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Everyone's pursuit is different, we can have the right to love, but we can't force others to choose! The environment creates differences between people, the estrangement between each other, and the proximity between hearts is always so difficult. Some people can fit your heart, but not the ideal object, and some people are your ideal object, but the heart can't fit with the heart!

This is helplessness Sometimes love, hurt, tired. I realized that love is not the whole of happiness, and you will also be happy with someone who loves you, and you will let your wandering tired soul return to the harbor and be comforted! By giving up what is not worth giving, we can better pursue our own happiness!

Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness.

True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.

It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.

It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.

This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts, and true love is to know how to cherish when you can love.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

Because, letting go is the ...... having everything

When you cherish it, please love it well.

True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

Feel it with your heart.

Why can't you force this thing to be emotional? In my opinion, feelings really cannot be forced. Because feelings are a matter of two people.

For example, if you hate tomatoes, but someone forces you to eat them, you will feel sick. From then on, you will stay away from tomatoes and the people who force you to eat them, and even resent. Although feelings can be cultivated, I hope that I will not give up my dignity because of feelings.

The twisted melon is not sweet, and the forced marriage is not round! Feelings cannot be forced, and even if you want to force them, they are not forced. The generation of feelings is to attract each other, and the union of feelings is to move each other's hearts.

No matter what method is used to force it, even if it is really requested, it is just an empty shell. In the end, I will go from being happy and complacent, to being sad and ashamed at the end. Even if you love each other no matter what, you just want to force it in exchange for the other party's more disgusting state of mind.

In the end, it must be you who becomes the most disgusting person for the other party and doesn't want to see!

No one has ever forced a relationship, and you can still have a happy appearance. The more you insist on it, the more contemptible! Whether you are tough or humble, you will never have the heart to force success to someone who does not love you.

Although there is a fact that touches a person who doesn't love himself, as long as the other party doesn't love him, being moved is just a strange feeling. Feelings can never be combined with one party, even if they are bought with tens of millions of dollars, they are just a soulless shell!

If you give affection to someone and he or she likes another person, you may be able to do whatever it takes to keep him or her by your side, but you will not be able to get a real relationship that is pleasing to you. Such feelings are meaningless and will only add to the unhappiness. Therefore, it is better to let go of the feelings that come from it as soon as possible.

One day you will find a partner who is willing to give you affection and makes you willing to give affection. Hope this helps you.

I feel that feelings and work and study are two different things, work and study are your own business, and one person's efforts will have an effect, but feelings are the mutual attraction of two people, and the other party does not like you, just one person, wishful thinking, and hard work is versatile.

Because feelings are emotional things, they cannot be analyzed by reason, nor can they be swayed by reason.

Because you can't control the will of others, and if others don't like you, you can't do anything about them.

Because it is very difficult for people's minds to change, sometimes a person's heart is not controlled by oneself at all.

Summary. Hello, it means that you can't just stand on your own position and ask the other party to give emotionally to you.

What do I mean by saying that you can't force each other's feelings, that is, you can't ask for each other"?

Hello, it means that you can't just stand on your own position and ask the other party to give emotionally to you.

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I'm talking about love that can't be taken.

What do you mean. That is, love is mutually active, not one party wants and one party does not give.

Do you understand. Feelings can't be forced to be with what it means.

Reply. Sorry, didn't look at my phone.

If one party asks for it and the other party doesn't like it, it will be compromised.

It means that the twisted melon is not sweet.

Feelings can't be forced, you can't look forward to feelings, you can't force them too much, love may appear quietly at a certain moment. It's not that it's not enough, the time has not come, but many people don't understand this truth, and finally give up because of physical and mental exhaustion.

Twisted melons are not sweet, we all know this sentence, you can work hard to pursue the person you like, but you can't force him to like you like him. There are many people in this world who can't be together because they can't be happy.

The so-called love, the ideal state of love is the joy of the two loves, wishful thinking love I personally always think that it is not worth it. When you are sure that you have fallen in love with someone, of course, it is inevitable to work hard, but once you are sure that the person does not love you, then I think the most important thing is to get out, whether it is a boy or a girl, in the face of unfruitful love, it will always be the one who pays more to be hurt.

Feelings, there is no need to force it, I love me, I don't think it's enough for you to pay; Annoys me and hates me, even if I like me no matter how much I don't move forward, no one should be humble in my relationship. resolutely do not run to other people's world as an episode; Find someone you love and love you, and it's enough to be down-to-earth.

I think it's hard to be happy in the end.

Love needs to be pleasing to both sides.

Love requires communication with each other.

Many people will encounter a problem in their relationship, that is, two people always quarrel. Obviously, there is nothing between two people, but they always can't get along with each other, which is a lack of communication between two people. Love needs to communicate with each other, you can only express your thoughts bravely, you can only let the other party know what you think, so that the other party can know what you are thinking.

Only when there is good communication in love, the two will not force themselves to be together, and the relationship between the two people will get better and better. Affection needs to be mutually tolerant.

Although many people like each other very much, he just can't accept some of each other's habits, so it is impossible for the two to be together. In fact, it boils down to his lack of tolerance for the other party. Love is not just that two people like each other is enough, two people also need to be together.

If you can't accept some of the other person's habits, then the two of you can't have a relationship. If you can't tolerate each other, you're forcing yourself to be together, which will only make both of you unhappy.

