whom we have had a good time, keep in touch as much as possible, and build lasting and meaningful friendships.
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My former best friend and I are getting farther and farther apart, mainly because the two of us are too far away from each other, and we haven't seen each other for many years.
In fact, this situation is normal, and many friends are becoming more and more estranged from each other, mainly for the following reasons:
1. The changes in life make it impossible for us to get as close as before.
When we just enter the society and start to have our own work and life, many things are changing. We don't have as much time to get together and do all sorts of fun things together as we used to. Sometimes, different stages of life can also lead to differences in each other's feelings.
For example, if one person gets married and argues badly, while the other is still busy with work, the intersection between the two people may become less and less at this time, and they will drift apart.
2. The differences between people are also one of the reasons for the drift away from the former best friend.
Factors such as personality, interests, values, and so on can affect our relationships with others. Sometimes, we find ourselves very different from our former best friends in some way, which can lead to a growing distance between each other.
3. The emotional rift is also one of the reasons for the drift away from the former best friend.
Even though we used to be close, we may experience various setbacks and tribulations over time. Sometimes, we get into an argument or even fall out over something. While we may try to mend these relationships, there may also be times when we think there's no going back.
It's not uncommon for us to drift apart from our former best friends. Although this may make us feel lost and sad, it also requires us to face up to reality, understand each other's differences, and maintain an open, rational and tolerant mindset, and there is no need to dwell on it.
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This kind of thing will be very common, according to the analysis of many aspects as follows:1Different life stages As time goes by, we go through different stages of life, such as employment, marriage, childbirth, moving, and many more.
These differences in life stages can lead to changes in common topics and lifestyles between us and our friends, which can lead to us drifting apart. 2.Everyone's outlook on life and values are different, and these ideas may affect our attitude and behavior towards life.
If our friends have different outlooks and values than we do, then we may be confused or disagree with their behaviour and attitudes, which can lead us to drift apart. 3.If we don't have a common interest in each other, then we may find that we communicate less and less with each other, which eventually leads to us drifting apart.
4.Lack of communication and communicationNo matter what causes us to drift apart from our friends, the ultimate cause is a lack of communication and communication. If we don't communicate and communicate with our friends in a timely manner, then we may find ourselves getting farther and farther away from each other, which eventually leads to the breakdown of our friendship.
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The relationship between yourself and your friends should be intimate. But in the process of socializing with friends, some of my friends will compare themselves with themselves without any scruples, or belittle themselves from time to time. This behavior of a friend will hurt you and you need to deal with it properly.
Specifically, when you encounter a friend who compares with you and deliberately belittles yourself, you can take three situations: understanding and tolerating and laughing at it, seeing the essence of the other party and keeping a distance from the other party, and carefully choosing a real friend to break up with someone who is not suitable for being a friend.
1. For the ridicule between friends, you should understand and tolerate it, and laugh it off.
Friends are very close to each other, so they will be more casual in their speech and behavior when interacting with each other, and sometimes some words from friends will cause some harm to themselves. ...Old imitation....For this situation, you should understand and tolerate it, choose to treat it generously, and laugh it off. In this way, we can maintain a good relationship between friends, so that the friendship between Hui Hanji can be maintained.
2. You should see the essence of your friends and keep an appropriate distance from ordinary friends.
Everyone has friends, and these friends will have a different relationship with themselves. ......For those close friends, you should carefully maintain the relationship with each other, and for those ordinary friends, you should maintain an appropriate way of interacting with them. ......Those who compare or belittle themselves in their speech are often ordinary friends who have an average relationship, and you should pay attention to keeping an appropriate distance from them.
3. You should carefully choose real friends, and you should cut off friends with people who are not suitable to be friends.
Some of our friends have been friends for a long time, but as their relationship develops, at some point, they are no longer suitable to be friends. ......At this time, the relationship between yourself and the former friend will become very poor, and the other party may compare yourself or deliberately belittle you. At this time, you should learn to choose your true friends correctly, and for those who are not suitable to be your friends, you should immediately break off their friendships, so that you can find true friends and get real friendships, so that you can really benefit yourself.
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