Why is it always confusing to go to a new environment?

The main reason for the confusion is that you have not established your own life circle, and you should actively communicate with others, contact others, and get along with one or two close friends.

In addition, the most important thing in college is your own growth, so you must make a plan for your own growth, and what kind of person you want to become in four years, contact them more and listen to their advice, so that you will not be confused when you integrate into this circle.

University is a small society, learn to adapt, and you can't get used to it, but you see too little, and it's not strange to see more.

Living habits, eating habits, and language environments are different, so it is natural to have some confusion.

Everyone is like that, don't get caught off. Stalin, as he said, calmness, is equal to half the victory.

Love, very subtle. Love. It's also very sweet. Love. It feels strange. Love. It can also make people very happy. The taste of love includes the ups and downs. Love is what it is.

I have seen little of the world, and my knowledge and skills are not enough.

This is normal, people always have to grow up, they have to face loneliness alone, and face reality, so they must make their wild hearts stronger. After a long time, Songzhen will get used to it, and if you observe it quietly, you will find that life is actually very beautiful

A new environment, a new starting point, and the strange people and hungry things you are about to face, so it is inevitable that there will be some harm to be afraid of, because you don't know the situation there.

In addition, you need to be firm in your faith and have the courage to merge yourself into the new ring.

I went to the realm, ran in for a few days, communicated with the people there, asked, and asked.

After unraveling the Wang chain, you will have the bottom in your heart, so that you will be sure of yourself.

Now, when you first enter, people won't treat you as an enemy, you.

I don't know how to ask people, they are also kind to you, go in for a while.

After that, you'll get familiar with the environment, and then there's nothing to do.

It's terrible.

You have low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence, and always lack confidence in yourself, so you will always think about being afraid of not doing well when you go to an unfamiliar environment, and you will not be able to do well, in fact, everyone is nervous when they go to a new environment.

When you go to work in a place, don't talk about the conditions first, you are not qualified to negotiate the conditions, the important thing is to work hard first, let the boss look at you, look at it, everything is good, and the salary will grow for you slowly.

You work here, this is not your forever home, what are you talking about?

The bedroom is good, convenient, clean, fully equipped, of course happy.

However, you have just arrived at the local area to negotiate conditions, and you have gone too far.

Your attitude is wrong, you know?

When you come to the company, you make money, and making money should be the first purpose, and slowly growing your salary and making more money is your goal.

It doesn't matter where you sleep, how your colleagues are, or that.

Do your job well.

Whether it's stupid or what, if you talk more, care more about others, and play more together, you will become friends, don't be afraid.

As the saying goes, the artist is bold, and your ability is insufficient, or you are not capable enough to make you confident. That's why I'm afraid. It doesn't matter. Study more on weekdays. Step up your game.

I'm just like you, and I'm much better now. But sometimes some things don't just bite the bullet. No way. Enrich yourself more.

You may be a little out of touch with society, try to fit in, pay attention to protect yourself, and communicate with others more.

Understand why you are the way you are, not what you want to become.

The new environment means the unfamiliar, for the unfamiliar environment we have no control, we think that this environment is not known to us, in the depths of the heart is not a fear of the unknown?

In fact, there is no difference between one environment and another, these environments made up of people, in essence we are all the same people, and there are so-called cultural and regional customs on the surface.

We all have desires and love, some people do not put their desires in a rational position in life, and some people's love is just an appearance. These are the essence of people.

Isn't this timidity of yours also a desire in essence? It is the innate need of human beings to be safe, you want to see the people around you clearly, understand them and then contact them, and then find what you like and reject what you don't like, so that you feel safe and secure.

But is there really such a thing as stability? Everyone thinks so, but everyone still has to face all kinds of ill intentions, everyone still lives cautiously, and there are naturally some ways and means for how to get along with people, but I think it's better to see yourself clearly before that.

Are you an introvert? I think it should be.

Let's try to get to know others with your friends first, let your friends help you, you have to rely on yourself when you feel better, talk to others more, it's best not to communicate too much with those who like to hit you (maybe he's just joking), find more characteristics that others don't have and you have, find self-confidence and courage, and pluck up courage first.

To the new environment is like this, to lower your posture, in fact, people get along like this, you give him a good face, he will feel that he has a face and will give you a good face, this don't have to worry about ha, because when you get along well, you will live happier than before. My personal suggestion is to lower your posture, help with chores or something, and use some breakthroughs with the rest of the team, and find a personal special breakthrough first (of course, others can't put on a bad face). The boss is likely to talk to you because someone is going to make a small report or something, you have to pay attention to yourself, you should be humble and lower your posture when you first arrive, and there is an effect in psychology like this:

Aborigines will repel the outsider because they don't want their old life to change, but if the outsider doesn't make them feel pressured, or if the outsider makes them feel that they have an advantage or benefit (even if it's small), they will get along with you for a variety of reasons.

In that case, you can be a little more enthusiastic! When you go to a strange environment, it's always very indifferent at the beginning, and slowly you will integrate into it, and I often encounter this kind ......of problem

The boss said that the boss, you do yours, and it is better to do your grades well than anything else, and no one will disagree with you or accept you when the time comes.

You just need to get your grades right, and the team will take the initiative to accept you instead of you integrating into the team.

I am a girl who has just entered high school, and in the face of an unfamiliar environment, I have always chosen to smile because I firmly believe that a smile is good!

You can't tell you what you say. I can't see what it means.

This is a normal situation, after arriving in an unfamiliar environment, everyone will feel uncomfortable and insecure, after all, an unfamiliar environment represents the unknown (unknown danger).

Of course, it's too much, just like a person loves cleanliness, if he loves cleanliness too much, it's cleanliness.

After all, you don't understand your situation, so it's hard to judge, but if the general fear is normal, if it is excessive, it is psychologically sub-healthy and needs to be adjusted.

The main thing is to let go of your mind and quickly establish a good relationship with the people around you, which will help you integrate into it as soon as possible.

If you don't know anyone, try to find some friends around you who might have a good relationship.

Not adapting, but also psychological depression.