What are the important aspects of parenting?

Parents should not miss the 4 points of cultivating their children's reading habits, and "balance" is the key and challenge in the process of parenting. The key to parenting is always the word "balance": on the one hand, parents should love and comfort their children, but also guide, limit and restrain their children; On the other hand, parents need to allow their children to try new things on their own, to allow them to take risks, make choices and explore the outside world, and to allow them to fall and get back up.

Parents face the challenge of balancing power on a daily basis – we have to assert authority without having control over our children. Nowadays, reading has become an indispensable and important part of today's life, the more time you spend reading, the more knowledgeable, the more knowledgeable, the smarter, so, how to cultivate children's reading habits? 1. Keep books within reach of your child.

At home, to make it easier for your child to read, place your child's favorite books closest to their bedside or set up a special reading corner. 2. Parents should recommend books suitable for children to their children, and pay attention to their children's interests and the level of their acceptance. 3-5 years old to the picture of the master with few words, 6 to 7 years old to the bridge book with pinyin, gradually transition to text-only books.

To cultivate children's interest in reading, parents should also help children develop more scientific reading habits. Set the reading time as a special time for parents and children to read together, parents can read and listen to children, or parents and children can discuss while reading. Parents can learn some knowledge about this area on their own, and then provide it to their children.

When the child does not understand the meaning of reading, parents can tell her more stories or aphorisms about the benefits of reading, so that the child can know that reading is indeed beneficial to people. You can also use the display method of WeChat check-in to cultivate children's reading persistence.

Raising children, spiritual well-being is more important than material wealth. Children who are nourished by their parents with love from an early age will have more confidence and security than other children, and will also have more confidence to try and fight. Sun Li and Deng Chao, a star couple, both suffered from the harm of their original families when they were children, but when they grew up, they became parents and created a family full of love and warmth for their children.

There are many important links, at this time it is necessary to protect the child's self-esteem, and it is also necessary to play with the child more, to be by the child's side, in the process of parenting need to teach the child a lot of knowledge, but also need to pay attention to safety issues.

Learn to empathize, teach children correctly, understand children's real thoughts, pay attention to children's emotions, and learn to communicate with children.

Many parents don't know that when raising children, they must first raise their children, and some parents may first say, of course, their children's academic performance. Today, I want to tell you that in fact, children's academic performance is not the first part of our education.

I think that quality education is a very important thing, there are many parents will ignore their children's quality education, as long as the child's academic performance is good, parents will think that their child is a perfect person. The idea of perfection is very wrong, to say that our children do not have any qualities, do not know how to respect others. Then, even if your child has achieved very good grades, in the minds of others, they will think that your child is a very unqualified person.

We must pay attention to cultivating children's quality education, when the child throws garbage, you have to tell the child, these wrong behaviors, let the child pick up the garbage and throw it in the trash.

It is very incorrect to find that some bear children will destroy other people's things at will in public places, or take other people's things. We have to tell children that it is very important to form a mechanism when they are outside, things that are not their own, do not touch them, and if they want to play, they must follow the consent of others. In this way, you can play this thing, otherwise, it will also make others think that you are a very unqualified person.

Educating children is not as simple as everyone thinks, but it is not as difficult as everyone thinks, as long as we let children develop a lot of good habits. Then, the child can become a very good person, there are many highly talented students, if they have no quality, then they will not be looked down upon by others, and they will also let others use this to play on the topic. Therefore, if we don't want others to grasp our children's little handles, we should not neglect quality education.

First of all, we must cultivate children to have the correct three views and values, and we must train children to be honest, polite, and be a useful person.

The most important thing is to raise the child's morality, and the child's correct three views should also raise the child's hands-on ability, which will only require the child's grades after these are good.

The main thing is the health of raising children, the health of children is the most important, and other aspects should be built on this foundation.

In the process of raising children, we must respect children, pay attention to children's physical health, pay attention to children's mental health, avoid psychological diseases, and then we should also think from the perspective of children.

It is necessary to respect the development of children's personalities, respect children's interests and hobbies, create a particularly good scene for children, let children protect themselves, and strengthen gender education.

Choose the right education according to the child's personality, be good at discovering the child's interests, and encourage the child often. What kind of family education produces what kind of children, parents play a very important role in the growth of children, they are a strong backing on the road of children's life, children need the continuous encouragement of parents, need the company of parents, but different children have different personalities, we should be good at finding the difference of children, choose the right way of education for children, so as to guide children correctly.

1. Choose the right education according to your child's personality.

Each child is a unique individual, they have their own unique style, encounter problems have their own unique opinions, we should be in the process of educating children should be based on the child's personality for appropriate education, for more introverted children, to take children out to exercise together, let children communicate with more people, meet more friends, for extroverted people, we must be good at discovering children's potential, often encourage children, cultivate children's potential.

2. Be good at discovering children's interests.

Interest is the source of everything, only with interest can we do this better, we can do better, have a perfect result, in the process of educating children, it is very important to be good at discovering children's interests and cultivating them, we can find children's interests by communicating with children or playing with children, and then cultivate them according to children's interests, so that children can do what they like to do.

