Can girls and boys be simple friends?

Updated on workplace 2024-05-01
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    These boys are so extreme, I'm not the same, o( o....Haha, just kidding, you can take the initiative to talk to him and tell him that you are good friends, and personally I think he is grateful to you more than porridge, well, that's it, thank you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Sometimes pure friendship will evolve into love, I think the woman can control herself to have a pure friendship, but the man can't, they tend to misunderstand love with the woman's pure concern, hip-hopping, naughty, etc., he subconsciously turns this love into love. Man has a kind of subconscious, unconsciously, and it is possible that he does not notice this transformation either. In today's society, I think it will be very difficult to get pure friends of the opposite sex.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, as long as the two of them can let go. I think maybe he was just confused. Because he didn't find a girl who was good to him, a girl he liked.

    In such a contrasting situation, he will have a kind of confusion, seeing an illusion. When he finds someone he likes, the friendship between you can be restored. But you haven't done anything embarrassing to you yet.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe, you first decide whether you like him or not, if you like him, continue with him, if you don't feel it, be friends! I believe that there is a simple friendship between men and women! Because I have a very simple friend of the opposite sex!

    She's a college classmate! We've been at the same table for three years! At first, the students in our class thought we were a couple!

    But we ourselves know it's not! Later, we both had our own lovers! But our relationship hasn't changed at all!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can tell him what is in your heart and let him know not to lose a good friend for nothing.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    How can a stupid girl, a man, a woman, have a pure friendship, it's impossible, and even if there is, the relationship is ambiguous.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Either be friends or be lovers There are only two choices.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. A: No, in essence, it is the same whether a girl will simply regard a boy as a friend and whether a boy will simply treat a girl as a friend.

    I don't dare to say absolutely, but most of them are more or less mixed with some careful thoughts, if you say no, it may be that you haven't found it, or you think it's not a superfluous idea.

    Answer: No, in essence, it is the same whether girls will simply treat boys as friends and whether boys will simply treat girls as friends. I don't dare to say absolutely, but most of them are more or less mixed with some careful thoughts, if you say no, it may be that you didn't find it, or you think it's not a superfluous idea.

    Oh my God, you've said a great job! Can you elaborate on that?

    A: Guys really think of girls as buddies. Pure friendship is a kind of emotion that comes from a two-way (or interactive) relationship, that is, the two sides are the same as the condensed emotion, which must be maintained together, and any unilateral overture or deviation cannot be called friendship.

    Friendship takes intimacy as the core ingredient, and intimacy has become an important indicator of the degree of friendship.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello or waiting, boys and girls maintain a good friendship relationship, when getting along, don't always stick together, there must be a certain sense of distance, not far and not close to the distance will get along better, because long-term getting along often together will produce some unnecessary troubles, there will be some contradictions, so to keep a distance not far away. Don't have expectations between the sexes, get along with girls like buddies, and brotherly feelings must get along to keep this friendship alive, if you have different ideas about girls, this friendship can't be kept simple. Do the following:

    First, men and women are friends who grew up together, and they share the same values and worldview, and men and women can cherish each other. The interaction between people, whether they are of the same sex or the opposite sex, in order to maintain a long-term and stable relationship between each other, must be the result of the joint efforts of both parties.

    Second, friends should know how to understand each other. Everyone is this independent, friends usually because of their own living conditions, can not often contact each other, busy, do not even have time to reply to each other's messages, when the other party is sad, can not be with each other's side, must know how to understand each other, do not rely too much on each other.

    Third, to maintain a long-term friendship between friends of the opposite sex, the most important thing is to grasp the distance and scale of getting along. In the friendship between boyfriend and girlfriend, you must figure out your own emotions, that is, whether you have more feelings for each other than between friends. Men and women can become good friends, both sides must appreciate each other, once this appreciation is invested in other emotions, then, this friendship will no longer be as simple as friends, both of you are likely to come together, if you both have no object, the probability will be higher.

    Therefore, if a boy wants to maintain a long-term friendship with a girl, he must keep a distance from the other party after recognizing his feelings, and don't let the other party have unnecessary misunderstandings. To a certain extent, since they are good friends, there is no expectation and idea that there is a opposite sex, just like the relationship between good brothers is relatively simple, and the friendship will last for a long time.

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