Live for the future, the past is the future

You only come once in a lifetime.

If you don't love someone, let go so that others have a chance to love her.

If the person you love has given up on you, please let go of yourself, so that you can have the opportunity to love others Some things you like will not belong to you, and some things you are nostalgic are destined to give up, there are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love become a kind of harm.

Some fate is destined to be lost, some fate will never end well, you don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love him well.

The man cries because he really loves;

The woman cries because she really gave up.

If sincerity is a hurt, I choose to lie;

If a lie is a disservice, I choose silence;

If silence is a hurt, I choose to leave.

If loss is suffering, are you afraid to pay.

If confusion is bitter, you won't choose to end.

If the pursuit is suffering, will you choose to be obsessed?

If separation is suffering, who do you want to confide in, many things are seen clearly later, and many things are not bitter at all, but I can't find the way to come.

There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but it is impossible to say that there is a kind of love. , I want to give up, but I can't give up.

There is a kind of love, which I know is torment, but I can't open it.

There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward. But the heart has long been unable to be recovered.

I cried the moment I decided to give up on you, and my tears proved that I really love you.

Let's never mention a breakup, okay?

Loving you is not a game. Loving you is genuine. I can't do it without you.

Regardless of whether our solution is perfect or not, hook your fingers and say yes and no more breakups.

What is Courage? Is it crying to make you love me, or crying to let you go.

The Cantonese version is called the Lonely Race.

There is a book that is very popular called The Power of the Moment. When Luo Zhenyu interpreted Zeng Guofan, he also said that Zeng Guofan's philosophy of life is that the past is not loved, the future is not welcome, and the present is not mixed. Trying to do the things of the moment and doing the things of the present well is the most successful place.

I believe that many people also agree with such a view. But if you think about it, it's not enough to have such a view. We must not only live in the present, but also in the future.

To live in the present is to do every little thing seriously and well. But I don't know if you have ever thought that if you don't have a goal and expectation for the future, in fact, there are many things to do well at the moment, which ones should be done seriously, and which ones should be discarded, the degree of this trade-off is difficult to grasp, it is impossible to do everything personally, in that case, you can't grasp the key point at all. I will also make the mistake of being involved in everything, but not being able to master anything.

Therefore, living in the present is actually a kind of accumulation of the future, and only by having goals and expectations for the future can we better understand what we should do now, because the accumulation of the present will be presented in the future.

As mentioned in the previous part, the accumulation of the present is to be able to blossom and bear fruit in the future, and in the same way, living in the future is to be able to do what you are doing now or what you have been doing according to what you have done, and you will definitely achieve that result in the future. At the same time, you must unswervingly believe in your own judgment, and practice it in the present according to your own results, in fact, this is called living in the future. Because you've been living in the present according to the outcome of the future, in a sense you're living in the future.

Therefore, there is no contradiction between living in the future and living in the present, because as long as you have the goal and expectation of living in the future, then you will understand what you should do in the present to achieve the expected results in the future.

Truth be told, this one requires personal judgment. Only by constantly improving your analytical judgment and future trend can you better believe in what you should do at the moment.

But there are some universal truths that are necessarily true, and these truths are generally overlooked. To give you a simple example, it's like knowledge is power. This is a truth that everyone knows, but is generally overlooked, because everyone thinks that this truth is too simple, and the truth that is really useful should not be so simple.

But the reality is the opposite, the most useful is actually the simplest truth that we ignore, just think about how many people have suffered in this area.

In the same way, if you can implement this simple truth in every day and every hour of your life, continue to learn knowledge, improve yourself, upgrade your understanding, monetize your knowledge, and create content, whether it is writing a book, or publishing the Internet, or an article, or answering questions, this is the only way to sell multiple copies of the same time infinitely, so as to maximize the income of your time.

Any simple truth is the most useful, the key is whether you firmly believe and firmly implement it.