The family is too poor, just forget about marrying a wife, and just want to live quietly alone?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-03
50 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    If your family is too poor, you can actually find a way to change it, and at this time you can make money by yourself and start your own career. Then break out of their own world, so that there is a certain material foundation. The wife's matter may be solved.

    A quiet life may be like this for the rest of your life. If a person is not willing to work hard, life will definitely not improve at all.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Words in this year.

    Since the family is already too poor.

    Then you don't have to think about marrying a wife.

    Since I just want to live a quiet life alone.

    Then you still have to find a more reliable job.

    In this way, you can get your personal living expenses.

    It's better to work hard to change the status quo of the individual.

    Whether you want to marry a wife or not.

    Life feels better when it's more comfortable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    In fact, marrying a wife and being poor at home, although it is said to have a bit to do with it, but in fact, it depends on the main wishes of the individual, because as long as you work hard to find it, as long as you want to put your heart into it, you can still find a partner, you can still find a wife, if you live a quiet life, it is too easy to be lonely, so it is good to say that it is good for an object.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The family is too poor, then you can work hard to make money, so that you can marry a wife, and there is no need to say that a person lives a quiet life, and it will not be peaceful in the future, because in old age, someone needs to take care of you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The economic conditions of the family are not good, and they cannot give up their feelings and their marriage. Money is something outside the body, you can make money with your own ability, I believe that there will be such a person who understands you who is willing to work with you, start from scratch together, and manage your own life, so don't lose confidence in this regard, or work hard.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You can't think like this, your family is poor, you have to find a way to change the status quo! Instead of giving up on yourself, when you work hard, even if you don't succeed in the end, you won't regret it, otherwise when you get old, you will regret why you didn't work hard at that time!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you feel that the economic conditions do not allow it, you can choose to be single, single also has the benefits of being single, one person is full of the whole family is not hungry, and there is no need to face all kinds of troubles in married life, but a person must also work hard to make more money, even if you don't want to be single one day, you can also have the conditions to marry a daughter-in-law.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In this way, a person will live a good life, after all, the economic strength does not allow, marrying a wife is also a big cost, completely voluntary, there are no regulations, you must marry a wife.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Living a quiet life alone is probably just an excuse for you to find comfort from your wife. In fact, it doesn't matter if the family is too poor, the important thing is to struggle yourself.

    I believe that only with hard work, life will gradually get better.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If this is what a person says to you, it is from his heart. It is also a very realistic and objective situation. He feels that he has no money and no such material material now, so he doesn't want to find a girlfriend and doesn't want to get married.

    I'm afraid that my future girlfriend or wife will be unhappy. Can't give him what he wants. So this is also an objective fact.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If that's the idea, then it's really a lifetime of singleness. Don't blame your family for being too poor, if you want to blame, you can only blame yourself, you don't have the ability. If you have the ability to make a lot of money, you don't need to rely on your family at all.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can't think like that, if your family is poor, you have to work hard to go out and work hard to earn money, anyway, you can't be so decadent for the rest of your life, and marrying a wife is just that you don't want to now, and it is impossible to endure it for decades, so it is necessary to marry a wife. It is very painful for you to live a lifetime alone, very lonely, and it is not necessarily all women, their bride price is very high, and there are women who are really good to her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It doesn't matter if the family is too poor, you can also marry a wife, because the family is too poor, you can work hard by yourself to improve your family conditions and living environment, don't be too inferior, don't just want to live a quiet life alone, in fact, there is a person who loves you, can accompany you for a lifetime to old age will be a happier thing.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Even if the family is too poor, mainly when they reach the marriageable age, they still have to find a way to marry a wife, and a quiet life is definitely not as good as two people struggling, and life is happier and happier.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The family is too poor, forget about marrying a wife, just want to live quietly alone, it means that you have lost confidence in marriage, you may have lost patience with yourself, the cost of marrying a wife is too high, you can't afford it at all, you have to adjust your mentality and face life optimistically.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If the family is too poor, don't marry a wife first, but improve poverty first. As long as you work hard, work hard to get rich, and improve the situation of your family. It's not too late to marry a wife when you have money.

    The family is too poor, and there will be no girl to marry you, you can't support yourself, how can you support your wife and children. Let's fight for some energy and get yourself out of poverty.

    Don't think about living quietly, work hard, my wife will definitely have it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The family is too poor, and the matter of marrying a wife is not forgotten, because you will also meet a person who does not look at your family, but only values your character. Together with you to form your common little family, people who work together and work hard for your little family.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you want to live like this, then I think it's okay, after all, it's good to live alone.

    But the family is too poor, so you can work harder and earn money to make yourself and your parents better.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The family is too poor, generally speaking, it is impossible to find a girlfriend, let alone marry a wife, but there are exceptions to everything, there is a boy in our nearby village, his family is also very poor, only three tiled houses, but not long ago he married a wife and gave birth to a child, so, come on brother, don't be discouraged.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's a matter of your personal choice, although your family is too poor, you can choose to work hard to earn money. Don't trap yourself too hard at first, the possibilities of life are unlimited, and many people are also poor, why can they marry wives?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello, I am your answer. We're glad to hear from you. People should be positive, not passive, although poor, but as long as you work hard, you can't be poor for a lifetime.

