How should you live your newlywed life, and how should you spend your life after marriage?

Every family has a difficult scripture, first discuss with your husband to persuade them to leave, if you don't succeed, don't become benevolent, go out with your husband to travel, Hainan and Yunnan are good honeymoon locations, guaranteed to be cooler than the honeymoon at home.

In fact, this situation is based on their consciousness, and it is not very convenient to live in someone else's house after all.

If they don't feel it, you can talk to your husband about it, or use some methods, such as making jokes about something in your daily life.

And why did they come to live with you?

If you still can't do it, I think you can talk to your husband's sister, after all, it's more convenient for women to talk to each other.

I hope mine can help you.

To add. Of course it's not your problem, but in that case, I think the problem lies with your husband's sister and brother-in-law.

I just don't know why they came to live with you.

Isn't it to go and leave after a few days, just to stay, they are also married, how can they not understand any politeness?

But no matter what, as long as you discuss it with your husband, everything will be solved, don't make noise.

It's very inappropriate, whether it's a newlywed or a long time married, you can't be like that, it's okay to stay for a day or two, and it's annoying for a long time. Support you. Don't quarrel, your husband understands you, I'm sure.

We don't know about your family, but less than half a month after you and your husband got married, your sister and brother-in-law came to live in your new home.

Quarrels will not solve the problem I can talk to my husband calmly about my thoughts and believe that my husband will handle it properly.

It's excessive! Then adults should also understand that you have just gotten married! It's not even over the honeymoon yet!

You and your husband go to your husband's brother-in-law's sister's house.

can only say that they are too eyeless to see.

The new life order brought about by marriage is completely different from Dong Xiao's pre-marital love period, and the newlywed period is a transitional and stable period. So, how do we adapt to married life during marriage?

1.Manage your relationship with your family.

After getting married, as a daughter-in-law, she should fulfill the relevant responsibilities and take care of her mother-in-law like a parent. But if you're not satisfied, you'd better discuss it with your husband before deciding on a solution.

Young couples who live with their parents should pay more attention to the relationship with the family and the distribution of household chores. They need to be prepared. Their parents-in-law may have a lot of behaviors that you find unacceptable and they can't change. It's better to accept it optimistically than to turn the other cheek.

Newlyweds can be divided into three phases: after the honeymoon lasts for three months, the helpless period follows. Life has gone into normalcy, but it can't adapt to this new life.

It feels overwhelmed by some things in its new life and can't find a solution; Finally, the arrival of stability varies from person to person. At this time, we have become accustomed to each other's families and are beginning to feel a sense of belonging.

2.It is necessary to gradually adapt to the living habits of the family.

Because both parties grew up in different families, they had to have different living habits. Some habits can be in conflict and conflict with each other, which can only be discovered by both parties in married life. If your partner really makes you unhappy with your habits, don't ask him to change immediately.

You should know that it takes a long time and determination to give up an inherent habit, and you can't rely on it for a while. Help each other in the long future!

3.Take care of household chores and finances.

Generally speaking, marriage brings a new order of life. Sharing household chores and handling finances is different from when you're in a relationship. Women are usually passionate about housework.

They can assign to him chores that are easy for a man to do, such as throwing out the trash. Washing dishes and so on. If the economy allows, hiring a full-time or hourly babysitter is the best strategy, as people are usually physically and mentally exhausted after work, and it is easy to run away from each other's responsibilities after a long time of marriage, which will become a fuse for couples to quarrel.

Married men and women often miss the scene of earning money and spending their own money before marriage. They complained that once they got married and had a family, the money should be used for their parents, while their partners constantly monitored their expenses. They are under tremendous psychological pressure.

Therefore, we should deal with these issues properly.

4.Physiological problems should be dealt with properly.

Modern youth are relatively open-minded, premarital cohabitation is common, and contraceptive knowledge is richer than that of the previous generation. However, for some couples who restart their married life after marriage, contraceptive planning should be considered 3 to 4 months before marriage.

Marriage is a lifelong relationship, but people of different ages also have different views on marriage shirts.

1. For young people (20-30 years old):

1.Before marriage, you should seriously consider your own views and values about marriage. Identify your own marital goals and expectations, and communicate and consult with your partner adequately to ensure that you are on the same page in your life together.

2.Before marriage, it is important to fully understand the couple's family background, personality and living habits, which will help you better adapt to married life.

3.Before marriage, you can make some necessary premarital preparations, such as learning how to handle quarrels, financial management, etc., to help you better cope with difficulties and challenges in your marriage.

2. For middle-aged people (30-50 years old):

1.After marriage, it is necessary to maintain good communication and mutual understanding. With a stable married life, it's easy to get into the nitty-gritty of everyday life, so you'll need to put in the time and effort to stay close to your partner.

