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I think first of all, we should not have a certain prejudice against a divorced man, and at the same time, we should also see if this man is worth getting along with and associating. Maybe we didn't have our first love, and we didn't fall in love. I don't think this can be a condition for us to choose a partner on the path of love.
Many times when choosing a boyfriend, you don't care about these objective factors, but consider whether the two people are really suitable.
At the same time, it seems to me that men who have gone through divorce may have some advantages that they can still see clearly in their relationship because they have been in a failed relationship and they tend to feel more in the next relationship. Cherish it, and at the same time they will also know how to love someone and make the relationship between two people longer, so divorced men may also have some advantages in their relationship. Of course, maybe you are dating a divorced man, and you will feel that it is unfair to you, and you will also feel that you are at a disadvantage.
I think you should get rid of this kind of thinking and try to understand the person, but you find that when this person is really not suitable for you, say goodbye to him, don't be too extreme, and face this person with your truest side. And I believe that you will be able to face this person bravely, and at the same time correct some misconceptions in your life. Maybe many times we will find that when we correct our opinions, everything is not a problem, and I also hope to find someone who has the same personality as you and sincerely gives you a sincere heart.
I wish you all the best in your relationship.
On a blind date, there will always be some man who is obviously not interested in you and is not willing to take the time to get to know you, but he is willing to marry you as long as you want to. For him, either because of age or because his family is too anxious, he doesn't care who the other party is, whether it's you or someone else, he just wants to find someone and let him get married completely. things.
Like this kind of man just wants to get married for the sake of marriage, and even make it clear that he will not interfere with each other, after marriage, he does not want to have a good relationship with you, no matter how handsome or rich he is, you better think twice.
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I think it's okay to ask for it, because such a man has graceful life experience, can understand what the other party is thinking, and can more perfectly mediate the relationship between husband and wife.
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This must first understand his character, his inner qualities, if he is responsible, caring, able to bear hardships and stand hard work, you can consider it, but also from other aspects, but also combined with the opinions of family members.
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No, these men are very shrewd, and if they were with them, they would seriously damage their freedom.
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To tell the truth about this question, as long as you are a person who has never been married, and you meet a divorced person on a blind date, whether it is a man or a woman, there is something wrong in your heart. Men will think why I should marry a second-married woman, and women will think why I don't marry an unmarried young man and accept this disposition that others don't want.
Divorce is not the key to the problem, what is the reason for the divorce of the other party, and whether his character is passable is the core of our concern. Because the current cost of marriage is almost exhausting at least one generation for most people, especially men, so who wants to divorce unless it is absolutely necessary? Therefore, most of the divorces in modern society are almost proposed by women, why, because women think that there are more men and fewer women, they do not worry about leaving the family, and the cost of marriage is almost all paid by the man, and they can change to a new one, of course, there is no reverence for marriage.
Because some of the two parties are emotionally incompatible, fate has been exhausted and divorced, after the divorce in order to find a new half, you should not mind the party in this situation, you should care about the other party, maybe you are the Ruyi Jun she is looking for, maybe she is the half of your life to meet and know each other. For the sake of personal happiness, it is undoubtedly necessary to mind the remedies who abandon their original home and live an unruly life outside the home, because this kind of person will not be able to accompany you through thick and thin for a lifetime.
Everyone wants the first person they love to be their Snow White or Prince Charming, but that's not always the case. Some people are lucky and the first person they meet is the person of their own life, and some people are unlucky, and then their marriage may fail.
It's normal to mind, but the main thing I think is feelings. Whether you love this person or not, when you love this person, everyone's shortcomings can be ignored. When talking about marriage, the very real problem is that the first knot has never been married, and the second is whether he has children with his ex.
After all, love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families. Of course, look at this from a very rational point of view. Divorced people must regard feelings as secondary and reality as more important, after all, they have been hurt.
So, if you love someone, you love her well. If you get married, you can live well. No one wants a divorce.
Blind date is to prepare for future life, and it should be more important to recognize reality. You are excellent and you love him, then you should keep these things in mind. Start anew.
No matter what you encounter in the future, you must face it calmly.
