Can time solve this problem?

It's this kind of thing again, reading what you wrote reminds me of the scene I had back then, it's really like, thinking about the things of that time, I can't help but want to cry, I think you should not be as old as me, my sister and my husband were also unanimously opposed by the family, we have to break up, my husband is seven years older than me, and he is divorced, no children, but I really like him, he also takes care of me in every way, loves me very much, and says that a second-married man is a treasure, because he has these life experiences, It's like being baptized and precipitated by life and becoming very reliable. But the family always thinks that I am a very good girl, how can I marry such a person, but they will not understand the bitterness and joy in it.

Our parents were born in the fifties and sixties, and their marriage methods at that time were not free, and they were basically arranged, so they would not understand what young people now think about relationships, and generally think that they should get married first and then cultivate feelings, although they are all for the happiness of their children.

I don't want to give up our relationship, we have gone through a lot of ups and downs, and every day when I come home is a fierce quarrel and a one-sided view of my husband, I don't have the strength to refute it, because my parents have brought my relatives together to persuade me, and I can't afford it. I decided to go my own way, and in 08 I resolutely decided to leave the house and run to my husband...

Facts have proved that my trust in my husband is not wrong, he is very filial, and finally got the tacit approval of the family through his efforts and efforts in the later period, and now we also have a baby, the family is also happy, I have long forgotten the unhappiness of the year, here I am really grateful to my parents for their understanding of us, we will always love you.

I believe that every parent loves their children, and I myself now deeply understand that no matter what choice you make, your parents will eventually forgive you, there is no doubt about this, but in some things they think they will be better that leads to contradictions and prejudices.

Okay, that's all, it's time for me to feed the baby, and finally faithfully wish you happiness. (Looking forward to a good result, please inform you here.)

If you like it, you have to fight for it; At the same time, it is also necessary to appease the feelings of the two elders on both sides, and communicate more with results

What's the use of liking it, you can compare it, what point is not as good as your own liking, if you are too poor, you can fight for it, there is no difference or slight difference, you have to consider it, to meet the actual status quo Now such a competitive society can also take care of what you like, the family will not harm you will also choose a good one for you, think twice, I am a person from the past, I wish you happiness.

Sorrowful!!! Such a ridiculous thing in such an age!

Everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, and they insist on forcing themselves to marry someone they don't like, how to accept it in their hearts.

Even if you don't have to worry about food and clothing in the future, what can you do?

If you can't be with the person you love the most, you will have regrets in your heart in the future!

Life is short, there are a few 10 years and 20 years, and when you are old, everything becomes light, and material things will not be important.

If you believe that the person you love can give you a good future, go for it, I don't think he will be bad enough to **, there are too many office workers in this society, and there are a few who can't live or starve to death!

Do happy things with your loved ones! It's the happiest thing in life!

If you are truly happy, your parents will understand you one day! Looking back on the past, it will be bleak!

What age is this?

Girl, perseverance is victory!

The key is that you don't like that man, explain it to your family. How can you still force marriage.

Time may solve the problem when communicating with parents, but sometimes it will not help.

This question is really tangled, I think the only way is to get your parents' understanding, so that they can accept the one you like, and also, you can't be negative yourself, you have to fight hard, your happiness is in your own hands, come on.

It's really confusing and depressing to encounter this kind of thing now. For things like this, I think it might be better to start with two sides, first of all, the person your parents introduced to you may be very successful, but no one is perfect, and if your parents have a bad feeling for him, then you will be half the success, because I believe that your parents love you.

And in the same way, the person you like, I believe is also very talented, so show it and let your parents know that your choice is not blind.

It's really a good thing to be with the person you like, but my point of view is that the blessing of family and friends is the happiest, you have to admit one thing, that is, the elders' insight and analytical ability you definitely can't reach, they have their own opinions and opinions, you must know that the starting point of your parents is for your good, because of the opposition of your family, it is a pity not to be able to be with the person you love, because of the person you like and turn against your family is the biggest sorrow in life, you weigh it yourself, which is important, I have seen a lot of your type, But most of them are unhappy resentful women, time can't solve the problem, and when you become a parent one day, you will understand your parents' previous hearts, as the old saying goes: a misstep into a thousand years of hatred I wish you happiness!! Economic foundation + blessings from family and friends + choice + liking + looking forward to the future = a lifetime of happiness.

Yes, it's really good, time can explain everything, it can solve all time problems, summarize some problems, and with the passage of time, any problem can be solved. Talk about time.

1. I like that your time is called two years, and the process is called sad.

2. Time is the soil of all achievements in the world. Time gives pain to the dreamer and happiness to the creator.

3. Sporadic time, if it can be used agilely, can become complete time. The so-called "accumulation of soil into a mountain" is also, it is easy to lose a day, and there is no way to get it back.

4. The most ruthless thing is not people, but time; The most precious thing is not money, but emotions.

5. Rainy days are the time for me to cry out loud because no one can see what I miss in my heart.

6. In the gap between time and reality, youth is as fragile as air-dried paper, just like beauty.

7. The taste of missing a person is like drinking a large glass of ice water, and then it takes a long, long time to shed into tears.

8. You said that everyone should move forward, don't live in imagination, time has changed us.

9. If the time of youth is spent in idleness, then it will be a bleak tragedy to recall the years.

10. Time is the wealth of people, all wealth, just as time is the wealth of the country, because any wealth is the result of the combination of time and action.

11. One minute of time, one point of achievement. For scientists, it is not eight hours a day, but every inch of yin must be cherished, and every inch of yang must be contended!

12. Memory is a light in the long river of time, and I can't swim against the current.

13, you pretended to love me for so long, are you really not impressed?

That is to say, no matter what, as long as there is time, everything can be solved, or you can see through everything, and time is the best proof.

Time is a real number and can change a lot of things. You can change everything. It is also a matter of time to do it, and it is also a matter of time.

Man lives. In order to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard.

Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live.

If you are sad and sad, you have to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because that's how life is.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Yes, many people don't believe it, but the facts will prove.

Time is both a poison and an antidote.

Yes... Time wears everything away ...