2.After marriage, we should also respect and support each other's personal growth and development. In marriage, personal growth can be limited, so you need to support your partner in pursuing their interests and dreams.

3.Balance in family life, especially between work and family, is valued. If you're a busy professional, you need to find a way to balance your home life and work in harmony.

3. For the elderly (50 years old and above):

1.Be passionate and romantic after marriage. As you get older, it's easy to feel tired and stressed, so you'll need to find ways to stay passionate and romantic, such as traveling together, trying new activities, and more.

2.After marriage, focus on health and a healthy lifestyle. As you age, your body will also face different challenges, so you need to pay attention to your health and healthy lifestyle.

3.Focus on the future of the family and prepare for retirement. As you get older, you need to think about your family's future and prepare for retirement, including financial and savings issues.

If our married life is the same as we once imagined. That may not be the real world. But we can manage our married life towards our own imaginary married life.

Because all good married life is earned by one's own hard work. Because there will never be pie in the sky, everything depends on our own hard work and hard work.

My marriage to my husband. It wasn't all smooth sailing. At that time, I had just graduated from college, and it was my mother who made the decisions for me, and then found me my current husband.

Of course, it was only my mother who introduced me, not my mother. Let me marry him. In the end, I chose him to fall in love with him, and then I chose him.

I was particularly conflicted when I chose him at the time. Because I also have my own narrow minds. It is also because of this narrow-mindedness that he always bumped in the early days of his marriage.

I didn't make myself feel the joy of marriage. But maybe he is still too young to understand that marriage requires management and hard work, because pie will fall from the sky. Just enjoy it yourself.

What a ridiculous thing to think about now. But that's what I thought at the time, which shows that my thinking was very naïve at that time. So what I envy now are those who know how to love their children when they just get married?

How do you love your husband? Because I think they're smart. It's also very mature.

God will definitely favor the wise, but he will never favor the unmanaged. I was such a person at the time, but as I grew up, I slowly understood. I understand how important my children are, how important my husband is, and how important my family is.

Only if you love others first, others will love you. Only when you treat others as treasures will others treat you as treasures.

My married life is pretty good now, and every day the family works happily together and enjoys food together. When we have time, we bask in the sun together and talk. You can also.

Clean up your own home. Apply the family life you once imagined to your own life. It's not exactly the same, but it's working toward that goal.

I am enjoying my married life now and I am grateful to have been with my children and my husband all the time, thank them for being there. Because of them, I feel happy and happy.

To live a good married life and make a happier marriage, only by truly learning to manage a marriage and learning to communicate with your family members in a friendly way will you achieve good results.

Therefore, communication is not only very important in work, but also very important in life, we must learn to respect and understand the form of communication, the following points to do:

1.Try to be more understanding of others.

When you communicate with others, it is best to learn to understand others, if the other party's personality is more sunny and cheerful, then we don't have to be too serious, and if the other party is a more serious character, then when we communicate with others, we must fully understand and respect them, to communicate carefully and carefully, if the other party is a friend who doesn't know much, it is best to maintain respect and appropriate communication on daily topics.

2.It is important to be tolerant and respectful of others.

When we encounter problems that we don't understand, we should ask others for advice, respect others when communicating, don't talk endlessly, but learn to remain silent, let the other party express their opinions more, and when we encounter things we don't understand, don't rush to express them, we should learn to listen carefully, and give people a humble and serious attitude.

3.Exchange topics of mutual interest.

When communicating with others, everyone likes to communicate their own topics of interest and like to express their knowledge to others, so we must first learn to understand and listen to others' opinions, so that the other party can feel your sincerity and feel that communicating with you is a very pleasant process, because everyone hopes that they can be understood and respected by others, and more exchanges of each other's expertise and knowledge are precisely to understand each other and have a common language with each other.

4.Learn to listen genuinely and politely.

When communicating with others, it is necessary to learn to listen carefully and carefully, do not interrupt others, and listen more patiently, so as to understand and respect others, and only in this way can we reflect our sincerity and modesty and courtesy, so as to gain true friendship.

5.Complimenting the other person is a form of respect.

It is also a kind of recognition of the other party's performance, when communicating with others, if we can properly express praise for the opinions expressed by others, this is undoubtedly to give the other party a feeling of respect and recognition, the other party will also very much agree with our understanding and respect, and the other party will also have a new understanding of us, effectively promote the happiness and smoothness of communication.

I think married life is a new life, and talking about it may change your previous lifestyle, so don't feel the change in the way you live and make you feel stressed, but you should experience more of the happiness it brings you.