Affection requires mutual respect.

Respect needs to be accepted from the bottom of your heart, and superficial respect cannot last a lifetime. Since two people have chosen to be together, they should be ready to be with each other. Therefore, if one person in the relationship does not respect the other person, then the two of you will not be able to be together, then the two of you are forcing themselves to be together, and this kind of relationship has no meaning at all.

Therefore, since you choose a partner to fall in love, you should do it well, and don't always think only about yourself.

Relationships require mutual trust.

Trust is a prerequisite in any relationship. If two people suspect each other from the beginning, then it is impossible for two people to be together. The relationship itself cannot be doubted, which will make the relationship impure, and it will also make the hearts of two people estranged.

Therefore, if a relationship trusts each other, then two people can live happily together. If two people can't trust, then you're forcing yourself to be together, and that doesn't do you any good.

Relationships need to have their own space.

Everyone is actually born lonely, how can there be so much empathy, only to consider the problem from your perspective to the greatest extent. Therefore, it is necessary for two people to have their own space. If two people are together all the time, in fact, the two of you will only become more and more emotional, because there will be a lot of conflicts between you.

Therefore, only if you have space in the relationship, then the two of you don't need to force themselves together, and the two of you will have your own happiness. A forced relationship is never happy, it will only make you both live in pain.

I hope that every couple is together because they love each other, not because they are forced.

Feelings can not be forced, the barely earned feelings will not last long, the feelings pay attention to your love and my wishes, both parties are happy, and the feelings will be strong.

Feelings cannot be forced, because the twisted melons are not filled, and blindly forcing them will not benefit people and themselves.

As the saying goes, a twisted melon is not sweet, and feelings are even more so, they can't be forced, feelings are originally two-sided, as long as one person is unwilling, there is no way to really be together, there will always be contradictions.

No, there is no happy component to the forced relationship, only you don't want to, and the unequal relationship I forced can easily cause the two to collapse at the same time, and cherish it.

No, it won't last long without an emotional foundation, after all, the twisted melon is not sweet, and the feelings obtained in this way will not be happy, and it will not be cherished by the other party.

Feelings can't be forced, even if you force and wait for feelings, his heart is not with you, what's the use. It's not good for yourself or for others.

Of course not, the forcible love is not sincere, there is always one of the two people who does not cooperate together, how tired it is, it is better to find a suitable one for yourself.

No, there are some things that can't be forced, feelings are one of them, the feelings that are forced are not happy, and the torment is two people, so it's better to find a relationship that suits you.

Feelings can't be forced, if you don't like it, you don't like it, it's useless to force it, if you separate it, you will separate, and the next one will be more obedient.

You can't force it, the twisted melon is not sweet, and forcing it will make both sides unhappy, so it's better to let it go, don't be too persistent.

Most of the forced feelings are difficult to be happy.

The twisted melon is not sweet, and the people who are forced to stay will not be able to go far, and the feelings of the strong mu will not have any good results.

If you don't love you, don't beg and wait for him, you are like a widow for him, but he has never broken the warbler and swallow by his side; You are worried about him, tossing and turning night and night, and you just want to get closer to him, but you don't know that Tuan Yinhu is also looking for relatives and asking how to get rid of your entanglement.

Some people really don't just wait for him to get him back, a woman's youth is only a few years, and impossible people should turn back as soon as possible, don't waste a good time.

Blindly seek perfection.

Blindly compromising is not so much kindness, but cowardice without principles and bottom lines, others will not appreciate your goodness, but will only think that you have no personality to bully.

Friends who always take advantage of you, don't associate anymore, you don't owe anyone in this world except your parents, there is no reason to keep aggrieved and sacrifice yourself to fulfill his interests; Don't be reluctant to give up your concessions and compromise feelings, and the feelings of two people are all supported by you alone, aren't you tired?

You are always wronged by yourself, and others will inevitably not be polite to you; The road of life is too difficult, others can not feel sorry for you, you have to hurt yourself.

Unjustified jealousy.

Everyone is jealous, and if you handle it well, it can become motivation, and if you don't handle it well, it will be very troublesome.

Seeing that others, especially the people around him, are better off and more successful than themselves, their eyes are red, their hearts are uneven, and there is even a trace of resentment: why is it that everyone was the same at the beginning, he is now at the peak of his life, and I am still struggling in the mud?

So he lamented that God is not long-sighted, and the world is unfair, but he refuses to see how many times others work harder than you, what advantages they have more than you, and how much higher than your vision.

will only be sour, uneven, complaining, will not work hard, motivated, study, what is the use of such unreasonable jealousy?

The market gas that is calculating.

The market gas is down-to-earth when it sounds good, but it is vulgar and ugly, no vision, calculating, and loves to mess with right and wrong.

The highest evaluation of a woman's beauty is "not eating fireworks in the world", with amazing beauty and charm; And a woman who cares about the market can't let go of a single sesame seed in her eyes, and all she sees is an entanglement of interests, which is not cute at all. No matter how beautiful such a woman is, it will make people feel disgusted.

In this life, the warm fireworks of firewood, rice, oil and salt can be there, but the too narrow and vulgar market gas can still go around as far as it goes, because in addition to the rotation in front of the pot and behind the stove, women should also have a broader world!