3. Encourage your child often.

Children need to be constantly encouraged, so that they can realize that their approach is correct, in order to be comforted, therefore, to educate children to encourage children is not to ignore, to be good at discovering children's strengths, to encourage children to do well, so that children can live a better life.

Parents should not put too much pressure on their children, do not enroll them in too many tutoring classes, must respect their own ideas, guide their children to set correct goals, be patient with their children, and accompany them more.

I think that first of all, parents should set a good example, and then establish the correct three views, educate their children with positive things, and tell more meaningful stories to their children to understand.

Parents must be more by their children's side and educate their children to develop correct values.

Parents should focus on their children's education, on their physical health, on their performance, on their mood, and on their attitude.

The important point of parents should be on the moral aspect of the child, because the moral aspect is very important for a child, and it can also reflect the parenting quality of a child, so the focus of parents should be on the moral aspect of the child.

Parents need to focus on their children's mental health, physical health, academic performance, how happy their children are, and their children's well-being.

In the process of raising children, we need to pay attention to the child's diet, the child's life and rest also need to be paid attention to, and the child's every move, so that the child can grow up healthily and strongly, and the child's body can be more comfortable.

We need to pay attention to the fact that the disease comes from the mouth, if we do not pay attention to the child's diet here, it is also likely to cause the child to have a very painful problem, so it is also recommended that parents should put more of their thoughts on the child. Then give your child more nutritious food, which can also make your child more comfortable. Usually we have to choose some healthier diets for children, and choose some more nutritious foods for children, so that children can feel more comfortable, and it can also reduce some problems for children.

We want to let children develop a good habit of going to bed early and getting up early, so that the child's body can be more healthy, and parents should also pay attention to taking their children to exercise. We need to pay attention to the fashion of sports with children, which can also effectively help children improve their resistance and immunity, and can also make their children's bodies healthier. Usually, parents must be more meticulous in raising their children, so as to avoid some problems for their children.

In normal times, we must use a more correct way in the whole process of educating children, so that children can be healthier, and it can also avoid some diseases in children. Parents must put this in their hearts, to make their children healthier, to make their children more comfortable. In the whole process of educating our children, we must not choose to ignore our own children, nor can we choose to ignore our own children.

We must create a particularly good family environment for children, we must choose different education methods according to the different abilities of children, do not hurt children's self-esteem, we must protect children's young hearts, we must take children to exercise more, and we must pay attention to the combination of diet.

They will pay attention to the way of educating children, they will also understand the methods of educating children, they will educate children correctly, they will also learn knowledge in advance, and they will also notice the changes of children, as well as the development of children's character.

I will pay attention to the way I educate my children, I will also pay attention to the process of educating my children, I will also pay attention to the mentality of my children, I will also pay attention to my children's performance, and I will also pay attention to the physical health of my children.

1.Don't panic, make your child feel safe;

2.Don't be anxious, listen to your child, avoid preaching and commanding your child;

3.Don't control, allow your child to play freely and explore independently;

4.Don't over-correct, let the child have the opportunity to make mistakes and fail;

5.Don't be one person, try to understand the child's personality and understand the specific needs of the child at a specific time;

6.Don't stay the same, use boundaries to restrain children, but also guide children with love.

Yesterday I heard this question during the Positive Discipline Parent Instructor Class course briefing:

What do you think are the two most important things about raising children?

I was stunned for a moment when I first heard this question, is it to let children have a good body and good character?

The teacher's answer is: First, establish a good connection with the child. The second is to allow children to enter society independently.

The first point, if I use the view I have accepted before, is that Sun Yunxiao has often said that a good relationship is better than all education. It can be very difficult to make a good connection with your child.

What parent doesn't want to have a good connection with their child, to have a good relationship. However, in life, there are many relationships between parents and children that are incompatible or inseparable. To build a good relationship with your child, you may not be able to take it for granted or inherit it from your parents.

The times are developing, and parents themselves have many limitations, and only by learning can they break through the blind spots and deficiencies in their abilities.

The second point is to let the child Kai Yuxian go into society independently. This is not easy to do. Spiritual independence, life independence, and survival independence all need to be deliberately cultivated.

However, in today's deformed educational environment, parents pay most of their attention to the exam. In order to prepare for the exam, the child's independent wings were cut off without realizing it.

On the other hand, looking at my own parenting road, I attach importance to these two points, and I think I am doing okay. Now that my child is in his third year of high school, he has a good relationship with us and has a certain degree of independence. But I also feel that my children are growing, but as a mother, I have stopped the path of self-growth, and my communication has gradually become obstacles, and my influence on my children is also decreasing.

On the one hand, I accept the status quo in my relationship with my children and admit my own shortcomings. On the other hand, I am also looking for a breakthrough in my own growth. I need to live my own wonderful life, and only by living my own wonderful life can I establish an equal and friendly relationship with my children.

The relationship between childhood and children is only about childhood, and continuous growth can bring continuous nourishment to the relationship.