    Change your destiny through your own efforts, and strive to form your own family, a person's life is not perfect, work hard.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The family is too poor, you don't want to marry a wife, this kind of thinking is not right, as the saying goes, men should get married, women should marry, the poor have a poor way, the rich have a way, as long as you work hard, do not seek to be rich and expensive, food and clothing are also okay, do not ask too high for your girlfriend, you can marry a wife and have children.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you think that you can accept this, you can do it without marrying a wife, in fact, sometimes it is good to live alone, you will not be entangled in the troubles of firewood, rice, oil and salt because of the torture of marriage.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The wife still has to find a way to marry, the family is poor, you can marry a well-connected person, if you don't marry a wife, there will be no one to support you when you are old, and you are lonely and don't even have someone to talk to.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you just want to live a quiet life alone, follow your inner thoughts, don't care, your family is poor and start marrying a wife is your own business, you can have the final say.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The family is poor. It's not your fault, but if you don't work hard. It's your fault that your family stays poor. You said that you don't marry a wife, this is definitely not right, we should work hard. Don't be a person who just wants to lie flat.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You can't limit yourself because of poverty, you should have a life to face life, we should be positive and optimistic and work hard, until one day you will meet the girl who is full of you and you are full of him. And then you live well together.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't give up hope in anything, in fact, not all girls value money. If you are a person with a good character, you can change your current situation through your own efforts. Come on!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Although the family is poor and it is difficult to marry a wife, you must not think so as yourself, you should establish your own values and outlook on life, and strive for it yourself. Slowly, you will definitely have your own future, and it was very easy to find a wife at that time.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's not because the family is too poor that you will marry a wife, don't be so pessimistic, as long as you are a positive person and positive in life, you can also marry a wife. When fate comes, you will meet your beloved, be together, and live quietly when you don't meet, which is good.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Hello, isn't it true that you marry a wife based on love.

    Rather, is it made to be based on wealth?

    How much wealth do you have?

    You treat marriage as a business, in that case, your wife still wants to marry a rich man, your wife marries you, a poor bastard, and regrets dying, not afraid of being poor, afraid of no ambition, it's good for a man like you, you should be grateful to your wife, otherwise, you will be a bachelor for the rest of your life.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you are poor and want to marry a rich girl, then you must have skills and abilities that surpass others, so that you can attract the attention of others. You must know that a poor woman can be better off than her family. If a poor man can have a woman to marry you and be willing to live with you for the rest of his life, you should treat her well and try to live a good life, instead of disliking her.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Well, it's a little harder. But there is no way. Better than nothing!

    There are also many single people. Right! Everyone is blessed with good fortune.

    How's your family. Your significant other has a similar family. So something.

    Don't force too much. Don't complain either.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Don't regret it, there is no regret medicine sold in the world, poverty is your own business, you have to be angry, you have to be diligent, don't be lazy, slowly you will not be poor, as long as you are healthy, peace is better than anything else.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Calm down for a while. Heal yourself.

    Summarize some lessons, learn from them, and learn the lessons you need in later life, and continue to enrich your life.

    When the time comes, start another relationship.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Who can hurt you like this?

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Do you chase him, or does he chase you?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You also said that you were disturbed, but you want to live a quiet life alone, but some people don't think so, so you have passivity.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you don't love her, don't hurt her, do you have hundreds of thousands in your family? I still dislike people who are poor, what did you give her when she married you. You just want to find a rich wife because your family is poor. Since your family is poor, what qualifications do you have to say that her family is poor, and she will follow you when she is blind.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Does it have a lot to do with you whether her family is poor or not?

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Since you're married, it's easy to copy.

    It's better than that, the thinking of the poor can't be changed, don't invest money in them.

    My wife's family is poor, I am a worker in a remote area, my salary is more than 5k per month, I have saved more than 200,000 yuan after ten years of hard work, I invested in her family, and I lost it all of a sudden, her family didn't say anything, and finally the money transferred by the store was not given to me, saying that it was going to be a small shop, but the small shop was not done, and it was spent. Later, I wanted to borrow money, but I didn't borrow it, but it cost 20,000 yuan to buy things for them. So I said, just live your own life, her family has no money, you receive 500 a month, don't have any plans to change the current situation of her family, because their poverty is not without reason, don't fall into the whirlpool, I wish you a happy life.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Brother, you haven't arrived yet, and your luck hasn't worked. But when you are lucky, you will find out how wonderful love is, and how naïve and naïve your own thoughts are now.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Sometimes you need to make a decision, if you really want to live yourself, you have to bear the scolding and abandonment of your family, if you can't make up your mind, you have to compromise.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The landlord is the same as me, the future of the landlord is my portrayal, I'm 20 now, I don't want to fall in love, I think it's very troublesome to get married and have children, since I don't have money to go, I want to find a quiet place to eat, sleep and eat every day, waiting for the next life to be reincarnated on other planets, other universes.

  45. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Hello, first of all, people should live for themselves in their lives, but there are many responsibilities in life, social responsibility, family responsibility, filial piety first, you can tentatively communicate with your parents, tentatively look at your parents' opinions, and then weigh the pros and cons of the two! Personal opinions are for reference, please adopt them!!

  46. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Of course you can, but maybe one day you will meet what you like, live a good life and live what you want, you have to care more about your parents, after all, they are not easy, so be filial to them, and feel comfortable not getting married, after all, love is not so fast, blind dates are not good,

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It's not selfishness, it's that it's hard for you to make your own decisions.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I feel the same way. I'm a girl. I also don't think there's anything good about getting married. But when you get old, you will be very lonely, and there will be no offspring to take care of you.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I feel like I can talk to my parents, and of course filial piety is the most important thing.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I wonder if there will be people who think the same as me, I am a person who wants to be able to do everything simply, I want to live alone, without quarrels, without anger, without fighting, without resentment, without worries, without regrets, without fear, and I can realize my dreams.

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