Why do girls like to test each other with work during their relationship?

Girls like to test each other with "doing" during their relationship, and this mentality may be related to their childhood family. They constantly test each other in love, or it comes from the psychological shadow of childhood. with"work"To test the other party is to test the "obedience" of the other party.

Confirm that you are in the dominant position in the relationship.

Because of the uncertainty of feelings, or in the usual relationship, you can't see that the other party cares about you, and you can't see all kinds of love, if it's to determine the feelings, it will be like this.

Some girls especially like to test each other in this way during their relationship. Sometimes creating a suitor for yourself makes guys jealous. This is the stupidest thing to do.

You can take the initiative to communicate with the other party, and I hope that the other party can solve it in your own way when you do anything in life, and don't be particularly pretentious. Some relevant suggestions and comments can be made.

Then you should communicate well with the other party and express your thoughts to the other party. And try to tolerate each other's shortcomings and learn to pamper each other.

My current wife is my first love, and I often encounter this kind of behavior during my relationship, and I personally feel that this is not "doing", and this behavior should be answered from two aspects. Girls' Strategies Generally speaking, girls in love are weak, and once they break up, girls often suffer more damage than boys. Therefore, every relationship is extremely important to girls, and they will give everything they can, and this kind of "doing" behavior can help girls test whether boys are suitable for themselves.

Boys in love should show their deep love for girls through what they do, and one of the most important points for girls is to tolerate themselves, since they love her, they must tolerate each other, tolerate her "work", if a boy can tolerate himself, it means that the two have the possibility of continued development, if they can't tolerate at all, I'm sorry, and the future will not be happy. Increase happiness Girls in love are most willing to experience the feeling of being a princess, occasionally coquettish, "do", look at their men extremely tolerant of themselves, give themselves the feeling of being a princess, they will feel happier and happier and will love you more.

To prove love, try to ask a question first: how do guys prove that they really love a girl? In the girl's opinion, it is to endure all her vexatious trouble, one makes trouble, and the other can laugh.

This is actually a careful opportunity for a girl to verify whether a boy loves or not. Proving love is that you can tolerate everything about her, never annoy her, may complain, but will still patiently clean up the mess for her. That's love.

Not only in love, even in married life, occasional coquettishness, occasional "work", will also increase the happiness and vitality of life, and ensure the freshness after marriage, so it is not unreasonable to say that a coquettish woman is the best. Just like now my wife is often coquettish, and it gives me the feeling that life is getting sweeter and sweeter. However, one last reminder, there is a limit to how much a girl can "do", and too much "work" will only make you lose a man who really loves you.

This is because girls generally have low emotional intelligence in their love life, and they also want to win the attention and sincerity of the other party in this way, and they also feel that in this way, the other party will love themselves more.

In love, girls always love to do things, just want boys to care about her and spoil her, so this way is adopted, after all, women only know their status in the minds of men when they do.

In love, the main reason why girls always do it is that they want to get more attention, and they get sympathy in this way.

This respect should vary from person to person, not every girl is like this, it may be that there are some girls who are used to raising some eldest ladies from the closed manuscript base petite sedan chair, and some girls may just want to test whether boys can accommodate themselves, so they will be like this, not all like to do it.

A woman is thinking about bringing a man's like.

That's why there are some works.

But that's not to say that all women are like that.

Many boys in love will find this kind of discovery, that is, their girlfriend is very good, and they can't stand it a little. So, why do girls in love like to do it, and boys know the reason, they may not think that girls are unreasonable and unreasonable.

First of all, girls like to do things in love, probably because you like her. This shows that she is very confident in the relationship between you, and she knows that you like her very much and will not leave easily, so she likes to be a boy who is used to it. At the same time, this is also a way for girls to love you, because many people are in front of people they trust, showing their truest selves, so girls sometimes do a little because she likes you, and she wants to show her true self in front of you.

Secondly, girls like to do things in love, probably because you did something wrong. In fact, most girls don't do much in love, sometimes girls do a little, in fact, to express their dissatisfaction to you, this dissatisfaction is not against the boy himself, but against what the boyfriend does. Sometimes, when a boy releases his girlfriend's pigeon, or a boy does something that makes a girl angry, the girl will show her own side.

Again, a girl likes to be in love, probably because she herself has no self-confidence in your relationship, and she wants to test your feelings for her. Some girls may be skeptical of her boyfriend's love because of family reasons or because of previous love experiences. Such girls are generally insecure in their relationships, because they want to test whether their boyfriends love them, so sometimes they will do some more things.

In the end, girls like to do it in love, probably because she pays more in the relationship, but she can't get a response from her boyfriend, so she does this, in fact, this is also a way for girls to be moved by themselves, because she feels that she has given a lot, and it doesn't matter if she does a little. What's more, girls in love all have performances, but there is a difference in degree. I don't know, did your girlfriend do it?