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I think a boy has a past, and a married boy is okay, it depends on his character and whether the three views are correct or not, and whether you have a good impression of him.
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When you go on a blind date, you can also have a married man, as long as you really like it, it doesn't matter.
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If you are married, it depends on whether he has children, if you have children, try not to, especially when you are in good condition and have no children, it is best not to choose such a man if you are single, because having children will affect your relationship. If he has a good career, he can consider it.
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It's not okay to ask for it, because these men are married for the second time, and they don't deserve themselves at all, and these men are also very bad to themselves, so they can't ask for it.
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Can't ask for it, because they are already married, and it is best not to say yes before they do not know why they divorced, divorced men are generally not very reliable.
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Yes, although the other party is already married, there are many divorced men who are also better, and they can't look at a person with a one-sided eye.
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I think there is nothing wrong with a married man, if he is financially okay and has no children, then you can choose to be with him, but it also depends on whether the other party has a good personality and a good temper, these are all things to pay attention to.
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In fact, it doesn't matter if a man is married or not, because when he goes on a blind date, he may not go through the baptism of marriage, and he knows how to manage a marriage. Therefore, the main thing is to look at the character and the person.
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I don't think this man's divorce is necessarily because of other people's personal factors, so the condition of being married cannot be used as a negative condition, you have to see how he is.
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Now the divorce rate is very high, since it is a divorce, it must be a divorce between a man and a woman, whether it is a man or a woman, divorce is a price to pay for choosing to make a wrong decision before, so a man who has been married, he does not necessarily say that it is not good, and it is not possible to want it, it depends on his own consideration to understand.
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Can a man who was married on a blind date have it? I think it depends on whether you like this man or not if you like it? If all the conditions are for you to like, then you can still date him and finally get married.
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A man who was married on a blind date, whether you can want it depends on what the man is like? Good no good? If the divorce is because of her problems, or if there are some minor problems or some big problems, I think it's better not to get married.
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Whether a man can have it or not, whether he has been married or not is not the most important, as long as his character and ability in all aspects, you think it is suitable.
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What's not to ask for in this? You are not going to pick goods, so whether you can ask for goods, you are going to pick people, people who have lived with you for a lifetime, as long as he can be really good to you, then you can be with him.
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If you are married and have no children, you can consider it, plus is it the type you like, what are his personal conditions? How's the work? Do you have a heart for him, if the conditions are met, you can also talk together, you can try it.
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If you have to pay attention to the fact that this man has been married when you go on a blind date, if you have been married, you must say hello, for what reason? But it is impossible for all married men to be bad men after divorce, but you must understand this man.
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First of all, you have to understand why this man is divorced, and it depends on the man's personality and ability, only if you understand it, you will know whether to continue or not.
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When going on a blind date, men who have been married are actually not the first choice for many women who are married for the first time, but for their own happiness, many women will also respect it.
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Nowadays, divorce is a very normal phenomenon in society. When you meet a married man on a blind date, it is important to understand the reasons for the divorce, and then talk about it after his marriage attitude understands everything.
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You can't believe what he says. How do you know what the hell is their cause. Stay a little longer, and don't let yourself regret it for life. You've been together for a short time now. It's the same as the previous paragraph.
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Married men know how to love someone better because they have experience in marriage, so they know how to tolerate themselves.
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If he doesn't have children himself, I don't think there will be too many problems, so you don't have to think about it so much.
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You're on a blind date, not buying something. If you can't accept a married man in your own heart, if you can't accept it at all, then you don't have to think about that.
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Married men. Blind date again. Then you have to find out the reason for his divorce. Some men are still credible, probably because of various reasons, and they have gone to divorce. Yes, every divorced man is unreliable.
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When our relatives and friends bless us, we will have a kind of confidence and confidence from the inside out, and we have enough understanding of each other's families, which means that both of us are fully prepared for the rest of our lives. When both parties have a sufficient sense of security, they will dispel the fear of marriage, and both have the ability to withstand the practical pressure brought by marriage, so that we will tolerate each other's past and believe in each other's future. I have a full understanding of each other's personalities, and I already have a clear understanding of his economic conditions, family situation and career development.
1. If two people are acquainted on a blind date, then they can consider getting married in about half a year to a year, of course, some people may have a shorter time and get married after knowing each other for about three months, but most people will choose to spend about half a year to a year.
2. After getting to know each other on a blind date, if two people don't feel about each other, they may break up in three months or half a year.
3. Because people are very busy with their careers and the pace of life is very fast, many people are not looking for a partner, and there are many single men and women, so they have to rely on their families or friends to introduce them to each other. Some were even forced to marry by their families. In fact, the blind date ultimately has a purpose, to find a suitable person to marry, that is, if the other party's conditions are okay in all aspects, then regardless of love, they will generally get married.
When two people get along, they will show the best side to each other, and at the same time, both sides have their own shortcomings, and shortcomings. It is necessary to understand each other in depth and detail. If you want to fully understand a person, in addition to understanding the other person's temperament, behavior, living habits, etc.
It is also necessary to understand the other person's past and social background, which will involve the future life and whether they will be happy. Therefore, it is impossible to get into it in depth in a short period of time.
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Two people know each other on a blind date, first of all, you must see each other's character, family relationship, work situation, the other party really loves you, and you can get married at this time
First, it depends on his character, his relationship with his family, and his relationship with colleagues and friends. If you have a close relationship with your family and are friendly with your colleagues and friends, this man is still more reliable.
If the man does not have a good relationship with his family, then the man is unreliable. Even if it's good for you, it's temporary, or pretended.
Second: It can be observed in the details of life, if a man is scheming everywhere, he is not suitable for marrying him.
Third: you can look at his ability to work. If you are not motivated at work and keep making excuses for not being promoted, this kind of man cannot be married, and it will be painful for a lifetime if he marries.
A woman's greatest sorrow is to marry an incompetent man.
Fourth: see if he has the courage to take responsibility. If you excuse yourself for any mistakes, complain about others, and shirk responsibility, this kind of man can't marry.
Fifth, the way money is used.
One saving, one wasteful, for example, when you receive a utility bill every month, the party that may save will complain
Why do you always forget to turn off the lights? Why do I keep the water on when brushing my teeth? One buys it when he likes it, and the other always buys a bargain ......The difference in the use of money and the difference in the way of buying things actually contains the difference in the whole value.
Sixth, family matters.
In fact, it not only includes the question of who should do how much housework, but also some trivial things that need to be paid attention to: for example, a love to throw it around, a hanger and a hanger are almost the same distance between them; One loves to collect everything, and the other magazine is disposed of as garbage after reading it; Even as small as squeezing toothpaste, small things add up to big ones, and such details often become the fuse of a big noise.
He often travels on business, before getting married, you should think that it may be like this after marriage, marriage is not child's play, you choose it yourself, don't think about divorce if you are a little unsatisfactory. Find an appropriate time to talk to him and see what he thinks. If he is just for work reasons, you should understand him more, after all, marriage requires two people to understand each other and be considerate of each other; If he is just young and fun-loving, maybe he has not yet entered the role of a husband, he has not realized that he has said goodbye to his single life, he has not realized his responsibility as a husband, he is still just a boy at all, if this is the case, you may need to be patient, let him understand the definition of home, let him try to do something for the person he loves, let him grow up slowly, this is what you should do! >>>More
Well, it's not good to say, to put it simply, temper, character, personality, ideas, aspirations, these are all things that can be changed, even temperament and virtue can be corrected, and what can't be changed if it's bad at 1 point, and what's bad, maybe it's him, if not, maybe it's not him, isn't it? >>>More
She shouldn't be serious, if she likes you, she won't treat you like this, it feels like she's just using you, if one day you don't give her money and material comforts, she should just leave, go to the next one, use their love for her, and get what she wants.
You can move, why can't you move, you don't have to prepare a wedding room to get married, and the sofa has to move. There are so many people when you get married, you don't move, and there are so many relatives who will move, I personally think that modern people don't think so much.
These boys are so extreme, I'm not the same, o( o....Haha, just kidding, you can take the initiative to talk to him and tell him that you are good friends, and personally I think he is grateful to you more than porridge, well, that's it, thank you.